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 CherryBlossom3
Joined: 6/7/2005
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would anyone out there date a stripper? would you have a serious relationship without asking them to change professions?
 Indigo1
Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 2
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 9:23:19 AM
I am a dancer, and I hope someone says yes!
 rexall002
Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 3
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 9:24:24 AM
I have been having a lot of success on this site!
 Japhus
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 4
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 9:29:22 AM
My father dated a couple and it never worked out...but then there was the whole age difference thing going on.

For this type of relationship to work the guy is going to have to be very, very secure about himself I would think.

It's difficult to say for myself personally, never met a stripper yet that I found I wanted to date. Any of the girls I met when I was still going to clubs all had "serious" issues.

It could work, but that's just another layer of complications on the already hard job of finding "the one".


As for asking them to change professions? No, that's their decision.
 fishless
Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 5
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 9:51:24 AM
Is that an offer?
 wwdragon
Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 6
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 10:05:01 AM
No I wouldn't.

indigo1 said she's a dancer. That's not how your profession is viewed however. Read the subject and you'll see how most people view your job.

Wait, now i would. damit! now i'm divided against myself again.
 hunnylookin121
Joined: 6/28/2005
Msg: 7
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 10:17:46 AM
i actually dated a stripper once for about a year. his profession was never an issue considering that is how i met him. i think that dating a male stripper is a lil worse than dating a female just because of what goes on. him and i had strong feelings for eachother and the only reason we broke up was because he was moving out of state and my life was here. if it hadnt been for that we prolly would still be together. i could have never asked him to change his profession because then i would just be a hyprocrit. which i am not. i actually would go to some of his shows to one support him but also because i loved watching chicks all over him and knowing that he was going home with ME that nite!
 dingedarmor
Joined: 5/8/2005
Msg: 8
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 10:29:53 AM
I have and she was the best woman I ever knew until she found religion and and then she became insufferable.
 fishmonkey
Joined: 4/27/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 7/9/2005 10:36:07 AM
Hmmm, lets see, would I date a person who has a good grip on their sexuality, is not ashamed of their gender, pride in their looks and would rather work than sit at home collecting government cheques. Where does the lineup start???
 bunomatic
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 10
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 10:37:29 AM
Hell ya,they're no different than any other demographic in society.There's good and bad in any group of people.I've known many strippers and they were all very decent people.A hell of a lot more balanced than some of the church people that protested their line of work.A few were putting themselves through school which is a noble pursuit.Others were simply making a good living.It's just entertainment.Simple as that.
 Doc Sage
Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 11
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 11:18:33 AM
__I do not know where Brooks, Alberta is but I am moving there today. I do not know what's in the water there but WOW.
__Ladies, do you know any ladies of my age, single who could use the company of a guy like me? LOL

Doc
 Mark2521971
Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 7/9/2005 11:37:28 AM
Doc, I have a map of Canada, and I'm packing as we speak! I'll pick you up on the way there if you like?
 Rocky444
Joined: 3/29/2005
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Posted: 7/9/2005 11:37:40 AM
Cherryblossom I have dated an exotic dancer who was also a feature entertainer.
She was the most beautiful person to this day that I have met from the inside out.
She didn't drink or smoke around me any way. She was honest caring and thoughtful and giving from the heart.
she helped me grow into a better person as I hoped I did for her.
It was unfortunate that she was not ready to be in love. Are agreement was to date and be lovers. But we fell in love. OOPS!
Her carreer came 1st, which was Okay with me. She now is out of the business and has taken her money and opened 2 successful businesses.
If she came back to me I would accept her with open arms if I'm single at the time. If not it would be not fair to my future mate to have her as a friend, because of my deep love for her. But atlast I have let het go since she is married now. In my opion a jerk, but she has 2 kids with him so her family must come first.
As my search for honest intelligent caring romantic women must come 1st.
 Justme_J
Joined: 6/26/2005
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Posted: 7/9/2005 11:56:08 AM
I would, if one would date me (which ain't gonna happen LOL)

I knew some strippers when I bartended in Myrtle Beach many years ago. Never dated any. Many had various issues, including drug habits (these were the ones I knew, not ALL strippers). A few did not. One was making $100,000.00 a year, and doing the right thing with the money, ie investing for her future. Like she said, where else is a young woman going to make money like that? We knew each other fairly well, and I don't believe she was doing "extra" things aside from stripping to make that money either.

Back to the point though. From what THEY told me, for it to be a serious relationship, the guy must be very secure, and not go to the club they strip at. It involves an incredible level of trust.
 pss12
Joined: 10/12/2004
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Posted: 7/9/2005 11:57:09 AM
I'd probably date him if he was really really cool but nothing serious. I know me and it just wouldn't work out for me. Also, I was brought up that a man who lives off women (in a sense) is not a respectable man.
 MrActive
Joined: 4/7/2005
Msg: 16
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 11:58:49 AM
Would you date a stockbroker, salesperson, lawyer? Why is a stripper any different? It's really what is inside a person that counts, not necessarilly their current occupation.

Yes, I have dated a stripper before.
 Handsomesque
Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 7/9/2005 3:33:23 PM
Yeah, I would. You have to understand that any time an attractive woman is out and about anywhere that a considerable portion of the guys passing by are thinking the exact same thing as guys watching a pole dancer in a strip club, the only difference being the guys at the strip club think they've got a better chance with her. Assuming they didn't, and by that I mean that I could trust her to be faithful, I'd certainly have no problem dating a beautiful, confident woman who just happened to take her clothes off for a living.
 JAMISON
Joined: 2/7/2005
Msg: 18
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 4:10:25 PM
Nope, couldnt do it. No matter how hard I tried the trust factor just couldnt be there.
 Rocky444
Joined: 3/29/2005
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Posted: 7/9/2005 4:28:53 PM
Jamison if you want head games and no trust factor. Date a social worker
 wwdragon
Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 20
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 4:32:03 PM
"No matter how hard I tried the trust factor just couldnt be there."

and that's why i answered no.


You can't idealize or demonize a profession. There are stereotypes because a majority of people behave or at least present themselves a certain way.

You could have a good relationship.... as one post said above, though, the other person couldn't come to their workplace (stripclub).

Can you believe a movie? no. Can you trust a stereotype? no. Don't try to dress it up... it's a bad profession for a relationship. Go and find out for yourself.

In the end I don't think I could trust her enough either. Trust is a hard thing to build and way to easy to destroy.
 4sexyfun
Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 21
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 5:02:41 PM
I used to be a dancer ...always had plenty of offers!

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 Rocky444
Joined: 3/29/2005
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Posted: 7/9/2005 5:03:42 PM
I would trust my life to an exotic dancer. Than a BS social worker.
There are good and bad in all professions.
Society would be less screwed up if we got rid of social workers.
The one thing you need to trust the most is whats in your heart.
 MysticD
Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 7/9/2005 5:06:20 PM
I would date a stripper. As long as she doesnt go home with any guy that pays her to I wouldnt care.
 wireddd
Joined: 5/25/2005
Msg: 24
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 6:50:06 PM
yes
 Shake Me
Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 25
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2005 6:58:57 PM
It would depend....
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