| What do I need to do???
Posted: 9/24/2009 3:38:39 PM | Heyy all
Well here's my problem...... I just have a bad history of the wrong type of girls..... the people I tend to like either dont like me..... or if they are someone I dont know very very well.... there is nearly always a deep secret, something crucial that I'm not told about until into a relationship.... and hence it brings thing to a crash a lot of the time...
I go out..... cant say I'm a big dancer or would stand out in a crowd....but I'm honest and genuine. Night after night I see guys hooking up with girls drunk off their heads......but I just dont think thats right..... Not a one night stand kinda guy at all.....
Do looks play such a big part in a girl beign attracted to a guy??
Because I, given the chance have treated any girls I'v dated like gold....
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What do I need to do on a night out to spot the genuine girls? Im just a bit disheartened with it all now | |
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| What do I need to do???
Posted: 9/24/2009 4:51:00 PM | on looking at your profile there seems a few reasons why you are having these problems.
you say you have a degree, yet you write like someone unfinished school, you talk about a financialy secure future but give no indication how you provide that ( smells a bit fishy, if you using that as a selling point expand on it)
The bit about treating a woman like gold and spoiling her, is a bit creepy. Most women worth having dont want to be treated like a child or a doll, they want to be treated as an equal, in saying you want to spoil a woman I'm not hearing much respect for women.
and then to open with the fact you have trust issues is not going to attract women who are secure in themselves, who wants to date someone with trust issues?
And yes looks are important, but they are totally subjective, its not your looks that may be the issue, Its more likely you not trusting women or yourself.
To attract genuine girls, be happy confident, trust them, and have fun. | |
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| What do I need to do???
Posted: 9/28/2009 7:29:09 AM | if you can make ladies laugh , it's most of the battle , then charm your way into her arms n relax n remember life is fun.  | |
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| What do I need to do???
Posted: 9/28/2009 1:23:38 PM | | I do make them laugh! Thats not the problem..... getting to the stage where I can have a laugh with a girl is the problem..... dont get talkin to them in the first place..... my looks are not exactly what girls look for me thinks...... even though many say im "cute" A puppy is cute.... me cute....... ammmm no | |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 7:21:17 PM | You know exactly what the problem is, but here it is in writing.....
You are not good looking and you are not confident enough to let other areas of your personality cover it.
What you do is to try and get the girls to know you have money so they then go with you and you shower them with gifts to hold on to them hoping that along the way you will get close enough to show your personality, and they will fall for you.
The' trust issues' I am sure have developed from girls using and then dumping you when you are not spending any more.
Ok so what to do to fix it? Well trust me if you do have some money you can easily fix many things. You need to make the absolute most of what you have to work with so fix bad teeth bad hair or no hair, which can all be fixed and made to look great. Have a style overhall of your wardrobe too.
Of course many people will come on here now and say 'Oh dont worry someone will come along and love you for yourself' that's rubbish we are visual creatures, human beings, and if you don't look dateable you wont get dated.
When you have your appearance to a level where you feel confident and sexy it will then boost every other area of your life. You need to feel like a million dollars then you will attract many secure happy normal people who will be like a magnet to your self respect and your confidence.
Mail me a pic and let me see what we have to work with here?
PS UPDATE
Just had a look at the profile and it's full of problems
For a start you have talk/email = TIMEWASTER so it's not even set to ask for dating
The headline is a joke it says NEW PIC UP COME AND SEE - yet there is no pic on the profile!
The text says I'll only show pics to those I trust = INSECURE
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Posted: 9/29/2009 10:06:42 AM | Ok..... Thanks for the help there so far...
Just in response to the last comment..... im 22.... so no baldness issues.... overweight I am... allright...
In the past I have been cheated on once.... and lied to enough times..... so.... right now Im in a puzzled place...
The reason I havnt my pictures up is as simple as some people who I know are here and im slow to go releasing to the world iv a dating profile.... childish as that is... its how I feel anyway | |
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| What do I need to do???
Posted: 10/1/2009 4:08:50 PM |
Do looks play such a big part in a girl beign attracted to a guy??
Always and ever!!!
No girl is gonna ride shrek just for the sake of a ride......now is she??
C'mon the fook!!
Im not letting ya near my faluga, unless i fancy ya, dont care how many mansions you have..............end of!!!! | |
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Posted: 10/2/2009 2:29:56 AM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ 
****Wipes the tea off the computer screen*******
Dont hold back girl | |
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Posted: 10/2/2009 12:38:19 PM | Had a look at his pic and he's quite a nice looking lad and seemed poilte enough so I thought umm wonder why hes not getting much attention? Then I didn't reply to one of his mails and he went balistic!
Mystery solved.
OP take a look at the thread about NICE GUYS further down this page and see my comments there it may help. | |
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Posted: 10/4/2009 4:34:56 AM | | I'm afraid a lot of women out there today,not all of them mind are out looking for a good lookin guy with money,i've met some of em and belive me,their pretty easy to spot | |
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Posted: 10/7/2009 9:13:36 PM | You sound a bit unforgiving, prudish and self indulgent to me. While I'm at it you are picky and superficial as well.
Night after night I see guys hooking up with girls drunk off their heads......but I just dont think thats right..... Not a one night stand kinda guy at all.....
……………………………………………yea right, really you are that principled? In your dreams pal!
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Posted: 10/8/2009 12:49:59 PM |
are out looking for a good lookin guy with money,i've met some of em and belive me,their pretty easy to spot
Really??? OMG how shallow.
I'm sure you at least have great depth of character and are looking for an ugly girl who'se hugely fat and in debt. | |
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| What do I need to do???
Posted: 10/24/2009 4:50:06 PM |
No girl is gonna ride shrek just for the sake of a ride......now is she??
C'mon the fook!!
Im not letting ya near my faluga, unless i fancy ya, dont care how many mansions you have..............end of!!!!
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha.....I've just choked on my fookin pizza!
Can you not post on the uk forum sometimes? | |
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| What do I need to do???
Posted: 10/25/2009 1:55:51 PM | | On charm: Leave the charm for the stage and acting. You don't need to 'charm' a woman to get her interested.. know your heart and emotions. | |
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