| Why Do girls go for Bad Boys
Posted: 10/22/2004 10:12:33 PM | Why is it when a guy treats a girl like sh*t, she stays with him, but when a guy treats her like a queen, she leaves?
I ask becouse of my current situation...
I'm to the point where I think girls are just stupid as h*ll, and not worth my time anymore to try to be with. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 10/22/2004 11:30:15 PM | I think maybe you are not looking for the right girls. Im nice and if a guy treated me like $hit, I would be walking out the next day. I want a nice guy and I cant find him. So far, almost all the guys that have msged me on here ask my my breast size, or if I masturbate within the first few email.
I want a nice guy and to me, thats not a nice guy.. so where are all the nice guys!?!?!??!
Trust me, not all girls are stupid, you just need to look a little harder for the right ones.
Kitten | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 10/22/2004 11:32:15 PM | | your last statement in your post takes you out of the nice guys category and puts you in the ***hole category... so the question is null and void isn't it? | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 10/23/2004 7:21:36 AM | yea they always go for the a** hole then complain when the guy goes for there a** hole.
ok that was just a joke. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 10/23/2004 8:17:07 AM | The only thing about girls going out with a**holes is you’re the only one that thinks that they are an a**hole. To the girl in question and the people around them this person could be the salt of the earth. Maybe the problem is yours and not the “a**hole” that the girl is dating. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 10/23/2004 3:05:21 PM | | Alot of girls do go for ***holes, I don't understand what jumping Shawns sh*t is going to accomplish here he is obviously angry at his plight and his statement reflects that, it doesn't make him an ***hole. Shawn there are some nice girls out there that don't like being treated like sh*t it takes alittle work to find them but they are there. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 10/23/2004 3:11:18 PM | I love generalizations.
For the record, I am one of the "non-existant" girls that won't tolerate a jerk. I bolt at the first sign of an a$$hole. I can't imagine allowing a man to hit me. My first husband came pretty close and I left him.
Keep looking Shawn, girls that don't want jerks are worth the search. Byrd is right...we're out there. You might try looking for a outgoing woman who speaks her mind and stands up for herself. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 10/23/2004 6:58:29 PM | thanks for the input ppls....i was a little ticked when i posted this thread, mebbe we should keep the **$$xo^'s to a minimum before admin gets a little ticked about the language.
And as kind of an update.. The girl in question went and slept with some other guy last night....no idea who he was.. just that she treated me like crap when I asked if she wanted to go jogging with me...all i got was a door closed in my face becouse another guy was there...so oh well... some of you nice girls really should message me. Prove to me that there are real nice girls out there still 
 <---gotta love that banana | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 10/23/2004 7:12:44 PM | | Hey dude ...you have to check out david deangello ..hes got some great advice on women ...you can download his book or audio on most fileshare programs ....if you check it out ...dont feel bad ...i was a wuss too.he has a site that sends free email advice ....it changed my world ! | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 10/23/2004 7:48:31 PM | | I actually subscribed to his mailing list, but I got tired of listening to him say the same thing over and over and over....and over.. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 10/23/2004 7:52:25 PM | | Im an ***hole and ppl dig me... lol... j/k....sorry, you were having a serious conversation. My bad... carry on.... | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 11/7/2004 1:40:58 AM | Hey Shawn man, I'm in the same boat as you most of the time.....I've been called the Mr. Nice guy and what all women want, yet here I am single and at one point wondering what I did to make the woman not want to be with me.
Now I've adopted a new attitude on it, either they like me or not, if they don't or they arent sure, then I won't waste my time in trying to impress them, if they do like me for who I am, then I will work on it some more, but it dosent only go one way, if they can't show the same respect or what-not back towards me then once again...they arent worth my time.
I guess this puts me in the ***hole catagory to a point, I'm still Mr. Nice guy to those that arent worth my time, and I will still gladly be friends with them, but thats all.
Anyways, be patient and understanding Shawn, it will happen when your not looking.
oh yea by the way sometimes the nice girls can hurt you more than the ones that arent....as is proof with one of my ex-girlfriends. She said she loved me and proved it for quite sometime, but then she dumped me so she can sleep with other guys that she had a crush on.....bloody university girls....her reason was she dident know what she wanted and a realtionship was something that was confusing her for that, and I respected that, then two days later she was sleeping with theis guy from her class...when I asked her...as a friend why she did it after she said she dident want to be in a relationship, she responded with...."I'm not going to put my life on hold just because I am in love, we arent together and if I have the chance to get laid I will take it." I'm sorry but thats just wrong in my books.
Anyways Shawn I know how you feel, but you just have to be patient....goodluck man | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 11/10/2004 4:23:31 PM | Absolutely Wizard you speak truth.Maybe instead of a$$hole we should use the word "bad boy".Bad boys have always been popular with women,just look at the media.Who stands the test of time,Clint Eastwood,Sean Connery,John Wayne or the pathetic attempt to make the "sensitive guy" attractive like Alan Alda (who?).I rest my case.
The bottom line is attraction is NOT a choice.Once you learn the attraction factor,the rest makes sense. | |
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Sundog
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Joined: 8/23/2004
Msg: 14 | |
| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 11/10/2004 4:29:35 PM |
your last statement in your post takes you out of the nice guys category and puts you in the ***hole category... so the question is null and void isn't it?
BURNED......OUCH
good one Femmeinin | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 11/10/2004 4:56:28 PM | | thats a good question. i used to be one of the nice guys. i had morals, manners, and such. that got me absolutely nothing. i started acting like my cousin (total friggin dog), but in a lesser extent. all of the sudden, girls started hanging out with me, liking me, doing ANYTHING for me. so i just kept getting worse. it wasnt really me. but i felt i "needed" a woman in my life. so, i did anything to get one. and it worked. the meaner i was, the better. i dont understand it. ive been trying to get back to my "original" self, but ive created ALOT of bad habits for myself. so, ill tell you how it goes from here! lol that IS a cool friggin banana | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 11/10/2004 5:20:16 PM | | bad boys know how to make their own fun...they are attractive..don't usually have a job ..cuts into play time ....not keepers ...more of the catch and release type sport..wink ..wink | |
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Sundog
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Joined: 8/23/2004
Msg: 17 | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 11/10/2004 6:20:34 PM | | Catch and release,right.Women are attracted to bad boys initially and if they end up with them long term,the "harmless bad boy" reveals himself to be a dysfunctional jerk.Much like men are attracted to sluts,but they aren't the marrying kind.Ho don't make a housewife. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 11/11/2004 9:23:59 AM | i've noticed and been guilty of this very thing.. the attraction starts with danger.. ooh that's really intriguing. the nice guys as they are often labeled tend to be viewed by many women as boring and dull, too routine.. so we go out with the guys who take risks..
i still go out with guys who take risks, just different risks..
and bluepony, i know.. lots of women never understand what would make a woman tolerate physical abuse but like me and my girl xciteme, until you've been there, you won't understand. they were mistakes she and i both survived and never to brought to mind again.. auld lang syne..
funny though, while lots of women may not tolerate physical abuse - they sure don't mind tolerating a lot of bs spewed on some of the boards around here and the oh how nice comments and oh i don't want to OFFEND someone statements. no wonder guys use the name all the time.. 
i no longer tolerate ANYONE'S SHIT, period. women's or men's. if they're jerks they can f*ck off.. that's what jerks (men and women types alike) are best at.. | |
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bos308
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Joined: 6/26/2004
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 11/11/2004 5:58:11 PM | | i want to piggy back onto what shawn said....i work in a club, and every weekend some fat,sloppy,dufus walks by with a beautiful girl...explain that. im single, so this makes me angry, im in school i have 2 jobs, im at the gym 6 days a week im outgoing...i have alot to offer someone, so what the heck is going on?! | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 11/11/2004 7:09:56 PM | Obviously Shawn888's problem is that he is a big guy.
Who better to attract the insecure "little" women, and the woman who assume big and bad go together?
He should just learn to screen his dates a bit better, ask them what they like in relationships.
Do they like romance?
Do they like excitement or do they like danger?
Are they "rough" themselves, and want a bad a** boyfriend?
Are they too soft, and looking for the overly aggressive type to protect them?
Just a few.... | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 11/12/2004 2:38:12 AM | | Man, I'll never know the answer to that one!!! I'm a young guy so of course I'm looking into younger ladies, and all they want is the "badboy" a$$hole types who like you said treat them like $hit. Then later down the road when they mature and wisen up a bit and have kids they want the "good guy" but no offense ladies, We don't want someone who's used,abused and full of issues!!! I don't know what to tell you though, I do the best that I can, and 6 months down the pike they sh*t on u for some broke "badboy" loser...and then 2 months later they come crawlin back, but like I said before....I sure as hell don't want that bs back... | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 11/12/2004 2:43:56 AM | At the same time, I'm a nice guy and an A-hole ....lmao...oh well, I tried to be intellectual...thats what i get for being up this late anyways...  | |
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