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 sparxarebad

Joined: 4/25/2008
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Posted: 9/30/2009 9:28:56 PM
How long does it take to get over a past love?

I have been wondering this for some time now. How long does it take to get over a past love, past interest, past someone special??? I can't stop thinking of how special that last someone was and how special she was! I can't forget how well her hand fit into mine. I can't forget how big her ring finger was on mine(for instance her ring finger was as big as the first knuckle of my pinky)! Or the size of her foot in my hand when I gave her a foot rub. Or how her shoulders fit between my thumb and forefinger . How long does it take to forget how her shoulder felt when it rubbed against mine. How long does it take to forget the small things???

How Long Does It take???
 armaegis

Joined: 8/25/2008
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Posted: 9/30/2009 10:31:12 PM
About half the time that you were together, up to a maximum of a year. Either that or for as long as it takes to down a pint.
 Alli_oop

Joined: 6/30/2009
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Posted: 9/30/2009 11:14:50 PM
I think if you still say that person name of refer to "my ex" enough, even if it is in a negative light, "she was so neurotic about things", "she was so bossy it drove me crazy" and so on, then you aren't over it.
 Captain Girly Girl

Joined: 2/17/2007
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Posted: 10/1/2009 8:28:55 AM
It takes as long as you let it/want it. Take some time to mourn if you want, but moving on is a choice. You control your thoughts, so don't say "I can't stop thinking" uh, yes, you can. Thought of her comes into mind, think of something else. Get a hobby, a project, friends who don't know the ex to hang out with. You never move on if you don't choose to- its that simple.

(And of course, you're never going to find any girl better than her if you keep thinking about her, as no self respecting woman will date a guy still moping over an ex. Ick.)
 Project_Marius

Joined: 7/14/2009
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Posted: 10/1/2009 11:02:40 AM
Take your time and don't dwell on it. Do what you can to move on by going out with friends or family, meeting new people and staying active.

Captain, very true about your last sentance!
 Dudleyh45

Joined: 8/4/2008
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Posted: 10/2/2009 10:38:16 PM
Shoot you can move on before you part from the other one but how long will it take to forget!? Might be 'til you die. Why do you need to forget a love if it was love? There are loves i will never forget but i don't pine for them nor would i ever consider living with them.
 maybe301

Joined: 2/20/2007
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Posted: 10/4/2009 3:29:47 PM
Oh let me see. it takes about ummm , 5 days or 5 hours. Who the heck knows? I won't forget my loves, if I had any. But then again what is love? Most of the time I feel like saying I love you to a man is when he's making me feel good! Maybe I'm weird but I don't think I have found love yet .
 printer2

Joined: 6/19/2007
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Posted: 10/4/2009 3:46:05 PM
Actually thinking back to the last one, not even sure why I fell for her. Must have been a low moment.
 TEMPT YOUR KHARMA

Joined: 3/18/2006
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Posted: 10/4/2009 5:50:19 PM
A whole lot sooner , the sooner you can over someone else.....that is of course depends on your sexual preference and as long as you tell them that they are just re-bound partners.....lol....like that ever works!
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