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 aunty~Bulgaria

Joined: 7/17/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 12:38:41 AM
In the news this week is the vile story of what happened when these three strangers met online and egged each other on to carry out depraved acts against children.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/crime/6252629/Nursery-worker-Vanessa-George-name-victims-judge-tells-child-abuser.html

My question is do you think it is possible for a charismatic male child sex offender to groom women into acting out his sick depraved fantasies or do you think, like me, that these women must have had very unhealthy minds already? I can't help but wonder how many other depraved women he did find and have actually just not been caught.. yet!
 -chopper-

Joined: 8/10/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 12:46:36 AM
they must of been a pedo already.. sick fecks like myra hindley..there aint many women on this earth who would participate in such evil acts against children just cos some nutter asks them to..i hope they get there come uppence in gaol same as her sick male counterpart..
 aunty~Bulgaria

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Posted: 10/2/2009 1:01:54 AM
Thing is Chopper at least two did, the third woman that they know of had the charges dropped due to lack of evidence. There are probably lots more who played depraved games with him. Personally I think they have only hit the tip of the iceberg.
 CriesAtPixar

Joined: 9/3/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 1:16:37 AM
This sickens me to my core. No, I don't think any rational woman can be goaded or coerced into such vile acts, it's against nature and she must have harboured this depraved behaviour before acting on it.

If there ever was a case for capital punishment, types of crime like this present a strong argument. I honestly don't know how the parents of abused children manage to restrain themselves, I know I couldn't. Now the state has to keep them in jail at the cost to us the taxpayer. I've went all daily mail on this, it just angers me so much.
 nortyraskull

Joined: 10/12/2007
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Posted: 10/2/2009 1:22:08 AM

My question is do you think it is possible for a charismatic male child sex offender to groom women into acting out his sick depraved fantasies or do you think, like me, that these women must have had very unhealthy minds already?


Well just off the top of my head I can think of Hindly, Rose West, and Ian Huntleys woman, all willing participants in phaedophile murders, or at the very least implicit in covering up their men's vile crimes, I personally think that these sick people tend to attract like-minded partners, even the weakest of minds must know the wrong that they are doing.
 Macforty

Joined: 2/12/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 1:53:17 AM
My question is do you think it is possible for a charismatic male child sex offender to groom women into acting out his sick depraved fantasies or do you think, like me, that these women must have had very unhealthy minds already?

I think these women have more than 'unhealthy minds' ......they are paedophiles pure and simple.

It always winds me up when stories like this break and they try to shift the blame to the male party or blame influence .........the truth is female paedophiles do exist and as this case has highlighted they are as capable of as much depravity in fact in this case probably more !!

Myra Hindley and Ian Brady spring to mind when these kind of questions arise 'he controlled her' or 'she fell under his spell' ...........I don't know about anyone else but my very humanity and moral fibre would override such sickness and depravity and any love that I had felt would turn to disgust and hate for that person and would definately not draw me more towards that person but quite the opposite.

I'm a firm believer in like will always attract like as sick will always attract sick !!
 kez~angel

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Posted: 10/2/2009 2:12:27 AM
Macforty, I couldn't have put it better myself.

These people are sick regardless of gender, just because there was a man involved he had to have made her do it, what a load of shite. If I knew someone I suspected of such depravities, I certainly wouldn't be coerced into joining them, my first reaction would be to call the police.

Unfortunately it seems to be a male dominated perversion, but as has been said, there are female paedophiles that are just as sick as the men, but I think more dangerous due to the misconception that women just wouldn't do it.
 pandora!

Joined: 9/10/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 2:14:43 AM
O.P. That is scary and people on the net need to be aware especially parents of youngsters, however, how the heck do you protest your Children, this happened in a nursery for goodness sake. They are talking of banning phones, and I thought there were security cameras everywhere in Nurserys these days. UGH.
I would imagine his computer has been confiscated, and been looked at for incriminating contents. The photos in this case though were on mobile phones.

We also have the case in California of Jaycee Lee Dugard kidnapped 18 years ago, aided and abetted by a woman Nancy Garrido. Easy to have a hold over a woman if they have sick tendancys. I agree, with the O.P. the women already have sick minds.
 mart_b

Joined: 9/18/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 3:31:42 AM
They say Charles Manson was able identify like minded sick f**ks, male and female
The internet would have made this easier for him as in this case
Still we can look forward to the full weight of the law being thrown at these three, that is of course, soft jail sentences and secret identities when they are released….
 try1more

Joined: 12/16/2007
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Posted: 10/2/2009 4:06:59 AM
of course it's always a man that grooms a woman isn't it?

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/8022861.stm

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/new-unit-to-treat-female-paedophiles-1072477.html

and lastly below. check the video on the page for a sky news report.
it's what you might call equality.
perhaps this will put an end to the misandry.

http://antimisandry.com/female-paedophiles/female-paedophiles-go-unreported-23653.html
 Colin-42

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Posted: 10/2/2009 4:38:56 AM
Who knows, what goes on in any sick fks mind. Be they male, or even female. This could all stem from their own childhoods, possible child abuse from their own parents? To them it's normal behaviour. There is a lady comedian on the TV, her show is called "Jo Brands big a ss show". She does a sketch in it, playing a wife to a mad axe cannibal murderer. I find that totally sick! How the hell did she get that passed by the powers that be? The whole thing reeks, of fred and rosemary west.
 Lastknight2009

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Posted: 10/2/2009 5:39:52 AM
I think we need to study the cases for Rose West and Myra Hindley, these were women who I believe were sado Masochists in their own rights, couple of my clients have displayed similar tendancies
 kez~angel

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Posted: 10/2/2009 6:18:46 AM
There has been research into the brains of paedophiles and it seems they truely are sick, their brains are 'wired' differently to ours. If I didn't have to go on the school run I'd do a little googling and get some info, but I'm sure if you want to you can google yourself.

I'm not sure if this applys to all of them, but at least knowing the cause is a start towards the cure.
 Artemis2009

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Posted: 10/2/2009 7:14:04 AM
The women have to be sick in the first place to even consider such vile berhaviour. A 'normal' person wouldn't even entertain discussing it, let alone taking part in it.
 -chopper-

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Posted: 10/2/2009 7:26:15 AM

The women have to be sick in the first place to even consider such vile berhaviour. A 'normal' person wouldn't even entertain discussing it, let alone taking part in it.


that is so true..no amount of manipulation and brainwashing by anyone..no matter how charasmatic they were could make a ''normal'' human being do such evil things to children..myra hindley.rose west..etc were all sickos in the first place..birds of a feather flock together..that is why these people are so drawn to each other..they are all very sick and feed off each other...
 exceptionalgirl

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Posted: 10/2/2009 10:16:33 AM

If there ever was a case for capital punishment, types of crime like this present a strong argument


As we are dealing with a dysfunctional brain here the only way to stop it acting in this way is to terminate it's function, and as it's attached to a body one must terminate that also.

You can not successfully 'treat' 'rehabilitate' or 'cure' a sex offender.

95% of sex offenders caught will re-offend within a year of release. Keeping an eye on them or keeping them tagged or under surveillance only makes them more devious.
 Paulinemab

Joined: 9/29/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 10:26:01 AM
I don't really care whose idea it was, I feel for the families and those kids and if that woman has any conscience she will tell the parents who exactly the kids were that were abused. They might have blamed him to try and get lesser sentences themselves.
Its been reported that there was no suggestion of these women being groomed.

Yes, it does go to show that you can get peadophiles working with children and slipping through the net, it does happen. There are people who specifically apply to work with kids so they can abuse them. I hope there are greater checks done by Ofsted, how on earth could people be abused in a day care centre with 8 other staff in and nothing get done about it?

It does also make you wonder about who you might meet online, through Facebook or anywhere.
 *~*Posh*~*

Joined: 8/13/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 10:50:00 AM

My question is do you think it is possible for a charismatic male child sex offender to groom women into acting out his sick depraved fantasies or do you think, like me, that these women must have had very unhealthy minds already? I can't help but wonder how many other depraved women he did find and have actually just not been caught.. yet!


There are by the law of averages just as many sick twisted women as they are men, it's just that the women rarely get caught, and usually then it's when they join up with a man to engage in their mutual perversions ...

 exceptionalgirl

Joined: 7/23/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 11:01:58 AM
Female sex offenders research is limited, though statistics show an alarmingly high rate of sexual abuse by women (a range of 59% - 80%) in the backgrounds of rapists, sex offenders and sexually aggressive men (Matthews, 1996, p. 301).

What this means is that in 59-80% of male sex offenders backgrounds there was an abusive woman.
 asjll1973

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Posted: 10/3/2009 5:57:57 AM

They should be fed their own sh*t whilst being p*ssed on by a 70 year old, crab infested hobo whilst kneeling on all fours on broken glass as I myself insert a coat stand into their dry asses.


Definitely, stick them on the normal prison wing with mothers and fathers, see how long the scum last.
 matty40s

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Posted: 10/3/2009 3:57:09 PM
I have to say either of these two punishments can only be improved on by publicly releasing them to the parents of any child in that nursery.
Is vengeance justifiable,probably not, but do these people deserve any better???

There is no difference between the sexes in this, or similar cases, they are sick, depraved and deserve nothing but a lifetime of torment, fear and abuse, such is that they have given out to the defenceless babes they are supposed to have been protecting and nurturing.
 AlexisMarsh

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Posted: 10/4/2009 12:57:46 AM
It is scaring the crap out of me, my daughter is two and I am seriously petrified as she will be going to Creche from next month she is currently with a childminder and very happy in the environment but I want her to interact with toddlers her own age hence the Creche. Are our children not safe anywhere. On sky news last week there was an insert about a man who raped and beat his 8 year old baby daughter. What is wrong with people that they can hurt the innocent and defenseless.

I think it takes a sick twisted individual to act this way and there is no way that she was groomed into doing what she did. She was very much a willing participant. Read and article in the NOTW this morning where her husband had given an interview. My question is she was using the home computer sitting in a cubihole sending these images to this man. Do you honestly want to tell me he had no clue as to what was going on? Hmmmmm i doubt it very much.
 zeegary

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Posted: 10/4/2009 1:10:24 AM

that these women must have had very unhealthy minds already


According to Amanda Platell yesterday, 20% of paedo crime in this country is committed by women.......
 anniesea

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Posted: 10/4/2009 1:52:30 AM
A selection of quotes from prior postings:

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These people are sick regardless of gender


There has been research into the brains of paedophiles and it seems they truely are sick, their brains are 'wired' differently to ours


As we are dealing with a dysfunctional brain

Now, if we were dealing with any other crime, we would acknowledge that word "sick" and be discussing treatment. Dyslexics and autistics and dyspraxics have faults with their brain "wiring". With these other problems we would be asking if the fault comes from nature or nurture and whether the brain can be trained to overcome the mis-"wiring".

If we were looking at a dog trained for killing (nurture over nature) some of us apparently would be happy to sponsor their stay in a kennels because they cannot be released to a normal home, even though we admit they cannot be retrained (according to a thread yesterday).

Can anyone who advocates death by the most horrendous means (as has been expressed in this thread) explain why the answer is death and not treatment or permanent exclusion from society, when in the case of these three no-one has been killed?

(In case of anyone mis-reading this post and thinking I am condoning the crime - I certainly do not, I do find it difficult to understand the reasons for the punishments that are being proposed.)
 Macforty

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Posted: 10/4/2009 2:05:11 AM
Now, if we were dealing with any other crime, we would acknowledge that word "sick" and be discussing treatment. Dyslexics and autistics and dyspraxics have faults with their brain "wiring". With these other problems we would be asking if the fault comes from nature or nurture and whether the brain can be trained to overcome the mis-"wiring".

If we were looking at a dog trained for killing (nurture over nature) some of us apparently would be happy to sponsor their stay in a kennels because they cannot be released to a normal home, even though we admit they cannot be retrained (according to a thread yesterday).

Can anyone who advocates death by the most horrendous means (as has been expressed in this thread) explain why the answer is death and not treatment or permanent exclusion from society, when in the case of these three no-one has been killed?

(In case of anyone mis-reading this post and thinking I am condoning the crime - I certainly do not, I do find it difficult to understand the reasons for the punishments that are being proposed.)

I was always thought 'sick' could denote a couple of meanings depending in what context it is used .....Sick : Ill /ailing .................or sick: Depraved or twisted ????

I'm sure in the context of the subject matter most meant the latter.
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