| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:20:15 AM | Do heterosexual men enjoy having their ass stimulated?
I ask, because I know that men have a g-spot as-well... but how many are actually comfortable with someone exploring up there?
I've never done anything like that - nor have I been asked to. However, if it is pleasurable for the man - then I'd definitely want to try it. However, some men (even if they're not necessarily homophobic) could be opposed to idea, because if they like it, they may think that they're "gay".
So, guys... have you experienced anal of somekind? did you enjoy it? if you haven't, would you consider doing it? Also, would you approach your partner - or would you rather have them approach you. I know, it's still a rather taboo subject... and I'm not sure that I'd feel comfortable asking a guy and risk crossing certain boundaries. Anyway - let me know. :) thanks. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:31:49 AM | hi-i've known a few guys that are very anti-anal. there was the whole"i ain't gay" so there isn't going to be any kind of butt play for me (even tho they wanted to stick stuff up my butt)
i've known a few guys that wanted to experiment-just a little licking at first and that was all they thought they could handle...
then there are a few that wanted to use butt plugs and straps-on's....
the truth is-it's very hard to judge which men are comfortable with a$$ play and who is just disgusted by the thought...i usually drop small hints about how much i like anal stimulation....but different plans for different guys...
i will admit-most guys open to it are the ones who normally bring it up...in my experiences... | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 9:09:04 AM | | Do heterosexual men enjoy having their ass stimulated? not this one. i'm not sure that it makes you gay, but for sure it wouldnt make you less gay. lol | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 9:43:34 AM |
So, guys... have you experienced anal of somekind? did you enjoy it?
Well, didn't do a damned thing for me... neither good nor bad.... | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 9:48:17 AM | In my experience, most "straight" guys really enjoy it. It's just a matter of helping them get past the thought of it being a 'gay' act.
And I agree, if you want to play with my backdoor, yours better not be locked up. It.ls tit for tat boys. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 9:53:35 AM | | I never understood why some people think it's gay if a woman is doing it to a man. That's like saying men giving women anal is gay. If it's heteros , male with female, enjoying each other, it's not gay. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 10:11:16 AM | Because a lot of hetero men view being "penetrated" as feminine. It's the same reason you see hate crimes against gay men, but not often against gay women. Mess with masculinity, and some men respond violently and voraciously.
Male ego is fragile as hell, and some men are so entrenched in being "manly" that they lose the forest for the trees. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 10:14:34 AM | | I've actually heard some guys say that about giving a woman anal. "That's just one step closer to being gay." When I reply with, "So you obviously must not like blowjobs either," they usually get pissed off. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 10:42:45 AM | I have been with a couple women that were nice enough to engage in some anal play. I never say no when the subject comes up, I enjoy it immensely. To some that might make me gay, oh well. 
OP, every guy is going to be different about this. The easy way to find out if a guy is into it without directly asking (which is the best way) is to take a finger and start massaging around the area. Do not dive straight in just play around the area. You should be able to judge by the guy's reaction as you get closer if he is into it or not. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 11:07:32 AM | | The anus, manipulation of it, and penetration of it is pleasurable to any human, man or woman, provided appropriate care is taken and there are no "issues". I would simply ask, but respect no, if that is the answer. It just doesn't feel right to some men. Beyond that there are practical difficulties with stink, fragile tissue and a variety of exotic STD's. Generally it is wise to avoid engaging in anal sex with anyone who engages in it promiscuously. It is positively dangerous to engage in sex with such a person if they do not use protection. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 12:46:43 PM | Sooner or later, every guy makes an ass of himself. Nar, nar, nar, nar
But seriously. Some like having their poor shoot played with, some want to run screaming like a girl (sorry, I realize I'm offending the girls here) if you even bring up the topic.
I'm never thrilled about the idea but if it turns him on, I'll do whatever he enjoys within reason to make sure he's having a good time. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 12:47:56 PM | | Many heterosexual men really enjoy anal stimulation. It can truly enhance their climaxes as nothing else can. I've been fortunate in that two of my ex-husbands were very open about anal sex and it really was enjoyable part of our sex life. I look forward to incorporating it into my new relationship also, if he is willing. Either way, it's the man's choice and he shouldn't feel pressured, anymore than a woman should. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 12:54:50 PM | | Although I generally don't like Dan Savage's writing style (he's a sex columnist) he "nailed" it in a recent column. If you are doing something sexual with someone of the opposite sex and thinking about that person (or another person of the opposite sex), you are heterosexual. It doesn't matter who's doing what to whom - it's the attraction factor that counts. | |
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Joined: 7/31/2009
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 1:04:53 PM |
HELL NO! If they did they'd be homosexual.
Really?... I guess I'm a homosexual then... damn... thanks for pointing that out to me... my S/O will be disappointed in the news! | |
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2run
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Joined: 7/31/2009
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 1:12:52 PM |
Really?... I guess I'm a homosexual then... damn... thanks for pointing that out to me... my S/O will be disappointed in the news
Well look on the bright side... You guys can have a MMF and you can enjoy him too!
Happy Hunting!  | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 1:16:30 PM | | I see you listed UFC as an interest. So you enjoy watching 2 sweaty men wrestle around on the ground wearing nothing but spandex... word on the street is that makes you homosexual... ZOMG! It's okay, openly embrace it as I have, it's more fun on my team! | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 2:08:29 PM |
2run: HELL NO! If they did they'd be homosexual.
Really? I guess I am just a big flaming mo. Now that I am out of the closet, I have to say you are mighty cute 2run. Want to go out sometime? | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 2:12:20 PM | | I just responded to a similar thread not too long ago. However, best oral sex I've ever received has been when a woman stimulated my prostate with her finger as I reached climax. I will not allow "toys", but a finger or tongue never caused me any issues. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 2:47:33 PM | Hate to double post, but I really wanted to point out why it's not homosexual to have anal stimulation during sex. First if you have ever had anal with a woman this does not make you gay. Oral sex also a way that homosexuals have sex does not make you gay. Finally manual stimulation another method that homosexuals have sex does not make you gay. The reason, because unless you are attracted to a member of the same sex or are having any form of sexual intercourse with a member of the same sex you are not gay and that still leaves it open for bi-sexual.
As a close friend likes to say "it's not gay unless balls touch". | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 2:51:54 PM | have you experienced anal of somekind?
No.
did you enjoy it?
Well, in a few new frontier reveries, ummm, yeah, kind of the bridge between FantasyLand and AdventureLand
if you haven't, would you consider doing it?
Already have. That the prostate can be sexually stimulated has been so well documented at this point that it is beyond peradventure that some degree of pleasure is right inside door No. 2, waiting for release. Sooooo, are you seriously asking me whether I would be willing to add a sure-thing to the other things to cave my knees? I actually paused last November, for two seconds, before I pulled the lever. This question is a no-brainer, imo.
Also, would you approach your partner - or would you rather have them approach you.
Lol. Actually, meeting in the middle sounds great to me!
I know, it's still a rather taboo subject...
Gotta disagree with you there. In the past year, there have been no fewer than 12 threads, viable, enduring, on this very subject. No different, imo, than an OP who flat out asks whether there are any women out there who enjoyed being penetrated anally. And there have been a few of those, too. Hey, if a prostate-less woman can get off on a c-ck in her ass, and I have the equivalent of a g-spot kickstarter in mine, lol, wtf is all the commotion about here? Isn't it actually kinda surprising that there are any men who would say no to a woman who is interested in providing this kind of pleasure? Yeah, there's a thread topic for ya: are there really any silly men out there who would refuse such an offer from a partner attractive enough to fvck in every other way?
I will not allow "toys", but a finger or tongue never caused me any issues
I have no idea what virtue is preserved by this half-measure. Lol I'm thinkin' mo' is better. | |
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