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Posted: 10/5/2009 11:31:45 AM | | Any suggestions? Honesty before feelings please. Curious if there are any ways I could improve/strengthen my profile. Obviously I am not going to start fabricating things, but maybe I worded something poorly? I tend to be bad about that. Any advice is appreciated! | |
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Posted: 10/5/2009 11:36:17 AM | | You need a new primary photo which should be a good, sharp, well lit head shot of you smiling. Who is Heather in your second photo? Why aren't you dating her? Or perhaps you are? | |
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Posted: 10/5/2009 12:15:17 PM | | Reading the caption will show that Heather is a friend of mine. I am not dating her because she is not interested in me. | |
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Posted: 10/5/2009 9:20:00 PM | | Well, I set the photo of my friend and I to private. | |
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Posted: 10/5/2009 11:00:12 PM | Jon-jon ~ you're making me mental with the new threads... you have to bump the old ones or the duplicates will get deleted.
What the hell did you do to your hair!?!? Oh well, it'll grow.... And where is your scrubs picture!?! (sigh)
Your headline needs refreshing to something that's not cliche. "Hold the wasabi" or "Listen to my heartbeat" or something to do with your work would be good.
The line about your partner having a healthy sex drive will encourage the girls looking more for the quickie or one-night stand. Someone looking to develop a longer term relationship will feel like you're looking for a bed partner too and may expect you will expect them to put out very quickly. That line can only hurt you. It's ok to say you're physically affectionate and appreciate that in a partner, but leave the sex-drive talk for a bit down the road. | |
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Posted: 10/5/2009 11:14:13 PM | The only reason I included the sex-drive comment is that several times now girls who are virgins (and that is just fine, live and let live) have come onto me only to be upset or hurt when we LATER discuss that I think that sex is part of a serious healthy relationship. I would rather put that up front rather than continue to hurt someone's feelings and feel like an ass later on. FWIW, it has encouraged NO contact with reguard to 1-night stands, etc.
What, am I to trudge back through several MONTHS worth of reviews to dig something up? Is it still here?! I am beside myself with ignorance in reguards to that one.
Yes, TAG lines own me. I will change it to something, not sure what. I am indecisive as a person about some things. My hair is not one of them. It has looked the same for the better part of a decade. Radical change was in order. Radical change occured. Must be okay because I went from being rated like a 3 to being an 8.5, so why not? | |
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Posted: 10/6/2009 12:17:25 AM | Your experience does not count, because you acted improperly... you approached those women about sex way too early... you don't understand women.
Your profile "about me" section is one of the worst I've seen up for review, I'll tell you why... you've broken the number one rule: no negatives or anything which could even be construed as negative. Not only that, you've broken it in one of the worst ways. Negatives include very private and personal things which never belong on a profile, namely sex. You should never talk about sex on a profile, it's way too early for that (you don't even know her favorite color yet, much less who she is! Am I talking rocket science here?!), and absolutely inappropriate on a profile. (unless you have a "special need", such as an STD and have to be forward about it.) You will never get a date that way, there is no use going any further.... you'll simply be wasting your time and everyone else's here.
Love and women come with built-in, biological rules... if you don't know the rules, all you will get for your effort is a lot cruel and unusual punishment in the form of constant rejection. And it's going to leave a mark.
You are going to have to swallow your ego and be willing to take some advice if you want to do any good on a dating site. If you keep doing what you are doing, you'll keep getting what you are getting. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2009 12:29:17 AM | dude, you look that actor from Hitman !
anyways man, great profile
I wouldn't change a thing personally, but you should listen to Gloria, she knows whatsup | |
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Posted: 10/6/2009 1:05:40 AM | *I saw this one someone's profile and I really liked it. They listed height/weight/whatnot. Sometimes pictures are deceptive, so I figure I will put it on my profile as well.*
I am 5'10.5" (I claim that 1/2 inch!), 175#, have brown hair (currently shaved), and blue eyes.
Delete all this. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2009 7:48:38 AM |
but you should listen to Gloria, she knows whatsup
Oh yes, Jon and I go way back....
Nice changes already.  | |
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Posted: 10/6/2009 8:01:04 AM | | I think a few more closer up pics of your face would help. | |
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