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 Single_Looking_Guy

Joined: 9/29/2009
Msg: 1
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Posted: 10/7/2009 7:38:49 AM
Hi,I am gonna go out for a date with a gal almost double my age and am a bit nervous.I love our online interactions so far and I think our frequency have matched.How should I act on the date?How should I dress up or should I be just myself?
 Sabrosura

Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 2
How to impress an older lady?
Posted: 10/7/2009 7:40:01 AM
OP: There is NEVER a situation where you should NOT be yourself. Depending on where you are going to meet will determine what you wear.
 Single_Looking_Guy

Joined: 9/29/2009
Msg: 3
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Posted: 10/7/2009 7:44:13 AM
Hey Sab...yeh, I was thinking on the same lines,jus wanted to confirm it from the fair sex...loll!!Jus gonna have a coffee and a stroll in the park,so I better be my casual self den.
How to impress an older lady?
Posted: 10/7/2009 7:57:10 AM
What ever you have been doing must be working...she is meeting you
 cfb62

Joined: 9/17/2007
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Posted: 10/7/2009 8:02:42 AM
Whatever you do DON'T NOT be yourself!
Enjoy!
 Single_Looking_Guy

Joined: 9/29/2009
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Posted: 10/7/2009 8:04:36 AM
Yehh right!!!The only reason we are meeting is coz I hv been meself....so i shud stick to that!!!Thanks gals!!!
 whenwillthiswork26

Joined: 11/13/2008
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Posted: 10/7/2009 8:28:14 AM
Be nice and polite and don't talk about sex unless she brings it up.

If you are going to a restaurant, to impress her pick up the check and leave a 15% tip for the waiter.
Also, when she sits down, holding the back of her chair for her as she sits
is very impressive, and holding doors for her. Act a bit as though you are
making sure she has everything she wants and is happy.

Otherwise I agree, be yourself.
 pamsfl

Joined: 8/14/2009
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Posted: 10/7/2009 8:30:48 AM
HAHAHA you are 26 and she is late 40's I presume? You need not do anything but show up, LOL
 Cinder Malibu

Joined: 5/21/2009
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Posted: 10/7/2009 8:33:28 AM
I agree with all the other ladies on here.. be yourself..dress casually, and from my own personal point of view its really lovely when a guy opens car doors, pulls out chairs etc etc. Hope it all goes well for you both
 Pitch Blease

Joined: 3/4/2009
Msg: 10
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Posted: 10/7/2009 8:35:48 AM
You ask your mom what she likes? You bring your rich dad with you?

OP it's only coffee. Just go and sip slowly. Be yourself.
 sexymongoose

Joined: 9/25/2009
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Posted: 10/7/2009 9:05:07 AM
Hugs are a nice ice breaker. Walking anywhere you should offer her your arm.
& Good Manners Never Go Out Of Style.
Just act like it's a date with a "Babe" & not your Mom or one of her friends.
Us "Mature" ladies hate it when someone ask, "Is this your son?"
So, treat her like a sexy lady but Not like a potential date rape.
You two have some kind of spark going if your past the emails & on to the date.
Good luck & have fun.
Lady Jan
 lovemesomemen

Joined: 7/14/2009
Msg: 12
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Posted: 10/7/2009 9:16:56 AM
Whatever you do, never say "You remind me of my mom" or anything like that. And if you kiss, don't think about your mom.
 OnlyThis

Joined: 3/31/2009
Msg: 13
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Posted: 10/7/2009 9:35:24 AM
Impress? She's going out with a 20 something.. she's already impressed. Don't know what you are nervous about.. what she wants should be pretty freakin obvious.
 flyin squirrel

Joined: 5/25/2009
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Posted: 10/7/2009 9:41:03 AM
Yes wear whatever the date dictates AND be yourself( I know it's hard not to send out the representative),however lose the CHIP's shades on the date....we want to be able to see into your eyes and stare into your soul....Muhhahahaaa!
How to impress an older lady?
Posted: 10/7/2009 9:42:38 AM
carefree.....

iv been rolling my eyes for the last 15 minutes.....my god what a donk

it does not matter what age a guy is if i would have to do all the work, i would just get up and leave.

i did not look at your profile for your age, but i think its time to grow up

rolling eyes again
 -Iconoclast-

Joined: 5/18/2008
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Posted: 10/7/2009 9:49:50 AM
You mention her age, so it's an issue for you.

This may not be a good idea.

The only time I have had a successful interaction with younger men (and by younger, I mean more like 10 years, not 20) is when they truly didnt notice the age difference.

Sorry, but I don't think you'll get anything more than a fling out of it. Guard your heart and keep your head.
 oneofathought

Joined: 3/20/2009
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Posted: 10/7/2009 9:58:21 AM
Actually, carefree is a self-proclaimed nice guy in his profile. LOL He is young and immature. So, whatever.

OP, I agree with the majority. Be yourself and things should go fine. I would guess she is nervous too. Best of Luck!!! And have fun!
 derfofraleigh

Joined: 9/10/2007
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Posted: 10/7/2009 10:06:59 AM
Just don't ask her if her kids are older than you, then you should be fine....
 -Iconoclast-

Joined: 5/18/2008
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Posted: 10/7/2009 10:15:08 AM
and what would be the downside?


Many young men pursue older women looking for a fling and then become emotionally attached when they did not expect to. The woman in question has taken what she wanted and moved on.

I feel a bit of an obligation to warn those who are less worldly.
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