| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 2:53:12 PM | Ok my recent ex out of the blue desides to text me with some B.S about how i'm selfish and two faced when he's the one that pushed me away with his childish way's any time i had a girl's night out he would lay the guilt trip on me really friggin thick so i sent him a text telling him i'm not playing his games and to leave me alone that i moved on and he should to and he's sending text after text
what in the world is his deal we haven't been together for well over 6 month's and we haven't had contact untill now | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 2:56:49 PM | Every reply you give, gives him the inkling that he has some hold on you still,,,
ignore him if you're through with him,,,
period! | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 2:58:19 PM | | I only sent him one reply and i'm more then through with him he's 36 and act's like he's 12 with the guilt trips | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 3:16:50 PM | Is it possible that the Wii is broken, and it's "Jack" talking??
Ignore the texts or block the number.. problem solved.
Bluez | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 3:28:18 PM |
we haven't been together for well over 6 month's
I would be an azz if it had been 6 months and I had a boyfriend...
and act's like he's 12 Sounds like a match made in heaven.
You have nothing with this person, move on.. | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 3:31:13 PM | | He is just trying to keep his claws in you and a controlling selfish stalker and he knows your moving on and trying to stop you. | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 3:49:06 PM | It's just that it's taken him this long to think of "what I SHOULDA said to her wuz....!"
Being a bit unwise, he decided to say it late, instead of saving it up for the NEXT woman he disappoints, or who disappoints him. Be a classy doll, and ignore his foolish faux pas. | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 3:53:02 PM |
I only sent him one reply and i'm more then through with him he's 36 and act's like he's 12 with the guilt trips
WHY even send one? WHY tell him that you "moved on"? To make him jealous??
If you're truly over him, then just don't respond. Like MTM said, when you respond, he sees that as another opportunity for interaction.
STONEWALL him! There, problem solved. | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 3:58:41 PM | because he's a complete moron. another girl rejected him and he got dissed and now he just thought about you and he's taking it out on you know. b*tching about the past... hes a f*cking idiot.  | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 4:32:57 PM | It's good to be civil with your 1 message, if you didn't previously state to cut all contact.
Otherwise yes it sounds like he's showing his entirely true colours of being a sad knobcheese so yes after that 1 you've said the best plan is a stonewall.
I know a person similar to this and yes these clingy types can say litterally anything to get some attention and be insanely persistent :/ Best of luck and hopefully you'll never have to see him again. The only person who can help himself is him so after his lashing out you owe him nothing and shouldn't feel any guilt at all over his whines. | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 4:35:43 PM | He might be drunk, he might be mad, who the heck knows?
Stop responding to them, do not ever reply and eventually he will stop. | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 4:40:18 PM | Obvioulsy he is still feeling some lingering ill feelings and is only now letting them out.
You now have the choice to either let yourself be hung-up and affected by it or, you can let him live what ever he is still living. | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 4:43:08 PM | he can do what ever he please i at this point don't care he was the one to push me away and i have sinces moved on i am now seeing a guy with more brains in his pinky toe then my ex has in his big fat head so thus far i have ignored the rest of his text's  | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 4:44:06 PM | | if i had an ex i wasn't interested in then i wouldn't even be talking to them or worrying about it. it's like do you ever wonder why a stranger is doing what they are doing? no you don't which means you are sucked into drama and shouldn't be with anyone until...you get over this. | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 4:55:00 PM | | I DO wonder why strangers do things sometimes .. is this abnormal? when I see anybody doing or saying bizarre things I always wonder why. I don't text them, but I wonder ... like, for example, WHY is madonna dating a 21 yr old?! I've dated younger guys but that's just silly, he's practically in high school! | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 5:25:13 PM | If you had a girls' night out with his blessing, he didn't lay a guilt trip on you. You chose to feel guilty, for whatever reason, when you got home...
to the point of your question, kick him to the curb - make it clear you're done with him (assuming you are) and, if necessary, get a restraining order against him... | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 6:48:49 PM | My friend broke up with her guy like 5 months ago and he STILL hassles her through phone, text and even hid in her front garden a couple of times.
She still battles with him and I have been trying to drum into her head that by simply 'engaging' the enemy, you still have a war.
I asked her to stop contact with him for my birthday.. she's even got another boyfriend but he still now contacts her, albeit only say once a week - to ask her who he is, what she's doing with him etc. She tells him it's none of his business...
So basically my opinion is - no contact at all. If he texts you, don't entertain him by responding. | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 7:00:09 PM | | Quit answering him. You don't need to define the boundaries of a separation to him everytime he sends you a text. In 6 months, you've managed to split up with your ex and begin dating someone from your mother's job. You have unfinished biz with your ex and just because he has not been around for 6 months, whether you like it or not, you will not be rid of him so quickly. So dating at this point when you have this mess on your plate should be put on the backburner. You have two young children, one of which was only 1 month old when you became single again. Concentrate on on how you will deal with this situation with minimal hurt to your babies. | |
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| why is my ex being an AZZ
Posted: 10/10/2009 7:53:10 PM | | change your number or don't reply. you're enabling his crazy ways by responding and getting such a big reaction out of it. he'll eventually stop. | |
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