| Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/11/2009 2:03:26 PM | So I meet this girl from POF and she was telling me everybody she meant was really weird and had horrible dates. So we go out and have a blast. She invites me over and takes the iniative and goes right for the big guy lol.
I did not have condoms on me as I didn't expect first date sex and her response was I don't have a uterous anyways so you can just f-me. I politely told her I don't do that without protection so we messed around other ways and then gave me head. I warned her priar to cumming which she was appreciative of. I mention this because nothing happened that would have offended her.
Anyway I call and text her the next day no response. Send an email today and she just responded back and said "I'm sorry, I just don't think it is going to work out. The more thinking I do about it, I think I am looking for something else... I had fun and you are super nice. Good luck."
So whats the deal? has this happen to any of the other guys on here. | |
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| Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/11/2009 2:16:12 PM | She's quite the class act there.
Quite honestly, she sounds like a flake and someone who clearly doesn't discrimate when it comes to taking risks to have promiscuous sex with strangers. You probably dodged a bullet with this one.
Who knows what her thought process is? I don't behave like this so I honestly can't give you a logical answer, but she just sounds like she has no idea what the heck she wants. "Flighty" comes to mind. | |
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| Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/11/2009 2:30:50 PM | Dude, let it go. The chick is nuts and a sleeze. It is usually a pretty bad sign when there is that much sex on the first date. Unless you 2 communicated for weeks prior to first date and got to know each other that way she was telling you nicely that she was not interested in a long term relationship the second she got intimate with you.
To give her the benefit of the doubt, I would say that maybe she is embarassed. But to be a realist, I would say she is a pig.
Has it happened to me? Yup, and the second she unzipped my pants I knew it was the beginning of the end. Went with the flow and didn't waste the time calling or texting. I am 43 years old and know when and how to act with a respectable woman worthy of a second date. Take it as a learning experience, the ones that are keepers don't blow you or want vaginal sex sans protection on the first date. Seems pretty obvious to me.
You gotta realize that woman are exactly the same as men these days. We are adults and and the old expectations and rules no longer apply. Why should they? Women should be treated and respected exactly as men. If they go out and only want sex they can get it here or anywhere. Why is it ok for a man yet questionable when a woman does it?
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| Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/11/2009 2:42:37 PM | The chick is nuts and a sleeze
Umm and what does that make him? Takes two to tango and he didn't say no.
I would say she is a pig.
And that would make the participating party a swine, no?
Has it happened to me? Yup, and the second she unzipped my pants I knew it was the beginning of the end. Went with the flow and didn't waste the time calling or texting.
Well hello Kettle!!!
I am 43 years old and know when and how to act with a respectable woman worthy of a second date. Take it as a learning experience, the ones that are keepers don't blow you or want vaginal sex sans protection on the first date.
But if there was a condom at hand, then vaginal sex would of been okay? What about the "respectable" man that let her blow him? He couldn't say no? Misogynists can always turn a story around to suit their own "morals".
Women should be treated and respected exactly as men.
Except according to you, the woman "is a pig" and they guy should be leery for receiving a bj on the first date? Yes he was very respected. | |
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| Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/11/2009 3:12:10 PM | WOW. semi intellectual response, I like it! You got me. I guess you are right, I was being a little Misogyinstic in my response. But, honestly how many men do you know that would turn down a blow job? Pretty sleezy but true. Same for women, how many would stop a man going down on them if they were enjoing it?
I mentioned that these things have happened in the past. I no longer allow this type of behavior on dates. If she wants to go home with me on the first date I tell her no thanks and send her on her way. It is that simple. I've been a "pig" and don't like it.
Good Call! I like it when I am challenged.
BTW I read your profile and it is a long but interesting read. Nice. | |
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| Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/11/2009 3:18:20 PM | It is my "2 cents" as opposed to your 1 cent. Dude, how lame is it to try and score brownie points here on a forum?
Use your masters degree to interpret what I was really saying...I am a "pig" for allowing it to happen also...she is a pig for giving it...We are both pigs if it happens on the first date...Pigs screw around on the first date...OK? Do I need to break it down to even easier terms for you to understand? I can go into deeper meaings of the statement, i.e. traditional role models in human sexuality? BUT, seeing it is Sunday afternoon and I was goofing around I won't waste the bandwidth or time, unless, pray tell, you ask nicely. So I want you to stand there in your faggity white uniform with your Harvard mouth and ask nicely, you gotta ask nicely...(I just love Jack and couldn't resist)
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| Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after.
Posted: 10/11/2009 3:26:48 PM | | OP, ummm... you can pick up HSV-1 from oral sex my friend. The odds are slight, but if she had and internal mouth sore and went to town on you with a few teeth scapes, you might be up the creek. Don't let someone you don't know go down on you without their full history or some level of protection. | |
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