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Posted: 10/11/2009 5:32:15 PM | | the girl i was dating just told me she has been having sex with another guy. i've been hurt so many times before this just proves my point that 99% of girls are not to be trusted. they only care about themselves. i just had to rant about this cuz im so pissed off and hurt right now. | |
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Posted: 10/11/2009 5:54:24 PM | Yeah guys do it too Johah.
Well, well, well.
Another cheater. Wow - must be something in the water right now.
So.............. hmmmmmmm......................
She didnt see your worth. She went off and had sex with someone else.
Consider yourself lucky. She is a c$&t.
She is one of like a MILLION girls that live near you that you can meet
and have a great relationship with.
She is nothing. Worthless. Lacking character, integrity and respect for
you, your feelings and your relationship.
So what should we do?
No contact - get your head together, forget the 99% and go find that one
percent thats worth your time.
And no, this 1% does not just care about herself. She cares about the
man in her life and making him happy.
Just so ya know. | |
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Posted: 10/11/2009 7:44:45 PM | | Curlygrl is right. My ex cheated on me too. It felt horrible at first, but with time, you'll get better. Right now you're feeling helpless and it's ok to feel that way. Just stay busy. Curlygrl and others made me realize that I need someone who will appreciate me and who will take care of my heart. I know she made you feel worthless like my ex did, but there are plenty of other women out there to date. I know it would be hard to trust someone again, but that's how life is. | |
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Posted: 10/11/2009 8:24:36 PM | sorry you hurt , but read the other threads where women outnumber men in being totally against affairs and cheating. Don't take your hurt out on innocent bystanders and blame half the populace-that is so 80's | |
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Posted: 10/12/2009 10:12:34 AM | | The only girl a guy can trust is his guitar! | |
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Posted: 10/12/2009 10:56:07 AM | if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
never make a pretty woman your wife
so from my personal point of view
get an ugly woman to marry you..... | |
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Posted: 10/12/2009 11:58:45 AM | Do you ask yourself why you continually fall for women that cannot be trusted?
Had you been dating a long time, were you exclusive?
I'm sure your friends have had decent girl friends over the years, do you have sisters? Do they cheat on their men?
Don't let a couple of poor choices ruin your chance at a real relationship. | |
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Posted: 10/12/2009 12:22:38 PM | a guitar is the best female thing that god has created, always loyal and will never cheat on you! and your fingers across the fingerboard will make you feel the best pleasure! | |
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Posted: 10/12/2009 8:35:03 PM | | Goes both ways...Just broke up with my ex who cheated on me...COuldnt tell the truth to save his life... cheaters suck! Hang in there and put yourself first in everything you do right now..it helps. | |
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Posted: 10/12/2009 9:06:31 PM | Hey Jonah you're cute. Wanna go out?  | |
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Posted: 10/13/2009 12:45:28 PM | One girl proves a 99% statistic??!! Dude, c'mon. Many women feel the same way about men, and you know that statistic isn't true. There are faithful people left in this world, of both genders, they just need to be with the right person, the person they want and only want. At least she told you...although she should have broke up with you first. That I definitely agree with. It sucks, it hurts, and if it makes you feel better to female bash and throw out extremely exaggurated statistics, be my guest. But then hold your head high and keep looking for that 1% woman who will be faithful to you  | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 9:07:26 AM | I'm truly sorry for your pain, but until you've dated a few million more girls, you can't say 99% of them are anything.
If this isn't the first time this has happened to you, you need to evaluate how you're selecting your girlfriends.
Best of luck! | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 9:34:30 AM |
99% of girls are not to be trusted. they only care about themselves. i just had to rant about this cuz im so pissed off and hurt right now.
You're just now figuring this out? Well, at least now you know! | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 11:29:08 AM | i guess he means 99% of girls cheat on their men emotionally, not physically.
out there there are a lot of women (and men) who think of another person when having sex, etc | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 12:45:58 PM | | The Guitar gets my vote. Julie is one hot babe, the way her body feels against me is something to be seen. | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 1:12:58 PM | | I'm 38 and never cheated on anyone in my life. And I know there are more of us! You just gotta weed through, well...the weeds. | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 3:19:19 PM | Cheating and relationship problems, etc are gender specific.
BOTH genders are just as guilty.........
Yes, it sucks being cheated on. It's a hurt like NO other.
Give yourself a break, take some time, heal, and move on with your life. Hopefully, when you are ready, someone good will enter your life. | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 5:49:40 PM | Make a list of each of these girls' OTHER character traits, and see if you don't/can't find commonalities between them that will give you clues as to why you've been attracted to each of them, yet resulting the same relationship outcome.
I suggest this in effort to not only heal, but to better learn yourself, hence becoming better at avoiding a repeat scenario.
Hang in there. You owe it to yourself to take the time to learn that not ALL females are untrustworthy. | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 8:12:00 PM | | Be thankful you don't have a child together. My ex apparently started cheating on me right after the baby was born. Given that, you still can't say that 99% of women cheat, although maybe 99% of the women you date. You also need to look at what is common in all of those relationships.....you. Take a long hard look at yourself and see where you keep going wrong. I HIGHLY suggest you take some time away from dating and learn to trust again, or you're going to end up trashing your next relationship with prior baggage. Just my $.02. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 12:56:47 AM | | I like your generalisations, that's a good way of looking at it. You must have dated SO MANY women! But good job, i'm glad we've been exposed for what we truly are! You should date men from now on, they are really trustworthy and honest. <3 | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 1:06:02 AM | It is sad when people cheat and it is sad to be cheated on ...
More than ever before, people are seeking relief.
Problems are hard to work out on your own. Partners aren't coming to the party.
It is down heartening to see all the things that cause a person to cheat, but sometimes it comes from sheer desperation. That's not an excuse, it is a reason.
Relationships take a lot of work, and when it isn't mutual, the relationship is usually dead and buried in the ground anyway.
Sometimes an event like 'cheating' can be the accelerant to an outcome where earlier, there was only stagnation. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 1:41:29 AM | | I guess some people prefer to not tell there partner that the relationship is over or there not happy and try and work it out or end it and instead prefer to find someone else to date and move on and leave you hurt in there wake with there lack of respect for you and your feelings. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 4:27:02 AM | come on man, women aren't all the same (I'm not defending what she did).
You need to go golfin and lots of it. | |
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Posted: 10/21/2009 7:21:50 PM | At least she told you. Would it have been better if she never admitted it?
People do have a tendency to have sex with others. It happens all the time.
Sorry that you are hurt and I do understand your pain. | |
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Posted: 10/21/2009 7:45:07 PM | | Hun most women are not cheaters...mistake number one. Maybe your attracting people that cannot or will not be faithful but I assure you its not the norm. Take a time out and rethink what you want and how you present that. This is not your fault but nooooooooooooo most ladies are not cheaters....give it a hard think and your gonna be ok. | |
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