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Posted: 10/12/2009 4:49:29 PM | I needs some honest candid feedback on my profile. I would like to know what kind of message you think I am putting out there. I also would like the ladies to reply as to how much my profile strikes their interests. Fellas, let me know what has worked for you to generate some responses.
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Posted: 10/13/2009 10:41:13 AM | After reading your profile, I still have no idea what type of woman you are seeking. You're attractive but I don't know if we have any common interests. Should she be athletic, funny, sarcastic?? Are you looking for something that might turn into something or casual dates?
You're a handsome guy, but when I open up the main pic the first thing I see is feet. Unattractive to most ladies. Maybe crop them out.
You're an Engineer, probably worked very hard to get there. Be proud of it and list it as your occupation. Leave the silly for later on. Intelligence and a secure job are turn-ons to women. | |
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Posted: 10/13/2009 11:16:24 AM | As in so many profiles men post, you're making as little effort as possible. Lose the dog pic, jeez. Your main profile shot should be a smiling head shot - not you on a bed looking hammered. And, big shocker, YOU need to search for then email women nearby. We're not chasing you, here or in person - if women were doing that, you wouldn't be on here at all, right?
So put some effort in and maybe you'll get some results. | |
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Posted: 10/13/2009 11:25:25 AM | You say that you are looking for friends, but your main pic is of you on a bed? If pictures speak louder than words, you're looking for an intimate encounter.
Also, there's so little about you in there. If you want women to respond to you, you need to give them something to respond to. Get interesting info about you in there and your personality in there by how you say it.
Something to think about--The occassional smoking WILL instantly take you out of the running with some women. | |
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Posted: 10/13/2009 11:37:10 AM | Feet offensive. And I'm a man. Crop out the feet.  Pic #4 is too dark and doesn't look flattering anyway, and the International Man of Mystery look in it isn't working for you. I'd ditch it. A good quality close up of your smiling face without sunglasses would be good.
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Posted: 10/14/2009 8:09:54 AM | Thanks for the feedback...this is all good stuff. I am new to the online dating scene and my profile will continue to change.
I was not trying to go for a intimiate encounter sort of picture with the bed thing. I thought it was a cool picture in a neat place. But that is why I am posting this for reviews, everyone has their own perspective.
Thanks rockin' I will crop out the feet LOL!!!
Thanks again for all your responses, everyone has provided me with GREAT feedback. | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 11:00:55 AM | You asked, what works?
The primary photo is what draws in the ladies to read your profile. A well lit close-up with a bright smile.
The profile should be selling them about you. I doubt that yours is working for you. Check the profile writing tips at the top of the main profile page.
Many ladies are reluctant to send the first note so you need to get good at that. A pleasant greeting, a comment or two about what you found interesting in her profile, a question about her and an invitation to chat.
I found that the best results come by contacting those who have checked your profile and who also share things of interest.
Ron | |
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