| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 4:59:12 PM | Hi there, I like to think I'm a decent looking girl, with pretty eyes and a nice smile. But I'm guessing the reason most people don't email me is because of my pictures? I know one or two of them are edited..But that's what I like to do, edit pictures. Its also hard to take full shots of myself when I'm usually the one taking pictures :P I know I'm not thee most perfect looking girl, but any tips on what kind of pictures I could take would be nice/helpful!  | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:02:29 PM |
But I'm guessing the reason most people don't email me is because of my pictures? I would say it has more to do with this -
Mail Settings (To message GlassKiss you MUST meet the following criteria.) Male Age between 22 and 32 Live in Canada Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex. You must have a picture to contact this user. Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail Must not be looking for Other Relationship Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter Must not do drugs Must not be married Must not smoke | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:07:59 PM | | that or your really just not that interesting? you also live in like the ***hole of Canada... | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:11:48 PM | I'm not willing to throw myself into just any relationship. So thus I have my standard and settings to try and weed out the bad ones.
And its not my fault I live out here. Where I live should have nothing to do with someone wanting to meet me. I'm not looking outside of NL ATM. | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:13:22 PM | you also live in like the ***hole of Canada...
.....says some one from Nanaimo....pot meet kettle?
I think the first part of isjustlooking's post might be correct though. Not everyone is going to be interested in you.
EDIT VVVV Have you tried the profile review forum, they can help you out. | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:17:06 PM | Oh I'm well aware of that :) but unlike a lot of profile, I actually wrote one out! ;) But if my profile also comes off as a little uninteresting or boring opinions would be nice! No trolling though! Thanks! | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:17:18 PM | Pictures seem fine to me.
Why not get the ball rolling and not just sit around and wait for things to come to you? | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:18:10 PM | | Just my two cents: your profile has an overall negative vibe to it. Kind of a "high maintenace" vibe to it as well. Maybe try focusing more on the positive. | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:19:37 PM |
but any tips on what kind of pictures I could take would be nice/helpful!
full body shots. You have none. You put your body as "average"...I dont know if you are or are not for that matter, put full body shots on your profile. You can always do the cheesy in the bathroom pic mirror shot.
why guys dont email you? It could be many things. Too many to list. Some guys wont go out with girls if they have brown hair. We have NO idea why, its a crap shoot.
why dont you email guys instead of waiting for people to email you. Be proactive. | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:24:03 PM | I email guys, but sometimes its nice to hear from a guy one his own. My profile may come off negative, but I am so sick of getting emails saying shit like "oh your so pretty please email me back we would be perfect for each other plz plz plz..." Simple example among many many emails I got and just went huh? O_O'....That comes off as super creepy. | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:24:50 PM | | well I haven't looked at your other pics to judge them or your profile, I think you already know what you have to do if you are "asking" the question yourself. If you feel they are uninteresting, they probably are. The picture you have up is ok if you ask me, you kinda look like that true blood girl with dark hair. | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:27:22 PM | Never seen true blood, should check it out I 'spose lol. I'm planning on taking new pictures, but what kind of pictures do guys like to see that grab their attention? (Besides the obvious sexual imaging.) | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:31:18 PM |
Simple example among many many emails I got and just went huh?
you just complained in your opening post that you NEVER get emails. Now you say you get "many many emails"...
so which one is it?
so your post is a rant about guys emailing you that YOU have no intrest in.
Your post should be...."how do I get guys that Im attracted to email me?"
This is a classic example of a chick who thinks because she has a vagina that she deserves all men to email her, but if its not the one she likes, then she gets to **** about it.... | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:34:29 PM | | you've got some whine and negativity to your narrative - not an outrageous amount, but it doesn't take much to turn a guy off who has some choices. that leaves you the guys with no choices, and - guess what? - they're the ones who send desperate, creepy emails. | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:35:06 PM | I did a search for men 22-32 in your area looking for long-term or dating and only could find about 758 which is not a very population area you live in. Most of them you would not message or be attracted to which would only be about 50 that you would consiter dating with tattoos and percings which are usually the bad boy types that don't really want to commit. So basically your just killing all your options online with being picky and b!tch to guys who are really interest and the rest scared away with this statement in your profile.
If you want to know more just ask me. Also if I don't write back it means I'm not interested. I've tried writing people back telling them I'm not interested and I got b!tched on for it. Just because I don't show interest doesn't mean someone else won't. but with an attitude like that good luck Which really does not need to be said it is asumed just don't reply period, don't make your self to be a mean girl. | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:36:43 PM | Wow, sorry to tell you hun but no where did I say "I never get emails" in my main opening. I want emails from guys who aren't desperate looking for any girl to go out with them. This is NOT a classic version of a chick who thinks because she has a vagina that she deserves all men to email her. This puts you off as a man who has a poor out look on women. I am not ****ing I am just looking for opinions or ideas. Not someone who wants to sit here and troll me because they think they know the situation at hand like the daily news. | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:38:33 PM |
that you would consiter dating with tattoos and percings which are usually the bad boy types that don't really want to commit.
Generalize much? Just curious where you get your stats from? | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:49:35 PM | Hey, I am not every woman's idea of a good looking guy. Does that bug me? Nope :D
Is there something wrong with your pictures? Do you need to improve them? That is up to you. I know... no answers. What I am trying to get at is your pictures look good, they show off you.
Confused? Yeah I do that to people. | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 5:50:39 PM | Some of the things you say are a tad berating of men. I know you only asked for pic reviews, but I felt compelled to read. A little bit too much focus on men who don't read and deal-breakers.
Some of the pics are boring, some are nice. It can take lots of pics to glean a few good ones so, by all means, take lots. It would help to have a friend/colleague take pics of you doing things you regularly do or enjoy doing. Get creative with it, and it will certainly work out. As the other poster suggested, a full body pic would also help.
There is nothing wrong with Canada IMHO, but geography/suburb does determine your options :) | |
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| Are my pictures uninteresting? Posted: 10/12/2009 6:11:17 PM | You're a beautiful girl and your pictures are nice, but maybe a little too much "gloom." How about some upbeat pics in a sun dress outside? Get a profile review upstairs for more information.
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