clmlo
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| I don't know where to begin.....
Posted: 10/13/2009 3:41:04 AM | Hello people... I just wanted to tell my stories... so I can tell me what is she thinking...
Little over a year ago... I met my long highschool friend in facebook... In her facebook, she listed she is single... however, I did see one set of pictures that she is with a guy.
Anyway, I asked her out for dinner, it gone very well... we talked about old times and such... Then over 1 week later, she ask me if I can bring her to my work place. I worked in the Flight simulators business.. She said she wanted try it... and ask if she can bring a friend...
And guess what, she bring that guy with her that on her facebook. So I just go along... after her visit to the flight sim.. she began to send tons of applications on facebook to me.... however, thinking she already have a boyfriend I didn't do much... then one of my coworker tell her I liked her.... and she told him she already have a boyfriend and we already met...
Then at Valentine days she send me some digital chocolate on facebook... I send one back.. so wanted to found out what is going on... I contacted another old HighSchool friends..... He calming he knows her close friend... and trying to bad month her... saying she is a tramp and tell me to stay away from her.
Of course 6 months later I found out that guy that I believe in was just BSing me...
I told her and wanted to apologize for it.... of course she ignore me at first... and then said she had nothing more to say....
I finally stop and tell her to take care of herself.. and thanks her for her reply....
Then the next day... she post 1 photo on facebook... just her and that guy which looked like in a Christmas business dinner.
Since then we never talk again... the other funny part is, that guy on the picture suddenly no longer her friend in facebook... and she had no more facebook activates almost a year now... only adding friends on her facebook...
We never spoke to each other again...
I know I am in some wrong.... I shouldn't trust my friend about her... but she bring a guy in... I need to find some information of what is going on... She got mad of that?
I just don't understand woman! I really hope we can still be friend... but I just don't know what she is thinking....
It is almost a year now... I don't plan to ever talk to her again... I just wanted to know what is the LOGIC behind it! | |
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Posted: 10/13/2009 5:14:34 AM | | The logic behind it is that your belief in what your friend said against her was a betrayal of your friendship with her. To be a friend is to think well of someone. She found out that you had been thinking poorly of her and without any true reason. When she found that out, her thinking about you changed. She no longer could expect that you thought well of her and wished her well. In this way you ended the friendship by believing something bad and untrue about her. Now, what could she expect of you? She can't trust your opinion of her because it could change if someone tells you a lie about her. | |
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Posted: 10/13/2009 5:41:21 AM | clmlo
you tell us this person is your friend... but yet
you do not ask this person those things that you find important
but you sneak about asking others about this person
this person stops talking to you
then you come here asking strangers of this person
well my good clmlo all the answers you seek are below
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what does it mean to be a true friend
how does one live with honour
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Posted: 10/13/2009 7:13:38 AM |
began to send tons of applications on facebook to me
Then at Valentine days she send me some digital chocolate on facebook.
Oh my god! I thought after reading this there would heve been wedding bells!!!
Haway now - do you really think these things means she is interested in you? I send applications and digital gifts too all my firends, all the time. Me thinks you are looking far too much into this! In fact I can't belive you are obsessing so much about her Facebook activity - get a life dude! She is not interested. She went out with you as a friend to catch up...........nothing else! Now stop being such a loser! | |
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Posted: 10/13/2009 8:44:41 AM | Meeting an old classmate for dinner. Visiting that classmate's place of work because he has an interesting job. Sending a ton of facebook crap to someone. Sorry, but none of these actions represents a mating ritual.
You made contact with an old acquaintance thats about all I see here. I think you need to spend less time in the simulators and more time in the real world. | |
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clmlo
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Joined: 7/16/2008
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| I don't know where to begin.....
Posted: 10/13/2009 8:50:01 AM | Thanks all for reply... I really no longer interested in her...
I know I screwed up badly.... I just hope to save our friendship... But I guess it just wasn't possible... anyways... I guess it take time for me to learn.... | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 2:04:07 AM | Facebook is for children....Children do not employ or understand logic or common sense! So grow the hell up and leave the children at the nursery school... this is what's expected of you once you turn 21, although many people have a very hard time letting go of "the ways of a child"...
Good Luck | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 4:17:30 AM | The problem here is that at the start of your acquaintance with her, you didn't pick a flower from some random garden and do the standard routine of "she loves me...she loves me not....she loves me......"
Where do you begin? Begin by repeating this mantra, word for word:
I am an idiot......I am an idiot.....I deserve this......repeat 3 x before bed and early in the morning...wash and rinse.
You'll find that you begin treating yourself with some respect and develop some dignity after one week of this. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2009 7:27:11 AM | You hope to be friends with her but you don't plan to talk to her again?
I don't know if english is your second language or if you simply don't write well.
It might be frustrating for her if you talk like you write.
You have not talked to her in over a year but you need some information on what is going on? It sounds like you have been obsessing over someone you never see.
Why not try to find a female you can actually talk to? | |
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Posted: 10/17/2009 4:53:54 PM | | ok she put she is single, red flag there, then you invite her to your job, she brings another guy, she is not a good person, she should have put in a relationship. so get over it, you will find better! | |
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Posted: 10/17/2009 7:58:25 PM | OP, it's been over a year....what you really mean here is that you really just don't know where to end....get over it already! Good luck!   | |
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Posted: 10/17/2009 8:14:01 PM | | One more reason I do not have "facebook". I do not like being so "accesible". So much drama. Good grief. You do not only not understand "women" you do not understand yourself. This has more issues than National Geographic. | |
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