| NEW SECTION men vs. women Posted: 10/13/2009 8:36:42 AM | Honesty I am in the profile help section because I have no luck with women. Do guys really want help from me???? NO I think not. On the other hand I know what men (or atleast me) are looking for and believe I could help women. Unforuntly 4/5 requests seem to be from men as well and i dont enjoy digging around trying to find a female to help.
PLEASE sign my patition to get PoF to make a Male/Female profile review section | |
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| NEW SECTION men vs. women Posted: 10/13/2009 9:40:49 AM | u give gud advisc n i thank u wuld be gud to help others.
wear is ur patition?
Um... You have no luck with women and yet think your have something that you can offer them by way of review?
I smell something rotten in Denmark.
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| NEW SECTION men vs. women Posted: 10/13/2009 10:23:19 AM | | I would vote for a petition to get teen and twenty somethings their own category...so they don't have to constantly whine for profile reviews. | |
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| NEW SECTION men vs. women Posted: 10/13/2009 11:07:27 AM | | You need to be elsewhere, and you're profile probably doesn't work for many reasons, but you're not looking for profile help right? Can't help myself though - if you are really an engineer, why can't you spell? Just a pet peeve of mine, and from the forums, a pet peeve of many, many other posters here. | |
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| NEW SECTION men vs. women Posted: 10/13/2009 1:47:31 PM | Hum... thought I deleted this thread guess I can only delete my post.
And to answer your question.
1. Dont want to install spell checking addon to my work computer 2. Dont want to copy and paste into word to spell check as I am a busy person 3. I have a 30-75% hearing lose so I can not "sound out word" as I do not know exactly what they sound like. 4. Engineeing requires a good grasp of differential equations, statistics, dynamics, vector mechanics, 3D spacial representation, and physics. At no point was I graded on the spelling of plain/plane. | |
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| NEW SECTION men vs. women Posted: 10/13/2009 1:59:40 PM | Now those four things just told me a heck of a lot more about you than your profile! Didn't make me like you any better, but told me more about you. | |
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| NEW SECTION men vs. women Posted: 10/13/2009 2:35:57 PM | PLEASE sign my patition You will please sign my "patition" to get petition-makers (except for me) blocked permanently?
Didn't make me like you any better, but told me more about you. Pam, you are a rascal.  | |
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| NEW SECTION men vs. women Posted: 10/13/2009 3:39:40 PM | OP - okay, 1st, if you just trying to review women's profiles and find it arduous to be stuck for three seconds glancing at some dork look at the name - women use feminine names.
Grammar and spell-check are your friends. That engineering gobbledygook and impresso-grams you recollected from 3rd year aren't common knowledge. What sorta jobs do you think we have? Communication is crucial everywhere.
If you're really trying to meet girls start with a few better pics. It doesn't much matter what you say in your profile. Your profile is a little awkward but not a disaster - I met some decent people with junk about dumpster diving and invading south america. | |
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| NEW SECTION men vs. women Posted: 10/13/2009 4:37:31 PM | The first statement in your profile is “I hate profile writing.” Seems a bit strange for someone who wants to do profile reviews, don’t you think.
After reading yours, I can see why you are having no luck. Maybe you should check the tips at the top of the main page. Spell check is your friend, use it. | |
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| NEW SECTION men vs. women Posted: 10/13/2009 8:38:19 PM | We've all just seen an excellent illustration of the difference between "smart" and "intelligent".
Reading: it's fundamental! | |
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| NEW SECTION men vs. women Posted: 10/13/2009 9:32:09 PM | The petty posts are beyond comprehension. I'm appalled so far. Not surprised though. Not surprised at all.
Listen bro if you want to have luck with women? Treat them like a human being. Be yourself always.
And if "yourself" needs work? Work on it!
There is no one size fits all solution. Remember...
Lying gets you nowhere but laid. And not for long by the same woman! Unless she enjoys being used and thats a whole other story altogether.
Don't accept anything you wouldn't dish out yourself. Meaning if you wouldn't treat someone like garbage for no particular reason don't accept that behavior from someone else. You're setting yourself up for failure by doing so. Get in where you fit in.
Women don't want a boy to abuse they want a man who stands his ground when appropriate. Theyre going to test you, deal with it. Handle it like a man. Stop kissing ass unless you've been with a woman for awhile and then KNOW when it's appropriate to kiss her ass.
Hold your chin up. Be yourself. Treat the woman you desire with respect. DON'T be a push over EVER. Accept that rejection, on occassion, is all part of the process and keep your eye on the prize always.
Love yourself and let women know in a subtle way you don't NEED them... you just want them around because you enjoy their company. Tell the truth but do it with charm NOT like a bull in a china shop.
And if not? No problem there are PLENTY OF FISH in the sea. Stop taking it so seriously, relax and watch the tide change.
You'll do just fine. Best of luck! | |
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| NEW SECTION men vs. women Posted: 10/14/2009 9:02:04 AM | majicwonder: apperently you dont know how hearing loss works to this day people tell me I am saying "aluminum" wrong. My friend couldnt believe it and we spent an hour trying to get me to say it right. He would say it and I would parrot it back. Every time they sounded exactly the same but he still insists I am saying it wrong.
Jay C. Thanks for the words of encouragement | |
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