| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/14/2009 12:48:29 PM | Me and one of my girlfriend's where talking and oral came up and she was complaning about how she'll go down on her husband and she'd get nothing in return and she went on to tell me befor she and him got married that he would love going down on her and how she misses that and it's not like she's a dirty women she'll walk out of the shower and she'll go down on him and yet he still won't do in for her
So my question is do men like getting more then giving back or giving at all for that matter
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Senou
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/14/2009 12:57:32 PM | | It's hard to say, I have no idea about your friend or her husband. Maybe they had kids and he has an aversion to it now. It could be that he just doesn't find her as attractive, or he desires sex less. In general I think it is going to depend on the person, guy or girl, weather they want to give or receive more. | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 1:00:39 PM | | Personally I could care less if a woman goes down on me as most put me to sleep but I still enjoy it. Even if a woman does not want to go down on me I will gladly do it for her as I love it and absolutely enjoy doing it for her. I like it for a woman to go down on me for a couple minutes but I will go down on her for as long as she wants as I love feeling her squirm all over the place for a hour. | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 1:22:44 PM | Not too many guys are gonna turn down a blowjob when his gal moves in and decides to get busy. however accessibility is a factor, its a bit more difficult to return the favor to her if your driving in the car, movie theatre, church or k-mart...
its just not as easy to eat pussy, -i'm guessing that cuz i've never sucked a dick however i would think its easier to suck on a tootsie pop than eat a plate of spaghetti without a fork (gets messy)
If your in a secluded place, here's no excuse for not returning the favor, unless there seems to be a hygienic problem or she never uses a razor (nobody enjoys eating thistles).
my suggestion: get all dolled up, shave, put on something sexxxxxxy and see through, give him a few drinks, show him your pussy and tell him "honey, its not gonna eat itself"
Lets face it, either someone's into Oral, or not. -and the "not" ones are never never never gonna do it
As for the others, whether sex is spontaneous, or she spends hours getting ready with perfume, ribbons, curls and sexxxxy underwear, how could any guy turn down giving tongue pleasure to this delicate creatures shaved sweet smelling pussy, if your not already drooling at the sight of her nipples peeking out of her skimpy see thru negligee, and you don't fantasize devouring every part of her -why are you with her in the first place?
If you like her, your gonna anything that makes her do that scrunched up face and make cute little noises like an injured seal
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Posted: 10/14/2009 1:36:36 PM | | I'm all for giving oral to a lady if she is into it. I don't care if she gives me a bj or not. I not big into receiving oral, but I love giving it--just my preference. I've been with some women who love it and some who have pulled my head up North when I was heading South. I agree with 85032luck: It depends on the person. | |
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2run
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/14/2009 4:42:06 PM |
Give me head or give me death! But I'm not licking the oyster!
...but what do I know?
Really??? Seriously???? You won't go down on a woman? REALLY?????!?!?!??!!!
I don't know a single man who doesn't like to eat a woman out.
OP, I can't answer your question because I am not a man. However, I won't not give a man oral just because he's reluctant to give it back. I don't really give my partner much choice. I just climb up on his face and he gets the hint. | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 5:07:56 PM | I have dated a girl that didn't give oral at all once. Not sure I would do that one again, LOL. But, I didn't have a big issue with giving and not receiving. It got annoying every once in awhile, but I enjoy giving and therefore, it wasn't really a big issue.
I am not even that big on recievong oral, though once in awhile it is nice ofcourse. I do love to give though, with the right person. | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 5:48:18 PM | Gotta tell you there is no one answer. Some guys like both, neither, or one or the other. And girls as well. Some girls love to give some hate it some love to receive some hate it.
For your friend, she needs to TALK to her hubby and ask him...why is that so hard to believe?
Hell if she can't ask, she can buy some dining at the Y porn to show him and then say how about you give some of that to me, baby! :) I mean, really, he'll get the hint. Esp if she's wearing a short lil nightie with no panties flashing her kitty at him.
I know, I know, we don't want to ask. Well, she needs to let him know some way, right?
I think, personallly, it's easy to get lazy during sex after you've been married awhile. I'm horny, you're horny, get ur****out and stick it in me, etc and skip the extra foreplay. Unless he likes giving her oral just for his own enjoyment/arousal, he's probably not going to do it unless she asks. It's for HER arousal. Not for his. So why would he do it unless she asks him? That doesn't mean he dislikes it, just that it's not his personal turn on. And yes, some guys do get turned on by getting to do that.
Does that make sense?
I'm tired and sorry this is convoluted...
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Posted: 10/14/2009 6:22:42 PM |
I don't really give my partner much choice. I just climb up on his face and he gets the hint.
That is awesome !
Well I once was in a similar position to your friend OP, my man just stopped going down on me and started using his fingers only for four play. I didn't really know what to say.. so after a while i just asked him and he replied he wanted me to take control and demand oral, like sit on his face and thrust and really give it to him - he said he thought he was making me want it more but making me go without | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 6:39:34 PM | | I'd rather give than receive. I get off on knowing that I can please my partner. Maybe I'm one of the few guys that can say that. | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 6:43:19 PM | It depends on a lot of different variables but overall I have no preference because either way can be just right, or a crying shame.
She's good at giving: I like getting and prefer that if she is also bad at getting.
She is good at giving and getting: I'll be giving.
She is bad at giving, but good at getting: she'll be getting.
If she is bad at both giving and getting and I'll be giving notice and getting the hell out of there. | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 7:07:09 PM | It completely depends on the guy.
I tend to date women who for whatever reason are not into getting and love giving.
I've pretty much been conditioned to be a head-o-holic. ;)
The point of my response, OP, is All Men Are Different!
These days if a girl is into getting, I figure that she and I are not compatible. It's one of the reasons I like to ask serious sexual questions before starting anything physical.
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Posted: 10/14/2009 7:30:21 PM |
I am guessing that you mean, that if the woman is only into getting...
Surely, you mean to establish a reciprocal relationship... | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 7:39:27 PM | All I can say, if you are asking this seriously is, you poor, poor lady. "Giving at all?"
You've been after the wroooooong men. | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 11:29:57 PM | | Men who don't like going down on women will give you weak babies with soft heads. If there are any guys out there that don't like eating her out you are a weak example of the testosterone charged beings we call men. I love to eat out women... | |
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2run
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Joined: 7/31/2009
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| do men like getting more then giving
Posted: 10/15/2009 4:53:50 AM | Really??? Seriously???? You won't go down on a woman? REALLY?????!?!?!??!!!
I don't know a single man who doesn't like to eat a woman out.
SERIOUSLY!...REALLY!...NOPE! no oyster licking for me...I'm the one guy who doesn't eat...
If there are any guys out there that don't like eating her out you are a weak example of the testosterone charged beings we call men
IMO...if you're eating then you're making up for what you lack in intercourse and that's weak...
..but what do I know? | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 6:48:30 AM | | It really depends on the man whether they are willing to give oral pleasure or not. I have been with several women who had never had a man give them oral sex until they were with me. As for myself, I love to give more than I receive! I simply am so turned on by my partner's pleasure, I cannot get enough of having my tongue and mouth working on her, tasting her, and seeing and feeling her passion and excitement build until she screams and writhes in orgasmic bliss! I am incredibly turned on by the taste of a woman, her smell, and having her grinding on my face and mouth is pure heaven to me! I will many times keep pleasuring a woman orally, through multiple orgasms, until she begs me to stop, that she cannot take any more. That for me is very satisfying. Most women after this are more than wanting to satisfy me any way I wish. It is very rewarding and satisfying for both of us! I really enjoy giving oral pleasure to my partners, unfortunately, it is just not for everyone, and many women miss out on some incredible fun and satisfaction, having partners that are unwilling to pleasure them orally! | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 6:52:10 AM | | Maybe she is a woman who complains, like she was complaining about this, and one day she complained about how he was doing it, so he decided no more of that. She should ask him, if she can ask without complaining. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 6:55:53 AM | | I'm totallya agiver. In fact its a deal breaker for me. If I met a woman who didn't let me go down on her it would be over before it started. As far as receiving goes, I get very little out of it so I can definately go with less, maybe not none but less lol. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 7:32:04 AM | I am more a giver ... her climbing on top of me and straddling my head and forcing me to eat her until she wants me to stop . | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 9:35:24 AM | | Everybody is different. I fall into the giving and receiving category. I enjoy going down on a woman, make sure she's nice and fired up for intercourse. I also really enjoy receiving. I think one of the nice parts about oral is that it's the one time where it's totally ok to be selfish. When you're having sex, you need to (or at least you should) care about what the your partner likes. When you're receiving oral, it's all about the person on the receiving end. | |
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