| "you just know"
Posted: 10/26/2009 8:01:51 AM | | People say "you just know" when you meet the right person, but do you? why would there be break ups if everyone "just know" when they meet the right person? Does anyone agree with this? or it is just bullshit | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 8:47:31 AM | Well you THINK you know... Don't we all wish everyone really did though.
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| you just know
Posted: 10/26/2009 8:50:36 AM |
Why would there be break ups if everyone "just know" when they meet the right person? Does anyone agree with this? or it is just bullshit
"You know" - means both parties will be on the same page.  | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 8:57:35 AM | You just know he/she is the right person for right now.
Nothing in life comes with a guarantee of forever. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 9:00:50 AM |
People say "you just know" when you meet the right person, but do you? why would there be break ups if everyone "just know" when they meet the right person? Does anyone agree with this? or it is just bullshit
too easy!
real relationships consist of of hard work and the occasional arguments. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 9:01:24 AM | | I "just know" when someone is definitely not right. As to when they are, after a failed marriage I think that one is far more complicated than it first appears..... | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 10:16:45 AM | | It's really hard for two people to be on the same page when they both can say "you just know" at the same time. Breakups happen for all sorts of reasons, mostly because 2 people aren't on the same page in life (philosophy; values; dreams; etc). | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 10:29:34 AM | You just know....
When at first meeting the chemistry is melting the protective walls.
The two of you are gazing in each others eyes and not having that awkward shyness.
You cannot wait to initiate the first kiss....because you just know it is going to be great.
Phone conversations last for hours and feel like just a few minutes.....
Your personality is clicking and cannot find anything wrong with the other person.
You just know....that the sex is going to be great.
When two people are on the same page....You just know it. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 10:45:37 AM | I just knew when I met my partner and so did he. It was magical. At 51 I've never quite felt this way. We've been together three months and it just keeps getting better. I like to think I've learned from past relationships what NOT to do. Real life gets in the way sometimes, but I've never been happier!!
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| you just know
Posted: 10/26/2009 11:26:16 AM |
"You know" - means both parties will be on the same page.
I agree with this. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 11:53:00 AM |
"You know" - means both parties will be on the same page.
^^^ this sums it up nicely. It is no different than when you just know someone is not right for you despite having a lot of the things you are looking for. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 11:54:19 AM | | Interesting replies. I have a friend who met a man who knew the minute he laid eyes on her he would marry her. She did not. In fact the first time they were seeing eachother she broke it off with him. He came back to try again and it is know 3 years later and they are soooo happpy together. Also, I am sooo happy for her. He is a good man and is good to her and her children. Rare to find!! So it may depend on the individuals involved? | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 12:01:10 PM | I "just know" when someone is defintely NOT right, as to when they are, after a failed marriage..yada yada yada
and this is what hampers all of us, the "failed marriage" syndrome...the "ex" bf itis.....how long were you married? I'm divorced...I was married for 20 years...if i could find my ex type again I'd marry her in a heartbeat! even though my marriage failed also....way too many are looking for the bad in things and let that outshine the good! picky picky picky....it's a wonder anyone on here ever meets.... | |
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| you just know
Posted: 10/26/2009 12:18:27 PM | People say "you just know" when you meet the right person, but do you? why would there be break ups if everyone "just know" when they meet the right person? Does anyone agree with this? or it is just bullshit
Listen to a cocaine addict or an alcoholic speak sometimes about their addiction. What makes it hard to quit is they get an odd feeling that "they just have to use", as if Fate was making urging them to do it. "It just seems right." Even though it is often dead wrong. Feeling trumps good sense.
I've known a number of people who have "just known" that guy or that girl was The One right after they met. Most of them are broken up, and the other couple are miserable as hell and the women often talks about how she's going to be happy when her kids are finally grown and she can leave him. Twenty years ago I used to listen to her go on and on with her eyes all dreamy, how he was The One and that she "just knew" they were meant to be together.
It's subconscious hogwash leaking into your conscious mind to help propogate the species. It means absolutely nothing beyond that, and is no reliable indicator of relationship success.
Never let emotion override good sense. Our Intellect sets us apart from the other animals.
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Posted: 10/26/2009 12:20:46 PM | | I don't believe that or after many years Van Halen's "How Do I Know When It's Love?" wouldn't be ringing in my head. I still don't know. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 12:24:30 PM | It means you know you want a relationship wish the person.
Doesn't mean it'll last a life time. People change their minds. Today he feels the same way, tomorrow he may feel the opposite.
Relationships still do require tons of work. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 12:30:25 PM | I "just knew"...and thought, oh, it can't be, won't last (the feelings, not the relationship). People come and go in our lives, sometimes...and forever has connotations of one year rolling into another into decades...sometimes a person's forever is only a year or two.
I believe "you just know" when someone presents with the potential for "forever". Call it soul mates if you want - we have more than one I believe. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 1:50:35 PM | The same way when they 're looking for chemistry But sometimes the chemistry is fake because you're telling her what she wants to hear and in her mind she thinks she find the right one.
Thats why when you're dating someone just enjoy the moment dont make any future plan you wont get hurt. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 2:57:24 PM | Imagine if every day, when you got into your car, you thought, "I could be in an accident today". Then one day, the dreaded accident happens and guess what you say?
"I JUST KNEW I would be in an accident today!"
No one fesses up to how many times they thought they "just knew" and were wrong. You usually only hear "I just knew" when they were right!  | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 3:26:52 PM | | I buy it half and half, although i hate sitting on the fence. In a way you just know if you really like someone and yeah i been around elderly people that said when they saw their spouses "they just knew" that was going to be there wife. one couple I spent some time with in New York last week, The guy was 20 at the time and the girl was 13 in italy, and the guy walked up to her father and said I'm going to marry your daughter when she turns 18 and they did and have been for 56 yrs now, so I buy it half way. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 4:21:21 PM | You may know, but the other person won't until you get over it.
Then some how they magicly realize what they have lost.
And spend the rest of their lives trying to replace you. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 5:04:15 PM | | I've heard many people say this and it's just not true. It takes years to truly get to know someone... and sometimes you never really do | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 5:20:26 PM | | lol wow nice replies ppl, well there was someone that wanted nothing to do with me 3 years later he thinks im the one, so yea i dont believe this statement so much | |
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