| whats so wrong with me??
Posted: 10/26/2009 10:13:06 AM | hi there, I have been sending E-mails to alot of women in my area, the trouble is people view my profile and never reply.
Please please can I have some help with what im doing wrong.
Many thanks
Andy | |
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| whats so wrong with me??
Posted: 10/26/2009 2:00:23 PM | Andy,
You likely already know that the first problem is the smoking. That limits you about 80% from what I hear.
Second problem is your Interest section is very light and one of those is “drinking”
You need to run it though spell and grammar check. I know that we English speakers do spell differently but I think that we all make the word “I” a capital letter.
You say “Apart from that im normally just relaxing down the pub with a pint in one hand a pool cue or set of darts in the other.”
I know that at your age, that is pretty common. The question is, where does she fit into that?
All the best,
Ron | |
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| whats so wrong with me??
Posted: 10/26/2009 2:19:03 PM | I disagree that the problem is you're a smoker.
Get some better pics. Personally, I don't think those eyeglasses are very flattering on you. They're very overpowering and distracting, even look like they're lined with rhinestones but I suspect that is light reflecting off the rim. If you can't or don't want to get another pair of glasses, at least include a pic without your glasses. I suspect you're not half as goofy looking as the glasses make you appear.
You should list more interests (and I hope you have more interests). Drinking and sports are fine for hanging out with your friends but done simultaneously and often won't appeal to most women. | |
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| whats so wrong with me??
Posted: 10/26/2009 2:35:09 PM | I have had exactly the same problem but with some help from here I'm hoping my luck will change.
I was told to go into depth about my interests, which you have done to some extent but could possibly do more. Also what you haven't yet done is talk about your ideal partner. Who and what are you looking for? | |
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| whats so wrong with me??
Posted: 10/26/2009 2:43:12 PM | I agree with the other posters, the pics need to be replaced and your comments just make you sound like a zillion other guys hanging around pubs, wearing funny hats and playing darts. You're not making much effort, and not getting results. Try harder or we don't take you seriously! It's not you, it's how you're presenting you!
What "date" would you go on if you met someone you really liked? Tell us the answer to that one.
Good luck! | |
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