| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 2:26:35 PM | Ladies, you know that feeling you have on your first or second date with a man where the mutual attraction is there and you have all this excitement and anticipation running through you but both of you are not ready to come out and say that you want to be together officially? Well there are ways that a man will let you know that he is into you more than on simply a platonic level such as physical contact - kissing, hand holding, looking directly at you when you speak Etc...
What about the "Turn Around" ? That's what I call it - It's when you say your goodbyes and you two seperate and after a few steps he turns around and looks back at you.
Gentlemen - What are you trying to convey through this gesture? | |
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 2:29:30 PM |
Gentlemen - What are you trying to convey through this gesture?
It means we just spent a date face to face and now I want to check out your ass. | |
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 2:32:23 PM |
It's when you say your goodbyes and you two seperate and after a few steps he turns around and looks back at you.
Gentlemen - What are you trying to convey through this gesture?
We're wondering if we can pull the old "hey, pull my finger...." trick and get away with it. I mean, we ARE outside right??
It's either that or we want to ask you for your 1/2 of the bill, but feel that doing that unduly risks a rapid knee-to-the-testicles event, which wouldn't be a good way to end the evening.
Maybe that's just me...
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 3:26:10 PM | I'm usually conveying that if you want to use poor judgement, the night doesn't have to end here!
In other words, I'm attempting to use better judgement by walking away and not pouring gas on the fire.....
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 3:33:21 PM | It is usually in an effort to get one last glimpse....
of your bum!
vvvvvv
Yes you did, and since it was held by a woman, we have all decided to wait until the next revision, as we are almost certain it is forthcoming
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 3:51:59 PM | We're conveying something? We're supposed to have a plan?
Hey, guys! Did you know about this? Who came up with the idea we were supposed to have a plan?
Did I miss a meeting? | |
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 4:25:42 PM | well you didn't ask for a woman's opinion but i have to ask: why do women INSIST on over-analyzing and extrapolating all kinds of inferences and maybes and potentials out of the most insignificant thing a guy says/does??? makes me want to scream ;)
here's a clue: it means nada. well, maybe he liked your ass. if you don't believe me, just look up ^^^. don't worry though, if he's interested in you, you won't ever have to guess about it....
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 4:34:33 PM | Hm, I guess I am not into being subtle. Believe me, if I am into a woman she will know it because I will just lean forward and look right into her eyes and tell her so. No room for misinterpretation there.
I have no problems letting a woman know what I think of her body too. One date was a voluptuous gal wearing a top that showed the "puppies" off very well. She knew all the poses to highlight her bust, and she knew I was looking and I knew she liked it. So I just told her she had an amazing bust and thanks for the show. She played coy but her wry smile told me everything I needed to know. Was sexy as hell and a fun date.
Some people are not as forward as I am. Funny thing is that I consider myself a shy man! Go figure. | |
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 4:43:16 PM |
Gentlemen - What are you trying to convey through this gesture?
Odds are, he's hoping to take another look at your ass.
If you are still facing him, he wants to see if you are checking out HIS ass, in which case, he'll be thinking about how your lips would be wrapped around a hotdog....
It's all pretty smiple, really.
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 4:46:13 PM | | If a guy has ever been interested in me, they usually just tell me..................I doubt whether any of them would be trying to catch a glimpse of my ass.................. | |
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 4:54:19 PM |
I doubt whether any of them would be trying to catch a glimpse of my ass..................
I'd like a glimpse of your ass.
Please send pics.
Thank you. Thank you very much.
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 4:57:35 PM | Seems like most of the guys here are saying essentially the same thing...... basically that your date is interested in checking out your booty or is trying to catch another glimpse of you.
I just wanted to add that I've heard not to read too much into the first 1-3 dates, because most (won't say all) but most guys are mainly thinking about you in a sexual way = the things they would want to do to you etc. lol They don't care what you are talking about or the taste of the dinner, or the movie or anything else... they are only thinking of how many ways they could have sex with you. If you can get to a 4th or 5th date he might be genuinely interested in actually getting to know you.
Sorry if I have generalized all guys (no offense intended). | |
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 5:06:34 PM |
What about the "Turn Around" ? That's what I call it - It's when you say your goodbyes and you two seperate and after a few steps he turns around and looks back at you.
Gentlemen - What are you trying to convey through this gesture?
Absolutely nothing.
But leave it to a woman to try and overanalyze the simplest of gestures into something WAY more than it is. 
I think you've watched WAY too many chick flicks, or read one too many Harlequin books. | |
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 10:46:49 PM | Hello Vegas Angel.
My take on it,or reason because I have done it. Is to see if she looks back at me and if she does, then, my hope is that she is smiling, then I would smile back, wave and walk away and look so much more forward to calling her for another date,
Thanks, take care,
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 11:06:54 PM |
after a few steps he turns around and looks back at you.
What are you trying to convey
They need a rear view mirror but it would look goofy ?
Well there are ways that a man will let you know that he is into you more than on simply a platonic level such as physical contact
Never assume that they like you as much as you think, before the other party says so.
You're in for surprises!
Men can talk too...Ya know?
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 11:21:05 PM | | Since it is only one or two dates, it is pretty much meaningless because there is mostly lust involved at that stage. True feelings for a person develop over time once there is a bit of history between people and you know each other really well. In the get to know stage, you don't really attach to much meaning into anything unless it tells you that you really aren't too compatible so best to move on and just enjoy yourself. | |
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/26/2009 11:37:10 PM |
What about the "Turn Around" ? That's what I call it - It's when you say your goodbyes and you two seperate and after a few steps he turns around and looks back at you.
Gentlemen - What are you trying to convey through this gesture?
Trying to be able to check out your butt while you are walking away but you ruin that ability if you are turning around to see if he is... LOL | |
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/27/2009 2:58:46 AM | Men do love Women. The Turn Around is a reflection of the deep bond Men have for Women. We want to be with you, a lot. The instinctual attraction for a man towards a woman is extremely powerful. We don't want to part from you. We never want to be apart from you.
To put it in women's terms taking a man away from the woman is the same as taking the baby away from the mother. It's that kind of bond.
Woman tears herself apart from child. Man tears himself apart from woman. It's biological.
Some Turn Arounds are so powerful that the couple just end up back in bed that morning.
Goodbye, goodbye, see you tonight, goodbye....oh the hell with it. Morning is over. | |
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/27/2009 4:27:51 AM | Uh-oh, could be a momma's boy. According to your profile you'd have to give him the flick.
None of the things you mentioned necessarily mean anything. Kissing, hand holding, etc. mean only what they are, the whole trick about body language is that it is very subjective and must be metered with an objective intuition about the situation. It is easy to always be wrong. If you try to read them like a book you will really be conning yourself every time, then inevitably blame him when you realise you got something wrong.
Usually when people try to turn their personal techniques of figuring out the world into a science or perfect it they lose touch with what they had in the first place. Frequently it is your ability to maintain childlike eyes which give you insight into another person's behaviour or character. This too is subjective and easily manipulated, but if you manage to not take it too seriously and keep what seems to be working for you without looking too deeply into it, you can remain an intuitive person.
In other words the fact that you appear to think little of this gesture at the time (the backward glance, at this particular instance, although obviously noting it) suggests that it was probably nothing. Trying to find more in it as a science of behaviour I think only removes you from your own instinct and may lead you from your instincts in future.
What was your impression at the time? is the appropriate answer. | |
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| How to know if he Likes you, Likes you
Posted: 10/29/2009 8:45:07 AM |
What are you trying to convey through this gesture? Maybe the guy's not trying to deliberately "convey" anything?
Maybe he's just feeling nervous, awkward, and uncertain, and isn't really sure how to act, or what to say at that moment?
wow, and I thought that I often think too much. I think that's exactly what this is. Over-thinking.
It seems like the OP's over-thinking this too much, and trying to hard to search for some sort of deep meaning in what was likely nothing more than an innocent, unconcious gesture that had no deep hidden meaning. | |
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