| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/27/2009 6:01:26 PM | I met a nice guy and we have been out exactly 3 times. We always have a good time, great conversation and everything but at the end of the night he doesn't want to come inside my home. I'm confused because he asked me on another date but I was very disappointed when he declined to come in after the date. I have no idea what it could be.
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| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/27/2009 6:03:55 PM | | Well, he could be a gentleman and wants to treat you with respect. Maybe he doesn't want to ruin something that he thinks is special for quick sex. Silly him! | |
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| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/27/2009 6:04:05 PM | Perhaps, he has aristocratic manners. It's not a proper thing to do.
Maybe he doesn't want to get too familiar just yet.
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Posted: 10/27/2009 6:12:04 PM | | Why don't you invite him over for a home cooked meal? He'd have to come in then. | |
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| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/27/2009 6:14:31 PM | | Why don't you relax and enjoy this man's company? You said he's a nice person, you have a good time together, what are you worried about already. He's showing you respect instead of jumping your bones right away. Respect is a precious quality. | |
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| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/27/2009 6:32:54 PM | Help?... Can't provide any... I'm possibly beyond all help, myself...
But one thing seems certain... He's not a vampire...
Vampires must be invited in... That is the rule...
For him to decline such an offer indicates you're not dealing with a shape-shifting creature of the night... With a penchant for hemoglobin...
I'm sure you'll sort it all out eventually, but in the interim; there is at least some good news... | |
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| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/27/2009 6:47:49 PM | | What everyone says is possibly very true. Is he gentlemanly like in public and else times with you? It may be possible he's still trying to find out how much into he really is. Initially he may thought so and now he's trying to be honest and see. | |
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| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/27/2009 6:55:03 PM | Perhaps he actually wants to get to know you further before hopping into the sack with you?
If that's such a turn-off to you, dump him.
I'm sure there's a lot of other guys on sites like this who are just dying to find a woman who'd preferr inviting guys into her home rather than getting to know them. | |
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| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/27/2009 6:56:32 PM | The reasons could very well be one of multiple reasons which would take wayyyy too long to go on here and explain them all besides, you would know them too.
The question I would have for is why is ”why are you so anxious to have him come in”? | |
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| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/27/2009 6:59:29 PM | OP, on retrospect, I hate to put it like this but ... do you know if he considers you a sexual object in the sense that he's interested in you? Could we be talking about just a friendship in his eyes? Maybe he just doesn't see you that way ... and maybe is does. From the initial post, I didn't get a good impression one way or another.
Just putting out there options. | |
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| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/27/2009 7:03:11 PM | He's trying to confuse you, so that when he finally pounces - wham - you're stunned... or maybe as one of the posters said, he's a vampire waiting to be invited in... maybe he has really bad foot odor and doesn't want to risk taking off his shoes... maybe he's just a gentleman. Lot of maybes... try asking him.
I think it's kind of sweet. | |
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| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/27/2009 7:10:28 PM | | Maybe his wife objects to him entering other womens homes. | |
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Posted: 10/27/2009 7:24:22 PM | You've been out on three dates, he asked you out again.
Why are you complaining?
The man is showing you respect.
I bet you'd be right back here complaining if you did invite him in and he tried to jump your bones on the third date. | |
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| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/27/2009 7:38:45 PM | There could be multiple reasons. Some good some not so much. As others have said he could be just being a gentleman. He could have to go to work early or be at work in about 30 minutes. He might even have another date right after yours. He could be waiting for something to clear up first. Could be E.D. He may be gay. He also could just be clueless. There are others but you get the idea. I say ask him why he doesn't want to come in. To the people that have automaticly assumed she what him to come in for sex, shame on you. Sometimes "come in for coffee" means come in for coffee.  | |
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| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/27/2009 7:38:58 PM | It kills me. See, sometimes us guys just can't win! However, having said that, it's probably noteworthy that this seems to increase the interest of the woman.
Things that make you go hmmmmmm!
OR. . . He's just waiting for the cream to take effect and put his genital warts into remission! | |
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| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/27/2009 7:55:34 PM | I think you guys are over thinking this.
He obviously sharted on the ride over and knew it would be a deal breaker.
Or....what they said^^^^^^^ | |
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Posted: 10/27/2009 8:14:28 PM | | Of course, we can only speculate with so little info. The best you can do I think is to just ask him in an casual way. Cheers | |
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Posted: 10/27/2009 10:02:41 PM | | Lol, true that Mr. Handy Man....lol Bad joke, but oh so clever! | |
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| What's up with him?
Posted: 10/28/2009 3:27:35 AM | 1) He forgot his Viagra
2) He's too shy to buy a condom off the supermarket, and go through the check out chick(god what she must be thinking....I'm getting laid and she's not)
3) He wore the wrong underwear tonight. Yep, Stars and Stripes, 4th of July boxers....or big yellow happy face on crotch.
4) Mismatched socks...dangit.
5) He wants to slow it down and not ruin a good thing.
Me, I am like a vampire. Once invited in, that's it..no turning back. You better get ready to get your kit off and run that bath....its gonna be an all-nighter. | |
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