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Posted: 10/28/2009 5:19:14 PM | I mean does this really work?, cuz btw I know I'm ugly, but I'm saying this because most of the people here on this site dont even give a change to talk to some one, is not like sex talk or something like it but the real quiestion is:
if u r a women: how would u wish were ur message on you'r inbox e-mail?
and for the mens: just read what they have to say and try to figure something out...
and btw I know for most girls, they like cute things and be with family and friends and I got that, cuz after all that's what live is all about and I say that cuz I love my family and my friends back home but, at least give a chance to somebody else to be on that world around u......................
just tell me what do u think about it, since I dont have anybody else to ask this, I thought u may have something to say............
THNkX for reading
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Posted: 10/28/2009 5:48:31 PM | | I'm gonna be honest and say I had a hard time trying to structure your words together enough to figure out what exactly you are saying, but what I did notice, because it stood out was the comment stating "I know I'm ugly." Now don't get me wrong or anything, I'm no super guru mack pimp playa lady machine, but I ALWAYS get the girls I want. Sometimes I see a girl that is hot or has a great personality or even both (which is rare), but the question is, do I really want her? Do I want to deal with all of the problems that surround beautiful women? Everyday a new man trying to take her from me, her spending more time on her outsides than her insides, or the superficiality that usually gets packaged along with her other belongings. Do I really want this? Society makes us believe that to beautiful is to be good, and a few years down the road when a Paris Hilton puts out a sex tape, her name is dragged through the mud until she is completely destroyed on the insides. It's a sad sad thing. Personally, I think Paris Hilton is horribly ugly, but for the sake of my example, I used her anyway. It sounds to me that somewhere in your lifetime someone made you feel ugly, and that idea has stuck with you every since. So, to compensate for your belief that you are ugly, you want to find a beautiful girl who is supposed to either raise your self esteem or prove to everyone else that you are not ugly. In which case, a beautiful woman is not what you need. I personally think I am very handsome, and to be honest, I am a bit of a gold digger when it comes to women, but the point I want to make to you is, go find yourself a strong 6 or a low 7, who has brains, a nice car and house, good job, morals, and a lot in common with YOU. That's true happiness! All really pretty girls wanna do is talk about sh*t you probably wont care about anyway and go shopping, which I personally hate doing, even for myself. Don't get me wrong, not all pretty girls are shallow and superficial, but sometimes the most beautiful car has the most wear and tear! (I coined that BTW, so don't use it!). So from one Adam to another Adam about the Eve's of this world, just follow your heart, and not your eyes and d*ck! | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 6:07:21 PM | hey that was quick.... thanks for replying........... anyway I completely agree with you, (in part), I say in part because looking for the real one that actually make you feel good about yourself is one of the most important thing in this life, and I know than this world rightnow is making us believe than outer beauty is the most important thing but is not, but you did a good point of it so I don't need to write more about it. And well I when said -I know I'm ugly- it was just to start a funny reading.............. and I'm very serious saying than it doesn't really matters if you are the worst, the uglier, or the most stupid person on this world, because what really matters is what you think about yourself.....
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Posted: 10/28/2009 6:19:46 PM | First of all, you are not ugly. I know you are posting this on a forum, not your profile, but if a man isn't confident in himself, he is going to project that in meeting a woman. And a man doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous to be attractive, it's more about the confidence (not to be confused with arrogance) and the way he carries himself.
You are only 19, not to sound like an old fart, so try going out with classmates or friends in a group to meet girls, at your age and in college it's the best time of your life, have fun, mingle, meet people and it will happen.
For your online profile and internet dating, you need to work on your profile. First off, change what you are looking for from "hang out" to dating. "Hanging out " to a woman comes across as someone who is looking for a one-nighter, no strings, whereas
"dating" infers looking to meet someone with the intent of a possible future relationship.
You also need to fix your grammar and spelling
looking for some one to go out and just have some good time, I just got here like 2 years ago, and everything I do is just work and I'm getting tire of it so, kind of looking for some body that i can trust and spend a good time, I play games sometimes and like going bowling and sometimes hit on the frozen75 club, so just hit me up and lets see what happens.
Capitalize the beginning of sentences, and edit the slang.
"I just moved to the area two years ago, and as have been spending a lot of time working. Now that my schedule has freed up, I am looking to expand my social life and would like to meet someone to share common interests such as bowling, etc. etc...
If you think we have something in common, please send me a message and I will get back to you. Even we don't connect on a romantic level, you can never have too many friends..."
Something like that, but I guess switch it up a bit if you think it doesn't sound right to your age range. | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 6:34:04 PM | | grammar isnt going to make a break a date for you. there is a reason why us guys are here and conversely there is a reason why the girls are here. most are just window shoppers with no intent of going on a date. the responses they get from guy just makes them more stuck up make them think their poo dont stink | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 9:59:44 PM | Whoa!
jakobi obrien, you have some really strange ideas about beautiful women. I guess you've been burned.
To the OP-
What are you doing on a dating site?
Are you still in school? You should be out meeting people and not on a dating site.
Do you participate in any sports? Look for co-ed sports to do. Be active, go for a hike, do volunteer work.
Please fix your profile so that it's easy to read. Some sentences and paragraphs would be great. | |
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