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Posted: 10/29/2009 1:41:01 PM | I guess it would depend on which ex...
After all some people have ex spouses, however most of us have ex bf/gf as well...
I make it a point to get along with most of my ex's... In fact my ex spouse was over last night to be a comfort to our son... We have to put our beloved dog down, and he was falling apart in a million pieces, so his half bro (whom my husband and I have been helping get on his feet) thought his dad would be of comfort, since I was in tears as well...
I suppose you didn't expect that...
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Posted: 10/29/2009 2:14:10 PM | I honestly don't have anything that I'd want to say to the last two. They are who they are. No regrets.
The only one I'd want to say something to would be my first love (from years ago). I would want to sit him down and explain exactly why I left. I don't think I explained it eloquently at the time and I don't think he ever understood. (It wasn't that I no longer cared - it was that I needed to take care of ME). He was not in the position to understand at that point in time but I believe, seeing who I have become and what I have done with my life since, he would understand now. Nothing that I have accomplished could have been accomplished whilst in that relationship. I would also want to catch up on how life is going for him... but I wouldn't want to get back together. Even though I haven't seen or heard from him in years, I truely still care for him in an I-don't-want-to-be-your-girlfriend kind of way. He was a good person and a great friend.
... but... who wants to open that can of worms? | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 2:38:16 PM | Given what my wife did, the chances are i'd have nothing to say to her other than 'thank you very much'
You see, after being married to pure evil for the best part of five years only now can I hold my head up and say "i'm alive" However, I sit on this computer looking for something that, to be honest, i'll never find behind a pc. Therefore, tonight is my last night here. | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 3:26:33 PM | Well, I guess I should give this some thought................................
...........................F U C K Y O U....................................................
You lied to me................................F U C K Y O U.........................
You cheated on me and left for some "howdy doody c &nt" Walmart whore.
She can f u c k ing HAVE YOU.
.....................................F U C K Y O U ...........................................
I treated you like a king...................................................................
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I waited forever for you and this is what I a waited for- to be treated like shit ......................................................................................................
You were right - NO ONE will ever love you like I did.
(thanks, that felt good. Im gonna go chain smoke now.)
Edit - Hey Nudig!! LOL!!! Yeah you gotta laugh huh. | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 3:42:33 PM | Remind me never to shop at Walmart :)
I wouldn't say anything, because I've said all I wanted to say when I waved her goodbye. | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 4:24:53 PM | | I get along fine with both exes. I talk on the phone with the first, who lives in North Carolina now. She usually calls about once a month. I see the second occasionally, since she lives about five minutes away. I feel pretty OK that I don't hate anyone who I used to love. They seem to think I'm just swell. | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 4:40:44 PM | Wellllllllllll let see...first off I could ignore two people in a room with one of them being me.
Should they make the unfortunate thought that I would actually want to speak to them/ catch up on life then its no holds barred.
Start with something sexual that made me contemplate Lesbianism while with him hhhhhhhhhh so many to choose . Yhea baby that feels good ( roles eyes~ you da man) . lacking width,length, lacking motion/technique or quick draw mcdraw are all fair game.Move to their lacking investment in dental care while reminding them there is such a thing as plastic surgeons, " your parents didn't rub you berry much( rubs both eyes~ whaaaaaaaaaa)". I'd ask about Mommsie and if if lips are still sore, If his kids are still stabbing themselves in their foreheads with forks. How's the ex?, does she still have ya arse end over a barrel holding your wittle balls?No conversation would be complete without asking if sis is on marriage number 5 yet or hows Uncle Bob the boozer but incredible guitar player ( winks to imaginary crowd). We could move to his lacking profession and if he had found his Zen moment ( I'd be dry gagging at this point~ while popping him a dycktionary). You'd have to be there for the visuals because they gave me a rash and my middle finger seemingly knows the cure.
I suppose if hes really stupid enough to catch up on good times , I could always pop him in the mouth and begin his dental work. | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 4:51:34 PM | | Didn't say anything.......she waved and I waved back......while thinking who the heck is that.....I was half way home before I realized who it was.......though I was a bit pre-occupied and in a hurry to get home.... my second wife was in the final days of surviving her illness...... | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 6:22:03 PM |
I'm friends with all but one of my ex's.
Similar situation here - I am friends with most of my exes, even the ones who are now married/involved- so the discussion about what we said then and what we should have said has already been gone over. | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 7:30:06 PM | [Well, I guess I should give this some thought................................
...........................F U C K Y O U....................................................
OMG These post are Sooooooooooo Funnyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
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Posted: 10/30/2009 11:00:44 AM |
sessage is too mort I think that is what I would say to her, and let her figure it out. She would say, you haven't changed a bit. Then I would say, damn, you're looking good as usual. Then she would say, we had some good times. Then I would say, we sure did. Then she would ask, what the hell does "sessage is too mort" mean? Then I would say, don't worry about it. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2009 11:43:42 AM | | I actually had that happen this past week. He said hello like we were the best of friends. I ignored him, and he said "hi" again, vain enough to think I didn't hear him the first time. So I looked him in the eye, and then turned and walked away. I had nothing to say to him at all. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2009 12:18:16 PM | | If and when I eventually run into my ex, I know exactly what I would say. "You F--king SOB" No I'm joking.(Maybe) I cared so much for this man when we were married that I would be interested in how he was doing at the present. I would only wish him well and I know he would be wishing me the same.(Hopefully) Someday we will both be at our kids weddings, and I don't want any conflicts!!!! | |
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Posted: 10/30/2009 1:40:27 PM | I would simply hope for them to be well, and, if it ended badly, ask that they excuse MY part in the negative situation.
There is no need to be cold, negative or calculated. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2009 2:22:33 PM | hmmm.. I see him pretty often, since he gets our daughter every weekend. But if I could say anything to him, it would go along the lines of, "I don't know how in the world you were able to keep so many girlfriends while we were married, because sex with you just sucks.... and not in the good way."  | |
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Posted: 10/30/2009 2:30:18 PM | | Hey! how are you? yeah? yeah, I'm doing fine to...well, I hate to have to run but...good seing you....then fall apart all over again | |
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Posted: 10/30/2009 3:07:55 PM | A few things come to mind :
1.I was hoping you were dead.
2.Your girlfriend brings new meaning to the word "tacky"
3.I hope someone makes you feel as lonely and heartbroken as you made me feel by wasting my time and being inconsiderate.
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Posted: 10/30/2009 4:19:44 PM | | EDIT: (((HUGS))) .... for Curly, and for all of you, and those, that are still in pain. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2009 6:43:24 PM |
"Soooo.... how's Walmart been to ya???"
I love this!!! Thank you SparklingRose!!!
I know you would never mock my or any other persons pain here-
You are one class act here.
Thank you - I lovvvvvvvvvvvvveeee this line. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2009 7:19:23 PM | "WHY DON"T YOU HAVE A JOB YET you damn loser!"
"God forbid I was the one paying child support you would have my arse in jail within a week." "Parents don't quit jobs in this economy because they don't like their boss, they have children to support and tough it out."
"So how is it living with your Mom at 47?"
I would be such a b1tch, I avoid him and confrontation in real life. But to say anything would be fun. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2009 8:53:09 PM | You want to say hello to ME???? You are wondering how I am??? The guy who couldn't be bothered to return phone calls cares about how I am?? Oh, you are concerned about me?? How ironic considering you are the one who made my life miserable. But of course, I forgot. You are a good guy and somehow always end up the victim.
You met somebody... Oh good. You found your co-dependant match. Guess you can forget the self-help books and the group because you've got the lingo down. And when this one ends- number 5??? You can go back and learn to speak relationally as you call it.
Oh yeah. Really don't bother coming over next time. I'm really over you. Sorry to disappoint you. You weren't worth mourning over for that long.
(Yes, I'm still angry) | |
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Posted: 10/30/2009 9:28:35 PM | | My ex and I are still friends, so I ask her occasionally"how've you been?" Within a few moments of stunted conversation, it's clear why we didn't work out: Lack of mutual interests, lack of passion, she's high-maintenance, I'm down-home and can have a good time anywhere anytime. | |
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Posted: 10/31/2009 2:02:18 PM | For me, it is simple. He is dying to know how my life has been since him even though it was he who chose not to be with me.
So I just walk away. Ignore him. I get a weird sense of satisfaction knowing I can and do use the power to not let him hurt me again.
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Posted: 10/31/2009 9:06:13 PM | For me, it would be.......you DON'T want me to blow the doors off this courtroom, get up on the stand and tell my story.....nor would you want me to have my attorney present all the contents I pulled from your email box........as you KNOW all that shit would then be public record.......and you KNOW good and well, that due to your career, you DON'T want the dirty laundry aired on the docket......for all the world to see.........as you are NOT in any position to tell me what I can and can't do......and you know it. so don't even try.......
So F U C K you. Go running to your mommy out there in Podunk....I am sure she will find SOMETHING of not everything to blame me for......but if she does.......I will be happy to show her all the paperwork, AND the copies of all your emails describing in GRAPHIC detail where, when, and how you did your little welfare whore........I am sure Mommy won't think her bastard son is so wonderful after all once I got done showing her all that I have on you........ | |
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