| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 5:56:36 AM | Is it easy for a man to tell when a woman is faking orgasm? And, which would men prefer, her just enjoying the ride and all the great sensations without the Big "O", and being honest about it, or the great deception of pretending? Especially with new relationships, sometimes people have to become accustomed to each others bodies and learn the proper erotic zones, since each person is different. By feeling the need to fake it, sometimes women are depriving their partner of discovering exactly how to please them. On the other hand, by faking it, the mans ego is left intact. So, which is best?   | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 6:46:43 AM | Yes a man can tell most of the time when a woman is faking it. Most womens' eyes become glazed over when there having an orgasm and there face because very flushed. If this does not happen it means the woman has faxed it. Most women need to help find the spot where they enjoy it the most or other wise it takes us 3 or 4 times before we find the right spot. And if you scream or breath heavily in the wrong spot it takes longer for us to find your right spot. If you want to control the sutuation get on top. and adjust your self to where you like it. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 7:11:48 AM | | Uh oh, the women are gonna freak, again, about these comments. But to me, who th F cares. If she thinks that it helps us out she's foolin herself. If she gave me a couple "oo yea right there" she wouldn't have to fake shit. If they feel the need to fake it, sorry 'bout their bad luck. Never understood the reason for a woman to fake it. I'd rather be told it didn't happen so I can be more prepared the next time around. But who knows, if they feel the need to fake it, go for it ladies. Who the hell am I to argue about the big O with a woman. Can't live with 'em and can't get them to dress in Nazi uniforms. Go figure. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 9:07:28 AM | well..
for a guy with experiance, we know when it is fake.
but for the new guys, or short experiance, if girls fake it, then he does not know if he is doing a good job down there nor the girl will enjoy it ever...
and next thing you know fight & argument happends ....& break up's | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 9:14:20 AM | I can sometimes tell but different girls have different orgasims. I personally think if the girl is going to fake it she is only hurting herself. I like to make sure she gets off before or after I do and if it didnt happen before during or after sex, im not done. Then again some have been trained I bet because of guys who go all night but suck ass, so I cant blame them 100% like you all are. Plus some of my more open female friends tell me that most guys dont care if they get off or not, I thought that was the norm.  | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 9:15:57 AM |
Yes a man can tell most of the time when a woman is faking it. Most womens' eyes become glazed over when there having an orgasm and there face because very flushed. If this does not happen it means the woman has faxed it. Most women need to help find the spot where they enjoy it the most or other wise it takes us 3 or 4 times before we find the right spot. And if you scream or breath heavily in the wrong spot it takes longer for us to find your right spot. If you want to control the sutuation get on top. and adjust your self to where you like it.
woah, are u offbase lol When a woman is flushed its called a sex flush and this is because of the blood rushing to the areas that is most responsive to stimulation. This is NOT an indication of an orgasm. Glazed over eyes can mean shes drunk or just enjoying herself very much. Same with heavy breathing.
To be honest, you have to be pretty arrogant to say you can tell with complete certainty when a girl is faking it or not. The best way to tell, just ask! lol | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 9:16:06 AM | It could have a lot to do with the woman's ego too, not just the man's. I can't say, if I was a woman, that I'd want to be considered unresponsive, unsexy, or whatever. I'd want to put on a good show for the guy, even if it was totally fake. It's about being sexy, or at least appearing sexy I think, at least partly anyway. Lord knows women can be just as insecure, egotistical, and such as men, and a lot of times men don't even care if they really had the big O or not, as long as they put on a believable show.
Personally, I do care. The best thing to do, if you're worried about a woman faking it, is talk to her about her sexuality, her turn-ons and turn-offs, outside the bedroom, before sex. Not during -- that would kill a lot of the spontaneity women enjoy/require. Talk to her about what waves her flag, without being too academic about it of course, just engage her in some fun sexy chat and by the time you get her in the bedroom you two should be ready to meet each other's needs without having to fake it. They say you shouldn't be in bed with someone you know nothing about in the first place, and I think awkward situations like these are one of the reasons why.
Just my two cents. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 9:17:48 AM | I personally think if the girl is going to fake it she is only hurting herself.
Well when your married to a person who doesnt listen.....and after years of complaining about it....Ya just learn to fake it...After a while I learned to just pull my pants down and act like I enjoyed it just to get it over with for a month....Trust me...Its better than fighting about it.......You might consider it hurting myself....but I consider it....."Not enough reason for a DIVORCE"...........
Yeah I know Maria...........My mom was dating a guy who owned shopes in Pittsburgh...I used to go fill a bag once a month with anything I wanted.....Thank god for him........... | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 9:29:21 AM |
Well when your married to a person who doesnt listen.....and after years of complaining about it....Ya just learn to fake it...After a while I learned to just pull my pants down and act like I enjoyed it just to get it over with for a month....Trust me...Its better than fighting about it.......You might consider it hurting myself....but I consider it....."Not enough reason for a DIVORCE"...........
I feel so bad for women in situations like this only cause I was in a relationship like this myself where the girl had no clue herself. Its harder for a guy to "fake" it cause who wants to look that stupid lol
My friend once said that you never marry the person that you have had the best sex with, so I think the trick is to just have sex and not get married LOL | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 9:36:35 AM | Im on a strict ....ONLY SEX....diet for the rest of my life...............
OT.........If the guy isnt pleasing the girl...and shes told him several times...do what ya gotta do......... | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 9:49:57 AM | I could tell when my X (wife) had one, and whether it was a big one or not. Haven't been with anyone else long enough to know for sure.
The last girl I was dating would make the same noises whether I was working downstairs or entering her from the front or the back. She just plain old liked sex no matter what we were doing. Do I think she had an orgasm through intercouse? No. But she seemed to get the same amount of enjoyment out of any bedroom activity and she liked to go for a couple of hours at a time. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 10:12:12 AM | I can't imagine getting married to someone unless we had at least a good sex life together. If someone didn't listen, they wouldn't be around long. This isn't a criticism since I don't know your situation, just my feelings about it.
I agree with the people who say that she is only hurting herself. If what I am doing isn't what you need, talk to me. If what you are doing isn't working for me, I will try to gently guide you toward what does.
OT - It has never occurred to me that my partner was faking it. There were times when they didn't have orgasms or when we had to try different things, so I assumed that if it wasn't working, they would tell me. If they did fake it, it was their loss. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 10:18:15 AM | Stone..I was young...Dumb...and Drunk...Literally.........Never knew I was missing out on anything ......... ....
OT......Faking it.......Havent done that for a while.... | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 12:10:26 PM | | Unless I care about the woman, I don't care if she is for real or faking it. I'm narcissistic. It's about me, not her. see ya. | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 12:12:45 PM | What is the deal with this? OF course you can tell if a woman is faking it...can't you feel it inside her?
I think the first symptom would be the violent vaginal contractions for starters...oh and let's not forget how she suddenly gets soaked...oh and how about her muscles quivering and spasming...and if you look at her coochie you can see the darn thing talking at ya!
Duh, guys!!! Wake up! | |
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| Can men tell when a woman is faking it?
Posted: 7/11/2005 12:13:04 PM | I can tell. I caught an ex-girlfriend faking it and I just stopped, left the room and slept on the couch. I was never so pissed in my entire life!
I've spent my entire sexual lifetime concentrating SOLELY on giving my partner the best orgasm of her life. Two partners I've had told me going in they weren't able to cum - imagine the smiles on BOTH of our faces when I proved them wrong!
If you're not into it, say so. If I'm not hitting the right spot, help me find it. Just don't EVER fake it with me or you'll find yourself faking it with someone else! | |
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