| can a man show too much sensitivity on a profile?
Posted: 11/1/2009 8:39:18 AM | | I wonder whether to show a bit of my 'bad boy' side, as we men all have at least a bit, and if my profile perhaps has some women think that I may be a bit overly sensitive. We can't put a book's worth of what we're all about, and to me, my sensitive side is what I'm centered around. Can this be a turn off? (I am writing an opposing profile that shows my more confident, intent, and driven side, so maybe that will answer this question as well). I did put my heart into the current one. | |
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| can a man show too much sensitivity on a profile?
Posted: 11/1/2009 9:05:57 AM | hi love,
i took some time and read your profile and i do think the pics are great and that you show a lot of yourself in what you write as well as how you write it. if i were you i would try to make my profile shorter and more to the point, a little less of the sensitive side.
i do not see anything that is necessarily a turn off, but a lot of gals will not take the time to read all the way thru. part of this process is learning about each other, if you put it all out there on your profile there is not much left to explore.....
best of luck | |
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| can a man show too much sensitivity on a profile?
Posted: 11/1/2009 9:13:48 AM | I like your profile and if it's working for you - keep it!
I like the photographs; you're a handsome man.
Your interets: separate each by a comma, not a dash. That way, they are all searchable. | |
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| can a man show too much sensitivity on a profile?
Posted: 11/1/2009 9:17:42 AM | | I don't think I put it all out there. There's a lot more to any of us than we could ever write on our profile. I rather think it gives a woman the chance to see a lot more, and will either intrigue her, or let her know right off that I'm not what she's looking for. I appreciate the longer ones women write, quite a lot! The more info, the better. Yes, there's definitely a lot more to explore in each of us, a whole lifetime's worth! | |
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| can a man show too much sensitivity on a profile?
Posted: 11/1/2009 11:11:34 AM | Wow! And I don't say that about many profiles.
It is hard to find a profile that feels real and spoken from the heart. Your profile may not tell 'us' all about you, and really it shouldn't, but it most certainly gives a gal a very good glimpse and it looks quite good. Don't change a thing.
Your profile is about you but not ALL about you, if you know what I mean. I have examples if you don't.
One shouldn't fully disclose right off the bat, where is the mystery in that? If you expose too much of yourself, there maybe some information misconstrued, misunderstood; and too much information maybe the reason someone won't write or respond.
Good pictures too. You could give lessons.
Oh, and yes, a man (or woman) could show too much sensitivity but you didn't and I think that is a good thing.
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