Age between 28 and 40
Live in United States
Live within 75 miles.
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First, let me say that I am not new to online dating, my friend did not put me up to it, and although it has been a mixed bag for me people I know found people from this very site.

While I know we are supposed to sell ourselves here, everything anyone ever writes makes everyone seem the same and perfect. I have my flaws like everyone else and I am working on making myself a better person everyday. I have a personal trainer who is working on my health and fitness with me. I am a professional, I have a career and not a job. I live alone with my dog Romo and my Cat Chivas. I have a 6yr old son who I see every other weekend. I have a good relationship with his mother and am not looking for a mother for him. He is just part of my life, and needs to be considered in a potential relationship.

I am not perfect by any stretch of the imagination, but I am not damaged goods either. I have a positive outlook on life, I like camping, outdoors, movies, fixing things, bar-b-que with the friends, and friendly get-togethers. I am manly enough to defend your honor, fix the plumbing, guess what might be wrong with your car... but I am sensitive enough to keep my hands smooth for holding and to understand when something might be bothering you. I am smart enough to leave it alone at times too when I should.

I am funny, I know everyone says that, but I find I am always making people laugh around me. I pride myself on being charming and actually funny. I think that one of the best sounds on earth is a woman laughing.

My humor is witty, I love to quote funny lines from movies with friends. My humor can be odd at times ( I call it sophisticated humor ) and my behavior can sometimes match it. I am here to find someone to build a relationship with, to get to know them, see if we click. Then take it from there. I am loyal to a fault and every past relationship ( not dating ) has been no less than three years. Why do something if you're not going to put your all into it right?

Some things I want to do more of. I want to travel more ( see England and Germany and definitely Japan), I want to go on cruise and I want to sit on a beach and drink a corona and see blue clear water. I also want to get a tattoo and jump out of an air plane.

More than anything I think I want to meet that woman who inspires me to want to paint her a mural, build her a house, sculpt her a statue. I want her to be the first thing on my mind when I wake up and the last thing i think about before I fall sleep. Life is meant to be shared with someone special, when you've tasted it, you only want more!

If you message me I will respond. If I am not interested, I will tell you, never hurts to reach out and communicate with someone. Cost you nothing but the time it took to write something.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

First Date
Lets get though the initial correspondence part then see where that goes. No point is saying where we would go without knowing each other a little bit first.

The son of a poet, an artist and communication specialist is suddenly at a loss for words. How can I summarize myself in a short synopsis that will demonstrate the depths of my character, life experiences and inspirations to seek out and find love? Having the ability to diagnose and resolve complex issues has left me at impasse to determine what I am to say about myself that will make a woman understand me.

How do I convey my excitement about life and all the possibilities it presents, the joys and pitfalls I have traversed, the accomplishments and yes, in some cases the failures in online text? Excitement about life cannot adequately be expressed in the written form, nor can the anticipation of finding the one to share yourself with and hoping for the same be communicated in such a simple format.

However, you must know some details about me so I will give you some overall information about myself in the hopes that this will intrigue you enough to want to find out more personally, where these abstracts can be detailed greater with non verbal’s and the tell tale eyes.

I play the guitar and use that as creative outlet. I love to create things and I am a “Fixer”, if it is broken I want to make it right. I have been that way since my grandfather gave me a screwdriver and a busted alarm clock at the age of 5. Two days later I came back to him with a fixed alarm clock. The path of life I suppose. There is a sensitive side to me and I am not ashamed to admit. I am human and feel despite an outward appearance that sometimes masks this fact. Only those who know me well ever see that side, it is reserved for them.

Now how do I describe the woman I am looking for? Again, the words fail me.

*Read to the theme of Mission:Immpossible *

Your first date should you choose to accept it is as follows:Start with public place, a cafe or local pub will do. Aquaint yourself with each other. If you get the sense that things are going well, move to stage two. Dinner. Eat your meal and order a drink, all the while be poised to converse about things that you like and dislike. Laugh at his jokes no matter what, self improvement stopped for him at potty training ( wait thats another movie!...laugh anyway. After dinner, end the night at a movie or a comedy club where the laughter continues and evening concludes.

* this message will self destruct in 5,4,3,2..... *

Your first date should you choose to accept it is as follows: