| IS MY PROFILE REALY THAT BAD OR AM I JUS UGLY? Posted: 11/2/2009 3:49:36 AM | hey i need sum honest views about my profile and profile pic. I can say i have contacted quite a few people and know one has replied back, i know you goto be patient but im just thinking does this site realy work?
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| IS MY PROFILE REALY THAT BAD OR AM I JUS UGLY? Posted: 11/2/2009 4:08:40 AM | Yep
Use spell check - it's NO one, not 'know one' and 'spontaneous'
One pic won't cut it.. more pics, body shot included.
And saying 'prefer not to say' when it comes to children implies you don't want any. A lot of women your age are looking to have kids, or already have one (or more). You're alienating a portion of women. | |
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| IS MY PROFILE REALY THAT BAD OR AM I JUS UGLY? Posted: 11/2/2009 5:50:43 AM |
Any hints/tips? In your age group there ar far more men here than women, so you will need an excellent profile if you want to get responses. Job number one for you is to get some new photos. The one you have now has a deep blue tint that makes you look strange. Do you have a friend who is a good photographer who can help you with this? | |
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| IS MY PROFILE REALY THAT BAD OR AM I JUS UGLY? Posted: 11/2/2009 6:15:24 AM | Ditch the line about drama queens Dude. Guys are in no position to dictate who gets to contact them. You do need a couple of better pictures. And there's a big discrepancy in your profile. You say you don't drink, and then your first date idea involves several drinks. Which is it?
Your spelling stinks here in the forum, but was fine within the confines of your profile. Not sure a late 20 year old guy who's only looking to party is going to be in big demand here, but start with the pics. Good luck! | |
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| IS MY PROFILE REALY THAT BAD OR AM I JUS UGLY? Posted: 11/2/2009 9:22:48 AM |
And saying 'prefer not to say' when it comes to children implies you don't want any. A lot of women your age are looking to have kids, or already have one (or more). You're alienating a portion of women.
I don't know about anyone else, but I think of "Prefer not to say" as meaning "Not right now." If I didn't want kids, I would put "No." | |
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| IS MY PROFILE REALY THAT BAD OR AM I JUS UGLY? Posted: 11/2/2009 12:44:12 PM |
I don't know about anyone else, but I think of "Prefer not to say" as meaning "Not right now." If I didn't want kids, I would put "No."
I can't speak for every woman here but I know if I see 'prefer not to say' I assume it means 'realises saying no looks bad, so have gone for the cop-out option'.
I mean, I've put 'yes' to kids on my profile and so do many men, but when I see a yes I just assume it means 'at some point'. It's not like anyone with a yes there means they want kids right now. | |
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