| Guys; do you know when a woman is interested or when shes just being a woman?
Posted: 11/2/2009 1:01:49 PM | A good friend of mine asked me this question and I relised that I don't have a clue. I've had 3 LTRs and a few STRs (no STDs though  ) I have women who I hang out with who know me better than family... I can't tell if they'er interested. The only way I've ever found out was to a) ask them out on a date. Then b) kiss them or ask if I can kiss them... That's the only thing that ever worked. And then once I'm in a relationship I really only know for certian when they'er pissed off or orgasmic. Who teaches the mind reading in this outfit? | |
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| Guys; do you know when a woman is interested or when shes just being a woman?
Posted: 11/6/2009 12:31:22 PM | Well, from a woman's perspective, I think if they are hanging out with you, they probably like you and may be interested, but I know my problem is that I want to take things slowly and most men aren't that patient even if I explain that to them.
You bring up a very good point...STD's...that is a real fear for all of us, and most of us have kids and want to set an example for them.
It doesn't take a mind reader to figure out women, and if you could read our minds, what fun would that be? many of us have trust issues, and it can take awhile to warm up to someone...but if you keep that attitude about us, that could be a big hinderance on your part. | |
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| Guys; do you know when a woman is interested or when shes just being a woman?
Posted: 11/6/2009 9:25:43 PM | I could have sworn I answered this...I must have fallen asleep LOL Not because of your thread, just been a very tiring week.
Hmmm I have never understood why women can understand men so well and men never understand women, especially the ones that think they have us down.
I for one  congratulate you on admitting the truth. Truth will take you far with a woman. Women love the truth. I am not talking about criticizing her looks or your thoughts comparing her and other women. That is the kind of truth that will ban you permanently from her heart. Just another really weird thing men don't understand about women. Seems far too obvious.
Anyway, back to you. Are you sure you know when she is orgasmic? I personally have never faked one, but according to most all women I have ever known it is pretty common. I just refuse to fake anything, but that is me. From what I hear from men and women, men don't have a clue when a woman fakes one or not.
I also find it really strange that the only thing a man gets is when a woman is pissed off. Well, she has been irritated and telling you about it for a long time before she is actually angry, so again, why do you men never know this???
I only see one answer to your question. Women are far too observant of men and men never put one ounce of effort into understanding women or listening to them. Apparently men feel they are superior. Maybe you do not persoanlly, but a lot of men do. I have heard 100's of comments from men in my lifetime that says after 30 seconds they feel it is ridiculous to try to figure out a woman, too much work...what an effort, 30 seconds.
Or, they start to hate women and have nothing good to say after they try for a few times.
It is plain to see. Men simply do not find understanding the creature who is to be their lifelong mate, worth the time. It is that simple. If they did, there wouldn't be a question. Nothing is that hard. Men can send satellites into deep space and send a man to walk on the moon, even safely to the deepest crevices in the black high pressure ocean, but since creation cannot understand a woman?? Back to it seems simple to me. Men can understand anything they put an effort into. The ones who claim to understand women, are always terrible users and abusers. They just understand how to manipulate, not UNDERSTAND.
You seem like a great guy. I don't know. Find a woman and really commit yourself to her and work to truly understand, with true caring and love. But make a better choice than in your past. Love the girl that truly loves you, that you really like. Men always go for the ones they have to chase down and who are having sex with everyone, then complain and **** as they get a divorce, whomever is the one filing. Men never seem to love the girl they are almost in love with until they find out she loves them, then men never want her anymore.
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| Guys; do you know when a woman is interested or when shes just being a woman?
Posted: 11/7/2009 2:08:52 AM | Hi gottwins...
A pretty good way to tell if a woman is interested or not is her body language and her eyes. Does she seem attentive and interested in what you are saying? Is her body leaning forward? Is she looking at you? Even if she is too shy to have constant eye contact, her body language will still tell you she is interested. Does she smile alot, but not with her eyes (aka just being polite)? Some women are touchy feely when they interested also such as a touch to your hand, arm, shoulder (if she touches your butt its a sure bet! HAHA!).
It's not hard to figure out when a woman is pissed off, as you said yourself. lol The orgasmic thing tho? I wont get into that here since its a bit graphic for this thread, but i can almost guarantee most men just absolutely have noooooo clue when a woman fakes (except for your corny porn star imitators who are....obvious lol).
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| Guys; do you know when a woman is interested or when shes just being a woman?
Posted: 11/8/2009 4:14:29 PM | im generally not interested at the "get go".... all this interest stuff takes time to develop.
and OHH.. if im faking an orgasm.. he better have money.. :))
3 reasons to be with a man:
1. LOVE
2. MONEY
3. Or da Penis
All 3 would be nice.. but.. the fact is... im always in it for love. All the other stuff is a bonus.. and men who have money should keep it really? throwing money at a woman to impress her only nets you a hooker. | |
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| Guys; do you know when a woman is interested or when shes just being a woman?
Posted: 11/9/2009 1:18:02 PM | Well, the whole idea of faking is absolutely ridiculous to me and I cannot even begin to rationalize something like that, but I have questioned my friends a lot about why they do it and I frequently hear the same answer...
"I was bored and he wouldn't stop or get off of me, so I fake it so he thinks he did his job."
I have NEVER had a single one of them tell me they fake it because they like someone. Why would they like a man that cannot make them have an orgasm? Or, fake it with a man they like and want to have more sex with?
There is an obvious difference between me and them. They will have sex with a guy because they went out with him and he wants to. I would never have sex with a man unless we have a very close bond already. Which is probably why I do not end up with a guy that cannot make me have an orgasm. I do not do dinner sex. Dinner does not buy me. And I also do not go out to dinner with men I am not truly interested in.
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| Guys; do you know when a woman is interested or when shes just being a woman?
Posted: 11/9/2009 1:53:33 PM | jeez where to start...ripadoodles i hear ya there g/f...i'll take a piece of that action...there may be a few that know when a gal is faking, and if they do then maybe they'll do a better job next time 
ss your posts never cease to amaze me...i don't think i've ever met anyone quite as perfect as you sound 
dadeeword...lol, love is where its at sweetie...gets us through those times where we gotta fake it 
op...women are easy...love us, make love to us, love spending your money on us, love truth, love monogammy, love our slightly flawed bodies, love to kiss and hug us, love to talk to us, love to laugh with us...did i miss anything?...oh i'm sure i did...all women are different op so i guess you have to play it by ear...if you're not understanding "your" woman, then she's not letting you  | |
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| Guys; do you know when a woman is interested or when shes just being a woman?
Posted: 11/9/2009 8:38:58 PM | LOL perfect huh? right
...if you're not understanding "your" woman, then she's not letting you If that isn't an obvious statement of, "oh please think I am the perfect woman because I will lay down and let you walk on me and blame me just to get your attention ," then I don't know what is.
Like I said, I don't do fake. If that makes any woman, or any man angry because I prefer and expect REAL feelings and REAL honesty in a REAL relationship, then so be it.
You don't have to belittle yourself and all womankind to get a decent man. A decent man will see that. I know a lot of decent men that would never buy that line and tell you to get some self-respect. THAT kind of thing never ceases to amaze me.
If you think it is helping you, maybe you better look again and also think of the legacy you are leaving all other women and girls. It is shocking how women are willing to sell themselves and all others out for a nod from any man.
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| Guys; do you know when a woman is interested or when shes just being a woman?
Posted: 11/9/2009 9:26:01 PM |
If that isn't an obvious statement of, "oh please think I am the perfect woman because I will lay down and let you walk on me and blame me just to get your attention ," then I don't know what is.
honey do i look like i need your approval or sympathy?...and just who in the hell died and made you captain?...don't twist words to suit your egotistical views..."some" women out there still enjoy being "women"...you know the type don't ya?...cooks, cleans, back rubs, might even scratch the unmentionables if he asks real nice | |
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| Guys; do you know when a woman is interested or when shes just being a woman?
Posted: 11/10/2009 2:16:11 PM | omg to scratching unmentionables.
But.. shes right in a way.
My b/f treated me well.. then badly.. like an ebb and flow tide.
yet i would bend over BACKWARDS to win merely a smile from him.
Once im in love.. its like, i lose myself.
And women.. OMG women would hit on my man in front of me.. I cant imagine how desperate they were. Bars are like meat markets.. i would have women talk to ME to get to him!! Crazy world | |
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| Guys; do you know when a woman is interested or when shes just being a woman?
Posted: 11/10/2009 11:04:21 PM | I pose this same question back at you with a minor change tho ... do you know when a man is interested or when he is just being a man?
I love the gentleman Im with to death but there are NO WORDS to go with any of his actions ... as the doting "girlfriend" it makes me wonder how much more do I have to do to prove how much I care to get just a little in return (and Im not referring to sex as the return Im looking for either) ...
If I were a betting person I would say he does NOT feel the same for me as I do for him, but then again it could be the fact he is just not that type of fella or is just being a man and taking what is being given willingly to him until he finds a more suitable replacement? I would like to think he is NOT doing that ... so with that thought Im outta here.
happy and successful fishing to all!!!  | |
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| Guys; do you know when a woman is interested or when shes just being a woman?
Posted: 11/11/2009 4:24:45 AM | | bruin, i think you are selling yourself short. i think you know in your heart he does not care for you the way you care for him. you should not have to work so hard to get a little attention. a real man would have words to go with his actions. try ignoring him and see if that gets his attention. it sounds as though you are thinking he's just waiting for something better to come along. no one deserves to feel like their replacement is just a click away. don't make excuses for him!! | |
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| Guys; do you know when a woman is interested or when shes just being a woman?
Posted: 11/11/2009 8:56:10 AM |
I love the gentleman Im with to death but there are NO WORDS to go with any of his actions ... as the doting "girlfriend" it makes me wonder how much more do I have to do to prove how much I care to get just a little in return
a79bruin, i agree with lawrence. don't sell yourself short. i've been in that position many times where i "feel" he does not feel the same way, and have the feeling they are just with you until someone comes along that is better. i agree. make him work for you. seems like you are doing all the work in the relationship. he's just along for the free ride. he does not deserve someone as genuine as you are!!!!! | |
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| Guys; do you know when a woman is interested or when shes just being a woman?
Posted: 11/11/2009 2:16:47 PM | | 79er we go way back ...lol, ancient ones on this site...all relationships are a certain amount of work and compromise, but honey its a game of give and take...lol, remember that song?...probably not youngen, lol...women are natural nuturers, so we probably give a tad more than we receive anyways, and sometimes we gotta give a little nudge to get them (men) thinking straight...lol, i wrote "flowers for kat" on the grocery list thats stuck up on his fridge for about a month before i got flowers, ha, but i got them...big smile | |
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