| help! Posted: 11/2/2009 1:53:17 PM | Hey guys thanks for lookign. I feel my profile is a little lacking and not generating the replys I would like so How can I change it to make me more appealing.
http://www.plentyoffish.com/member10347206.htm Thanks Andy | |
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| help! Posted: 11/2/2009 2:09:07 PM | | Also Are my picture's ok? I don't really take many pictures myself so the one's I have I took with friends and pulled em off Facebook. So they all seem to be with girls, which I assume isn't ideal. | |
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| help! Posted: 11/2/2009 2:58:12 PM | Hi Andy,
Unfortunately you're right - pictures of you with various women definitely not a good idea. No girl likes to think she'll be fighting for your attention amongst all your female friends.
You've put 'hang out' under looking for. If you're really after dating then change it, because you'll appear in far more searches. I'd love to see the stats on how many looking fors generate searches, and I bet 'hang out' isn't high on the list.
You've put 'music' and 'movies' under your interests. You could be a little more specific - what kind of music, what movie genres?
I like your first date idea, that's fine :)
Your description! One paragraph is not going to cut it. The magic standard in my opinion is three paragraphs. 1. A paragraph about yourself as a person. 2. One about what you're into, what you like doing. 3. The last about what you're looking for.
Obviously there are many variations and different ways to set it out, but that's a good place to start. You have to try and show your personality through your words - there are so many articulate men on here who will have written 10 times what you have - give yourself a chance and put as much effort in as you can :)
Good luck :) | |
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| help! Posted: 11/2/2009 5:48:02 PM | first, you need to take those women off your picures or just take one by yourself and another with a dog or at work. second, you have a curse word "azs" i changed it around --- please remove this (its a turn off to any LADY) if you want a lady. you might want to include the kind of music or movies you like; how you like to treat your special lady and how you want or what you want your special lady to cook for you. mention the last time you went on vacation and where or your favorite color and why.
good luck, | |
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