| single mummys Posted: 11/3/2009 6:50:49 AM | | Just a quick note to say when ever i see the profile of a single mummy alot of them seem to be apologising for it . Stop that ladies any guy who wouldnt go out with you cause you have a kid is not worth going out with any way:) | |
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| single mummys Posted: 11/3/2009 5:37:54 PM | i totally agree and i am a single mum but i have never and will never apologise to anyone for having my kids, they are my life, my treasure and my heart all rolled into little and not so little bundles of joy
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| single mummys Posted: 11/3/2009 10:11:52 PM | Women apologising for being mothers ..in this day and age?
When did that become the norm?
I cannot imagine some woman writing on her profile "Sorry guys, but I am a mother..please don't let that put you off contacting me though blah blah blah"
It would be far more likely that any sensible mother would be writing "If you are a stupid moronic male who thinks that because I am a mother I am desperate for companionship and intimacy at any cost..please get lost" | |
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| single mummys Posted: 11/4/2009 4:33:21 AM | lol iris i have to say ive read quite a few of you posts on diff threads and i like the way you think  | |
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| single mummys Posted: 11/6/2009 1:27:09 PM | | it's a very valid question why do you think it is on the profile page, smoking drinking drugs and kids............ no single male should date a sinngle mumand vice versa, single guys date single girls and single mums date single dads and never the two shall meet, the luggage and problems of crossing over between the two are not possible. I know what I'm talking about damn near cost me my life and yes I mean just that. | |
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| single mummys Posted: 11/6/2009 7:07:49 PM | The OP did not ask a question, he made a statement, probably designed to make him appear as a goody two shoes and prime catch for a vulnerable woman who might be thinking she did something wrong by being a mother, but maybe not, perhaps he is genuinely concerned about the emotional state of Irish mothers and their low self esteems and apologetic ways, just because they suffer the drudgery of that position and the dreadful guilt of not being in a committed relationship with the father of their child/ren.
I know what I'm talking about damn near cost me my life and yes I mean just that. Aira..go on..tell us what happened to you, you know you wanna!
what are you saying there then ..women who are mothers are dangerous to get involved with?
What do they do to men...do they gobble them up for breakfast or something and then spit them out???
It's a life changing, incredible achievement to become a parent regardless of gender and any woman who feels less of a person for doing something so great would be silly to believe that, naturally there has to be some follow through and being a mother isn't the be all and end all, clearly you have to put a bit of time and effort into your lucky and blessed happenstance and parent to the best of your ability....we're not living in the times a certain regular poster on here would have us believe we are you know...the Magdalene laundries are no longer a shameful reality and nor is the option of sending your wife off to the nut house rather than divorce her so you can shack up with a country girl twenty years younger than you. | |
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| single mummys Posted: 11/8/2009 1:44:35 PM | | Post was in no way an attempt to make myself look like "A goody 2 shoes". i was just making an observation is all | |
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| single mummys Posted: 11/10/2009 4:08:25 PM | personally i'd rate single mothers along the same lines as drug dealers scum of the earth | |
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| single mummys Posted: 11/11/2009 4:50:35 AM |
personally i'd rate single mothers along the same lines as drug dealers scum of the earth *troll* IGNORE.
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| single mummys Posted: 11/11/2009 5:01:29 AM |
personally i'd rate single mothers along the same lines as drug dealers scum of the earth I see you removed your photo before you posted that shite, watery boy!!
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| single mummys Posted: 11/11/2009 9:53:45 AM | | what a shocker simply me being me your a single mother and no its my deep routed opinion | |
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| single mummys Posted: 11/11/2009 2:21:59 PM | | Seriously Hairybear; are you actually a neanderthol or were you just too embarassed to put your user name is as Hairlypalms cos I honestly doubt you've known a womans touch in many many moons (if at all)? | |
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| single mummys Posted: 11/13/2009 4:51:01 PM | I don't know who on earth hairybear was but his pof forum life was shortlived for a good reason most probably (I secretly think he was the ex lover of the great and funny 'simply me being me').
I've spoken with Tecnic outside of this forum and he's actually a really funny and nice person, a little unusual but he was teasing people on here ..and lots of us loved it and understood that he was a joker - I swear he is very normal aside from a couple of quite extraordinary quirks...Like his mad adoration for shiny and belief that he is the god of hospital radio.
he's a class act for a muck savage.. | |
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| single mummys Posted: 11/13/2009 6:20:58 PM | i read what he said and i dont belive what he had said, but any single mothers out there who wants a man give me email and i go out with them.
ps only in Ireland pls
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| single mummys Posted: 11/18/2009 10:07:33 AM | | personally, i would rate hairybear as scum of the earth. | |
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| single mummys Posted: 11/21/2009 6:56:40 AM | Hairy bear is a wind up merchant I'd say.
However as a I don't have kids I'd rather go out with someone without kids. Not a rule though.
Although if Angelina Jolie became availabe I'd adopt her flock. | |
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| single mummys Posted: 11/26/2009 7:28:30 AM |
personally i'd rate single mothers along the same lines as drug dealers scum of the earth
Someone is missing mammy 'cos he has no one to walk him to the methadone clinic..... | |
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| single mummys Posted: 11/26/2009 8:40:48 AM | why was this thread even started,unless lookin for 'points',maybe he thinks loads of single women will message him now | |
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