| 3 marriage proposals by men I am not interesed in and i am not dating them !
Posted: 11/3/2009 5:09:58 PM | This is really weird and i did not meet any of these men on line!I had 3 marriage proposals in October 2009. I had 2 men that I just met, I told them straight out we are only friends and they still both asked me to marry them! I never even kissed these men on the lips! One of them was still married and told me he loved me and he said he would divorse his wife for me. He then called me and told me his wife served divorce papers on him. He siad we can get married! I told them I was not interested in them several times. It was hard to get rid of them until I hung up on them abruptly.
My ex who lives in Washington, d.c. calls me out of the blue and told me he loves me and in 2 years he will be getting his 20 year pension from the Government job as he has been a congressional staffer . He said I do not have to even work becaue his pension is so huge. He can find aother job and keep his pension. I would have to move back to Washington, d.c. where I met him while I was an intern. The really strange part was he been s seeeing a woman who did not have a lot of sexual experiences, in other words she was a virgin until she had sex with my ex. My ex said he was just using her because he did never had sex with avirgin and he is going to dump her after the new year. He wanted me to come and see him while he was dating this women and we would tell her we are friends. He sent emails and called me and told me that he loes me and that I was the best sex he had in his 41 years. He told me if he had more money he fly me into Washington, d.c. every weekend because he misses the sex. I refused to see him, he offered to pay half my plane ticket. He sent me an email and telling me he loves me, he misssed how we made love. He admitted the sex was the best part of the realtionship but there has to be more to a marriage then that. He told me my values and beliefs are to Mid-West ... meaning I am too honest, ethical, and got morals. He said if I live in the Federal city I need to know how to use people, lie, be decietful, cheat, and only care about myself. He is a very conservative Democrat and I am more of a moderate to Liberal Democrat. I told him when you love someone you accept them for who they are and do not try to change them. This guy is not mature enough to be married because he thinks couples need to be matching book ends. I lived with this guy on weekends while i was an intern in 2005-2006. Yes, we had great times going to political events, going to see the historical events, and numerous clubs and plays.
I refused to marry him even if I could go back to living the glamerous life of the Congress with fancy parties, celeberties and Congressional perks.
October 2009 was quite a month for me but if I married any of these men I would end up divorce. I do want to get married , live together, or have a significant other but the guy has to love me for me. I know one day i will find that special guy. | |
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