| if you are involved with this man for 5 years and then not Posted: 11/3/2009 6:49:38 PM | | for 4 years and then he is back now and you get together again....my question is ...we are kissing very passionately and he gives me these 3 kisses on my neck....this is before we even have sex and then he does it all again afterwards and again when he was leaving....those 3 kisses afterwards are like the ones you give your kid on the forehead when they are leaving to school or something...as if you dont want them to go but they have to...do those kisses represent something like love.... | |
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| if you are involved with this man for 5 years and then not Posted: 11/3/2009 6:56:29 PM | | You were with him for 5 years at one point and you don't feel that you can ask him this? Not to be rude, but this is not a 'new' relationship even if you've only recently gotten back together. If you guys can't communicate at this level it does not bode well for the relationship. | |
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| if you are involved with this man for 5 years and then not Posted: 11/3/2009 7:00:16 PM | Those first kisses we signs of “I want you” and the last kisses were kisses friendship kisses saying “Thanks, I’ll see you later maybe for more...”
What I am wondering is even if those kisses meant something else, where do YOU want it to go? | |
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| if you are involved with this man for 5 years and then not Posted: 11/3/2009 8:01:45 PM | OP,
I think you are giving this more than it deserves. You know him from before and now there is something new..... where did he pick it up and what did it mean when she did it to him?
Just a question for an answer, J Mac | |
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| if you are involved with this man for 5 years and then not Posted: 11/3/2009 9:36:27 PM | You're really taking overanalyzing to a serious, scary level. You have already decided you want it to mean whatever you want it to.
As Landra pointed out, it's probably just something he picked up from one of the girls he was with over the last 4 years. | |
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| if you are involved with this man for 5 years and then not Posted: 11/3/2009 10:15:51 PM | | It sounds like his good by kisses are like the ones I gave to my over perfumed aunts when I was a kid. Sheesh. This guy is using you for sex, and then giving you one of those platonic good by pecks. Ewwwwwww! Kick this guy to the curb pronto. | |
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| if you are involved with this man for 5 years and then not Posted: 11/4/2009 12:48:07 AM | | I am not sure how one could assume that 3 three kisses mean anything at all. THe guy leaves for along time and then comes back....that is, as another pointed out, the question that I would be asking, and a question that you should be asking him. | |
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| if you are involved with this man for 5 years and then not Posted: 11/4/2009 3:58:47 AM | Yeah sounds like a male relative kissing you goodbye .
Did you feel you owed him sex? Did the sex means he owed you something?
I am confused why on a lot in this thread. You should know where you stand be it a relationship or not before having sex.
We can't answer what you should ask him. | |
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| if you are involved with this man for 5 years and then not Posted: 11/4/2009 4:36:14 AM | | My advice is this, u subtly or somehow get him to start kissing u differently in a way u like. Hell, ask the guy what u need to know of his feelings and intentions. You obviously been around the man long enough you should have built a good line of conversations with him. When i have certain doubts, especially matters of the heart will be forward in my asking certain things. Nothing worse to me than left wondering. | |
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| if you are involved with this man for 5 years and then not Posted: 11/4/2009 5:00:51 AM | | There's a whole story missing from this thread, like why you broke up, why he's back, and so forth. What do the three kisses mean? Why don't you ask him? I wonder sometimes why people ask questions on the forum to total strangers, yet they cannot communicate with someone they're having a sexual relationship with. It boggles the mind. | |
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