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Posted: 11/4/2009 8:38:59 AM | Okay, a couple of years ago you dated a guy for a few months.
He was a perfectly respectable guy, you had some fun with him, but there was no real heat there, so you parted as friends.
Recently, while at a party....you bump into him .
Your friend ask you to introduce her to him....Would You ? | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 8:41:14 AM | If there was no real heat there and we parted as friends.. then sure I would introduce her to him, I don't see that as a problem. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 8:42:11 AM | | Yes. But only if it's Blue Box day? | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 8:55:39 AM | | Sure. Toss it in with the rest of the scrap. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 8:57:41 AM | recycle men - lol rolf well if nothing else it made me laugh
suppose it is a good thing, if you are sure he is a good guy, imagine if you paired a guy off with a good mate and he turned out to be a nastie, now that would be a sting in the tail of a good deed. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 9:02:43 AM | Of course.
A good guy for a good friend. Sure. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 9:13:03 AM | | I totally would recycle...it's an environmentally sound notion...haven't you ever heard of the "green" men project? LOL...you should always let your friends ride a hybrid... | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 10:28:07 AM | | If we didn't have any chemistry, then I probably would introduce him to someone I think he would be more compatible with. I don't see anything wrong with that. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 10:35:38 AM | | Nothing wrong with that, saying that there wasn't anything serious between us and we both parted on good terms knowing that there was no chemistry. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 10:42:32 AM | | Sure. I don't see the problem either. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 10:47:40 AM | | sure, as long as there were no other issues like toxicity or outgassing. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 12:31:42 PM | | If she likes sloppy seconds, sure. Why not?? | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 12:50:53 PM |
Your friend ask you to introduce her to him....Would You ?
My friends would never ask me to introduce them to an ex of mine. lol | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 12:51:20 PM | If they've been cleaned up and all sharp and or hazardous edges have been removed, why not?
I mean, they did sign a PRIVACY AGREEMENT, right? | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 1:32:20 PM | if it was only for a couple of months several years ago i dont see the problem in it, howver if the guy in question had been a significant other / long termer / husband etc then no way jose!
i was in a similar situation many years ago, a guy i had been seeing for a couple of months, rocked up a couple of years later and out of respect, my friend called me and said 'i quite like him, do you mind if we see where things go' i of course said go for it - it was not problem. They ended up having a short lived relationship, resulting in her eldest son.
then had a night with her second youngest sister...............
They guy in question - well he is now with her youngest sister, they have two kids and a home together and are happy!
I think along the line he has also dated a couple of other people from our extended group of friends.
yes its very jerry springer, but its good use of recycling!!
Caro | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 3:38:54 PM | | I don't. It's not my job to introduce my friends to potential suitors. If they're interested in them, they need to talk to them on their own. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 4:43:47 PM | Do I? I did! Introduced my ex-bf to a female (with a full disclaimer, mind you!) figuring at least he'll stop calling me to tell how lonely he is without a woman. They ended up dating for some time. In the end, she said he was hysterical and overbearing. I was like "but I told you." We are still friends with her. She says she'll never do such a thing again.
P.S. I remember "Do you ever play a matchmaker?" thread on here. Most people said "No! Never!" How's that not matchmaking? | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 7:39:08 PM | I can hear it, ten years later after the divorce, "it was YOU who introduced me to him/her."
Etc. Etc.
Naw, I let people find their own love interests. I don't need the liability. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 7:49:46 PM | | If you felt they were a good enough person for your friend and you think it could leave to them being happy together. Plus keep in mind you'd have to see your ex a lot more often if they were dating! | |
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