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 Manwich2009

Joined: 5/11/2009
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 9:13:22 AM
Women always ask a guy what they consider the million dollar question !

What are you looking for in a relationship !

I always tell them the truth.....I want a woman that knows the words to the partridge family theme song......and sings it as we go on a nationwide crime spree.
Also she must own a fire breathing dragon, and serve me breakfast, lunch and dinner in lingerie.

After hearing this only a few stay around !

My point is....this question force a guy to lie !
Would you rather him tell you he's someone he's not, or just figure him out as you go ?
 Sabrosura

Joined: 1/7/2009
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 9:21:33 AM
It's no worse then the MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION most of us women get "Why are you single?"

I think it is a reasonable question to ask of a man/woman; as it will weed out anyone who's not seeking the same in a relationship.
 OnlyThis

Joined: 3/31/2009
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 9:23:07 AM

What are you looking for in a relationship !

My standard response: A second date
Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 9:27:14 AM
Come on get happy!!
Pump shot gun
Bad breath dog? Kind of like a dragon.
I make coffee You can have an apple and cottage cheese (Keep your girlish figure)
Give me the Victorias Secret card daarlin....

Tell me what you want. I will tell you if you are dreaming.
Then I get to tell you what I want and see if I am dreaming.


 Sabrosura

Joined: 1/7/2009
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 9:28:32 AM

Come on get happy!!
Pump shot gun
Bad breath dog? Kind of like a dragon.
I make coffee You can have an apple and cottage cheese (Keep your girlish figure)
Give me the Victorias Secret card daarlin....

Tell me what you want. I will tell you if you are dreaming.
Then I get to tell you what I want and see if I am dreaming.


 Manwich2009

Joined: 5/11/2009
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 9:32:29 AM
hahahahaha, peppermint....you kill me !
the next crime spree I go on...you're coming with me !
the victoria secret gift card is on the way !
 central_scrutinizer

Joined: 10/11/2009
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Posted: 11/5/2009 11:10:03 AM
I want a woman that knows the words to the partridge family theme song......and sings it as we go on a nationwide crime spree.


Thanks for that one! And to Petunia too. (Gawd, I suddenly feel ancient.)

Would you rather him tell you he's someone he's not, or just figure him out as you go ?

I'm not a girl nor do I wear girl's clothing, but from my angle honesty is always best. But truth in small doses. And what I mean by that is, never lie or mislead, but don't give away the farm all at once. Nobody could possibly handle my complete "bio" all at once, and from what I can tell, that goes for everyone.

I might have to use the Partridge Family theme + crime spree example some day on a woman I'm not interested in, just to see how that feels.

 davidpiano0609

Joined: 2/1/2009
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 11:33:38 AM
i always ask 'what do you want?' and when asked, i don't have to lie to answer.

it's a legit question. whether the other person is deluded or not. if she's not, i find whether we're potentially on the same page. if she is, i want to know that too. either way, it takes a little time to find out.
 KaelaCarver

Joined: 10/17/2009
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 12:36:33 PM
Did I miss something?

WHY would you "have to lie" about that question???????
 AlwaysExpectMiracles

Joined: 5/14/2009
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 12:41:33 PM
I still believe it's a good question to ask. A humorous response, no response at all, or a made-up-to-please-me response are all very telling.
Nobody force nobody to lie. There is no such thing. It's not like she's beating you with a stick to make you say things.
 definitelybratty

Joined: 7/28/2009
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 12:58:51 PM
I can honestly state that I have never asked that question. I find that his actions tell me so much more than a canned response to a dreaded question ever could.

What we do when we are together, if he introduces me to friends/family, the general conversations we have, how he interacts with my friends and family, etc all give a better indication of what direction we may be headed in while we have the opportunity to learn more about each other.
 Bassbob47

Joined: 3/2/2009
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 1:03:59 PM
i dont mind getting asked that
 Double Cabin

Joined: 11/29/2004
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Posted: 11/5/2009 1:07:55 PM
My standard response is tight labias and rationality. Unless of course she's already demonstarted those skills. Then I tell her someone like you but a jillion degrees hawter.
 sbee91

Joined: 3/29/2009
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 1:26:54 PM
i just want honesty-whether its just a fwb or a fling or whatever...

and guys freakin ask me what i am looking for or why i am single all the time.....
 Bassbob47

Joined: 3/2/2009
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 1:39:59 PM
So why are you single?
 sbee91

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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 1:47:14 PM
So why are you single?

apparently i am a super picky bit*h that puts my child and my happiness abouve a douchebag lol!!!!!

or i'm too weird or disgusting for most guys...i hear tha a lot....

i say they dont know what they r missing!!!!
 WesternWildRose

Joined: 9/15/2008
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 3:23:02 PM
Yikes.. I am taking notes here....very interesting......

okay....so if he 'seems' to be a fairly normal...and relatively nice man...and not carrying an axe or any other weapons on the date.....

I ask: What's wrong with you? ---- I mean...you seem normal...so why are you not taken?

I think that is a valid question.....then he usually spills the beans and I get the full story about the broken relationships...the cheaters...the cheated on...blah blah blah...the issues with the dying parents, the horrible childhood...the Ex who wiped him out financially.... the whole thing just spills.

I tell you....some men are ready to talk if someone is willing to listen.
 mandanj

Joined: 11/1/2009
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 3:43:15 PM
Did you just admit men lie?! Wow, you learn something new every day...

 Fishalways

Joined: 9/22/2009
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 5:24:34 PM
It is very simple, bait and gas money.

Now that does imply you better like fishing and boating though.
 *lilacwine*

Joined: 6/26/2008
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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 5:30:39 PM
It's a perfectly reasonable question. If she is looking for a serious relationship, she dosn't want a guy who only wants a casual one. If she eventually wants to get married, she doesn't want a guy who is opposed to marriage. If he wants a woman to cook and clean his house - NEXT!
 Browngreeneyes

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Why a girl should never ask a guy this question ?
Posted: 11/5/2009 5:45:55 PM
Are you bored Manwich?

Are we going to see more threads of yours today?
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