| interested in man who is still having sex with ex
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:09:17 PM | | The man Ive been talking to ,says hes been having sex with his ex but in know way they want to get back together , Its because they havent met a new love. and that way they dont have to do with out sex , I dont know what to think. We haent met yet,do you think this is ok | |
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| interested in man who is still having sex with ex
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:20:15 PM | | He seems to be wanting sex first, someone he can love but, sex first. If you are okay with that him still having sex with her as he get's to know you then, you having nothing to worry about. But of course, if you know sex is his priority, then you may want to shy away from him. | |
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| interested in man who is still having sex with ex
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:26:09 PM | You have to ask.....would you expect a guy to want to go out with you if you told him you bang your neighbor ever night for the hell of it... Come on....your not that desperate... | |
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| interested in man who is still having sex with ex
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:29:49 PM | If you are interested in him as a boyfriend, I would not go for him......because once you become intimate you have opened the door for him to have his cake and eat it too...and then he can always throw it back at you....."I never lied to you baby, you knew from the start that me and my ex were still having sex...." | |
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| interested in man who is still having sex with ex
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:30:57 PM | | Honestly, he can tell you anything he wants and he knows you believe him otherwise you wouldn't be here posting this hoping for someone to tell you something that you already know. Throw him back into the pond and catch something, anything, else. | |
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| interested in man who is still having sex with ex
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:37:34 PM | | it depends on what you want. if you haven't gotten over YOUR ex, and if you end up feeling any attraction for this new guy, you could bang him without having to worry about getting in too deep, or him getting in too deep with you. a transitional lover, if you need to get any 'freedom sex' out of your system. | |
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| interested in man who is still having sex with ex
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:54:30 PM | | I was born at night but not last night. Some people just "can't do without" but they "don't want to get back together". What the hell does that mean? They are together if they're still having sex! If you're truly looking for "long term", this guy is not a good candidate. You know that yourself. | |
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| interested in man who is still having sex with ex
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:55:29 PM | Well, from what another forumite stated, this is your 3rd thread on the subject so give it a rest. Obviously, you appear needy to the man otherwise he wouldn't be feeding you that nonsense about having sex with the ex. How do you know that she is his ex? Cuz he told ya?
If you are posting on this subject again is because you need someone to tell you that it is okay to date him. Heck, go with him on one of his visits to the ex and sit in the living room while he is still proving to her how much she means to him. | |
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| interested in man who is still having sex with ex
Posted: 11/5/2009 5:21:57 PM | | I want to say sorry for the same post ,but when I posted yesterday ,I thought it was deleted by forum so wanted to reword it. And this one was put on twice , sorry. Thank you all so much for giving me your opinion , wow I HAVE A LOT TO LEARN . THANK YOU LOTS | |
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| interested in man who is still having sex with ex
Posted: 11/5/2009 6:27:39 PM | You know it's funny, but "sex with the Ex" sounds like the typical FWB relationship....
They just want to fcuk, and not have a relationship....
In my opinion only an idiot would get involved with anyone who is having sex anywhere else but with them.... | |
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| interested in man who is still having sex with ex
Posted: 11/5/2009 6:30:20 PM | Perhaps you should ask his "soon to be ex", if she's actually aware that he's calling her a "soon to be ex".
Even if the wife is aware of the plans for divorce, I still don't think I'd advise you to persue this guy. Entering into this situation just seems like you'd be inviting needless drama into your life.
that way they dont have to do with out sex So, what would happen if you start banging the husband?
Would the wife be willing to then do without sex? Or would she jealously want to keep banging the husband too? Would you be prepared to share if this turns out to be the case?
I think you'd find it much simpler to just find a single guy to date; Rather than some guy who's currently bangimng someone else. | |
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| interested in man who is still having sex with ex
Posted: 11/5/2009 6:33:57 PM | I think a lot would depend on how long they've been divorced. A few people I've known have done the same thing but not anyone I've dated - at least not that I know about. It does sometimes just end up being a FWB situation and so long as it stopped when we started dating, I'd be ok with it. Now if they were recently divorced, I wouldn't go anywhere near that. There's always a chance they could get back together. I would give him points for being honest anyways.
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| interested in man who is still having sex with ex
Posted: 11/5/2009 6:52:14 PM | | I don't understand what the problem is ? It's better than having sex with random people. Plus he's not hiding it, or doing it behind your back.... he's not in a relationship...It's perfectly normal I think. | |
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