| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 10:51:53 AM | So how is it that hot, successful, career-bound women like Halle Berry (ex w/Eric Benet) and Shania Twain (ex w/ Robert Mutt Lange) and most recently rumored is Fergie Ferguson (newly wed to Josh Duhamel) ..... still get cheated on by their husbands/bf's??
Any theories, principles, notion or light we could shed on this guys?? | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 10:56:55 AM | You might want to rephrase that. Hotwife around other circles is the complete opposite of what you are talking about here in the Cuckold Lifestyle, lmfaoooo.
It actually means that the woman or "Hotwife", screws around and her husband knows about it and he is cool with it.
Anyhoo, she may look like a million dollars but is reduced to chump change when a man does this because that is all she brings to the table. I have seen women that are "plain Janes" that have snagged gorgeous looking men as husbands while the pretty ones are the ones that fekked over. You do the math. | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 10:57:21 AM | | Probably because they married HOT men who get LOTS of attention from the opposite gender, and they go for theirs....... | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 11:10:26 AM | I dont' think because someone is all that and a bag of chips really matters, ugly couples cheat also.
I think it comes down to the cheater believing it is easier to mover on the greener pastures than fixing what is wrong with themselves and the relationship. Easier to keep bedding hopping than to actually work on the relationship | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 11:15:41 AM | Sometimes we forget that some of the hottest women (and men) in the world suffer from low self esteem, body dysmorphic disorder, etc. In other words, they don't see what we do. And, as in most cases, low self esteem is not attractive.
But on the other hand, maybe hot people just have more opportunities to cheat than ugly people. | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 11:17:06 AM | Wasn't Eric Benet said to be a man whore? Besides, that wouldn't be the first time Halle Berry had a marriage that ended in divorce.
Eric admitted to her that she had cheated on her with multiple women. I remember Halle's Oprah interview.
Some people are just dogs, it doesn't matter how hot you are, and how much of a good lover you are.
Some people gotta have their cake, and it eat, too. | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 11:25:19 AM | | You listed a bunch of celebrities. They seem to always be on a set making a film, or on a tour. How can anyone maintain a relationship when most of the time they are apart? Worse, those career paths seem to prize superficial appearance over anything deeper. No surprise they rarely work out. | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 11:38:50 AM | A hot woman will still be just a woman at her most basic level. Even if she is with a man, she may think that she is protected from being cheated on but, if the excitement of being with a hot woman has now worn off, they will find themselves in a normal relationship needing to communicate, share, stimulate each others interests etc... and if that does not occur...
I don't see this as just being a problem for the guys since, women will suffer as well and before we were to point the finger at the guys, I would ask the woman “What did you do/not do that contributed to this result”? I know that asking that makes them take a step back and feel very defensive but if a real answer is asked and looked for, they should be ready for the answer and not shoot the messenger. | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 11:39:32 AM | the question assumes that the status level of one spouse determines the motivations of the other. that's not how human beings work.
on a side note, celebs tend to be very isolated and lonely because people see the image and/or the money, not the real person. so they often make reckless relationship decisions because they're starved for connection. like jennifer lopez. or the zellweger/chesney freak show. | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 11:52:18 AM | "If you could eat filet mignon every night, you'd get sick of it too.."
That is exactly what Prince Charles did.. he went to the hotdog cart (Camilla) | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 11:54:32 AM | After you've been eating steak a long time,
those beans taste fine.
After you've been drinking champagne and Chevas Regal,
you're gonna settle for Boone's Farm wine.
The world is funny. People are strange.
Man is a creature of constant change, yeah,
After you've been eating steak a long time,
those beans taste fine. | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 11:55:05 AM | They picked men who cheat. Some men cheat, some don't.
The bigger question is, what is wrong with them that they pick these type of men? | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 12:03:16 PM | Thnx for the feedback!
I was using celebs as examples simply b/c those are stories out there which we hear about it. But this could very well apply anywhere. ... I mean, I've seen similar scenarios w/ non-celebs ... Fact is, we will probably only guess what goes on behind closed doors that elevated to a breakage in these relationships. ** And I am not sayin just cos it was alleged that the man cheated means the woman did not have any contribution in the fallout.
Maybe the underlying question is: Guys, is a hot, successful, career-bound woman not enough to keep you invested in a relationship??
P.S. .. I just had to LOL at the filet mignon and the prince charles - hotdog cart joke!!!!  | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 12:17:01 PM | If you constantly put your career and children, decorating the house, landscaping ect before your man/woman.
They will seek attention and gratification elsewhere sometimes.
Hot wife or husband isn't so hot when they aren't being attentive to you.
You feel irrelevant.
Then there are people who are just cheating pigs or need validation...
You got a lot of good ideas here... | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 12:21:36 PM |
Guys, is a hot, successful, career-bound woman not enough to keep you invested in a relationship??
Nope...after a while It gets old, no matter how beautiful or successful she is. That's why whole marriage/LTR stuff is nothing but crapola... | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 12:46:14 PM |
Some people are just dogs, it doesn't matter how hot you are, and how much of a good lover you are.
Some people gotta have their cake, and it eat, too.
Exactly. For some people, if there's more than one option, they will avail themselves of it...because it's there. | |
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| Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -?
Posted: 11/6/2009 12:48:48 PM |
Nope...after a while It gets old, no matter how beautiful or successful she is. That's why whole marriage/LTR stuff is nothing but crapola...
MonkeyFunker: Ok I get it. Some men (and women) just aren't looking for monogamy or committment of any sort. Fine. I can respect that too. For those types of relationships -- My take is: As long as BOTH ppl involved are full aware not to expect any of that from the get-go then perhaps cheating wouldn't be a problem. Perhaps try polyandry.
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