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Posted: 11/6/2009 6:15:50 PM | Hey everyone,
I am hoping some of you can help out with my profile. I have sent out quite a bit of e-mails (50+) and not had any replies. People are viewing my profile though, so I was wondering if I had something in there that was making people not reply.
I think the e-mails I send are decent, I don't think they are the reason I'm not getting replies. I usually have creative subjects and they are actually read, I have only seen one single "Unread deleted" out of all the mail I've sent. I also always see that they checked my profile after reading my mail, so I don't think the mail has been the issue.
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Posted: 11/6/2009 7:47:57 PM | You're from Tampa Florida, I'm gonna guess these women are all pretty damn gorgeous?
The men must be some pretty tough competition. So maybe it's a geographical disadvantage you have. I'm just stereotyping here though, sounds like you're a strong guy.
It doesn't look to bad to me. You sure you haven't gotten a single response? Maybe you need to change up your headline, make it something more attractive. Maybe a new picture too.
I've had "unread deleted", "read deleted" or "read" then ignored. Whatever. I just move on. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 8:16:30 PM | quatrequinze,
Tampa, FL is a nice place but I'm sure the women here are comparable to any other city.
Unfortunately I'm quite sure there hasn't been any responses yet. I should probably add some more pictures though, I'll take that into consideration. I'll come up with a new headline too, thanks!
I appreciate the reply. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 9:30:51 PM | | maybe mention what you are taking in school and what you are looking for in a woman... | |
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Posted: 11/7/2009 6:41:37 AM | js09,
Thank you! I'll add in both of those things.
Anyone else have any more suggestions? | |
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Posted: 11/7/2009 9:22:55 AM | It comes down to looks. Doesn't matter how good your profile is. It's based on attraction. If they like what they see they will read your profile. You have one pic taken by your right arm when it should be taken by your friend. I dont message people with one pic. Usually means its there best pic and best angel shot. They wanna see different sides seeing you a have a life so they can picture them selfs doing stuff with you. Get a pic taken playing basketball helping a old lady across the street doesnt matter, but not with your right arm. Some people dont find there soulmate until there in there late 40's so it takes time. If you wanna sell yourself more pics . I written my friends profile for him it was really good but he was complaining that he wasnt getting much messages because its about looks. But then after you win them over with your pics and profile you still have to win them over with messages. You cant message someone saying your hot or hows it going be creative when messaging someone. I keep it short when messaging someone keep there interest and ask them for coffee none of this getting to know eachother crap. You can do that for coffee.
Talk about traveling more about you.
Dont ask someone to message you its a given if there interested they will message you. Dont want to seem over anxious special with your top sentence saying I look forward to meeting you. Cause that is ment for any woman who messages you.
Last paragraph should be about the type of woman your looking for | |
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