| Where am I coming up short.
Posted: 11/7/2009 5:38:43 AM | So been on the market for a while now and not huge into the bar/dating scene. Not huge into the random encounter sloppy business either.
I am a kind, caring, compassionate, strong young man.
In my spare time I love to work out, spend time with friends hitting the bar, watching football, nerdy stuff, manly stuff etc.. I like hanging out with my brothers even though we razz each other.
I'm career oriented and happy with where I am in life now. I would like to see more of the world and want to find someone to share more of lifes amazing experiences with. Maybe even travel the world.
I think I'm a super nice guy, I respect all women as the queens they are and I want to someone who will let me be that special someone to them.
WHAT AM I MISSING FROM MY PROFILE TO CATCH THESE GIRLS?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!!!!!!!???????????!!!!!!!!
- Brown hair/Blue Eyes
- Confident and Goal Orientend
(New picture in profile)
That being said I think I'm an ok catch... but not sure how to sell myself at the bar/club etc.
Any advice is appreciated.
Any other attention is appreciated too. | |
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| Where am I coming up short.
Posted: 11/7/2009 7:45:44 AM |
WHAT AM I MISSING FROM MY PROFILE TO CATCH THESE GIRLS? Job number one for you is to get some really great photos of yourself. Your goal is for a woman to look at your picture and say to herself "That's someone I'd like to be with". | |
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| Where am I coming up short.
Posted: 11/7/2009 8:16:50 AM | You've only been here a week. It takes a while.
only post pics of you smiling, doing something, outside, and taken by someone else using a quality camera.
Think of a better opener to your profile and spice it up a bit. Right now it's bland. It's like, cheap vanilla ice cream bland.
Create a realistic first date idea.
Remove all your restrictions.
And really....new pics! | |
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| Where am I coming up short.
Posted: 11/9/2009 12:11:44 AM | meow you need to go outside with a friend, let go of the camera meow, and let them take pics of you instead meow.
First date: "I'm really open to anything fun."
Meow don't be lame. Every guy says this, meow. Actually plan out a date meow, one that sounds fun. Meow it doesn't mater if you ever do it, it meows that you can show meow that you can think of something creative.
(That's meow 9, btw) | |
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| Where am I coming up short.
Posted: 11/9/2009 9:57:31 AM |  lol. I'm sorry kiddo....You're problem is you're too nice. If you're too pudding sweet and totally respectful, women will simply have an enormous field day with you! That's why you get no results!....Find a happy medium between sweet and aloof (And yes you'll find it, it's in all of us) a little attitude, a lot of neutral replies, remain impervious to their beauty, tell the bear minimum about you to keep them intrigued and voila!!
The girls will say I'm wrong and jump up and down furious at my words but if they wanted a nice guy, you wouldn't have so much trouble right? | |
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| Where am I coming up short.
Posted: 11/9/2009 10:03:31 AM | | Well, that advice was for outside activities. I don't know what to advice for the site...It's even harder here. | |
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| Where am I coming up short.
Posted: 11/9/2009 10:15:40 AM | Yes, your pics have to go and be replaced with good ones. The ones you have now should be excised entirely.
I doubt that you have a Masters or PhD, so lose the Graduate Degree.
The idea of a profile isn't to give the facts - it's to sell you. Your profile is dull and pedestrian. Be funny or quirky or something to stand out. | |
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