| How do you let a guy know you are interested?
Posted: 11/7/2009 7:17:03 PM | | I am newly back in the dating game and want to know how to let a guy know i am interested in him. For example, after the 2nd or 3rd date and I am interested (ex: interested in a kiss), is there something i can do or say without scaring him away? lol, im having a hard time reading guys as to if they are interested and im afraid to make a fool of myself. help! | |
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| How do you let a guy know you are interested?
Posted: 11/7/2009 7:33:41 PM | Keep dating him. Let things work themselves out naturally. Personally if I didn't get a kiss on the second date, your done. For those that are have a problem with kissing on the first date, a hug is an acceptable subsitute. Trust me guys will have no problem with physical interaction. If I'm with a woman on a date and she is touching me just my hand for example I see that as a positive she's having a good time and is interested.
My point is you get into trouble when you start to put rules to dating or artificial hints to it. Just relax have a good time, nature will handle the rest.
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| How do you let a guy know you are interested?
Posted: 11/7/2009 7:34:59 PM | Well,you could always make him walk you to your door after the date and try and get a good night kiss that way.
Maybe theres a "make-out-point"in your area that you could get him to drive you to.
Putting your hand on his knee when your sitting next to him might help. | |
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| How do you let a guy know you are interested?
Posted: 11/7/2009 8:01:01 PM | I guess I must be pretty bold or something, if by the 3rd date he hasn't kissed me, I am going to be reaching up and kissing him. I am not talking about playing check the tonsils with tongues lol.
If he has gone out with you 3x showing a little affection shouldn't scare him if it does do you really want to go there. I mean to me it seems kind of pointless since this would show me some great imcompatibilities.
Guys are any harder to read than we are, | |
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| How do you let a guy know you are interested?
Posted: 11/7/2009 8:33:31 PM | | You know how to let a guy know you are interested, I know you do and you know you do. lol. Also why are you reading so much? Just be and like the poster below you said, keep dating the guy, things when you don't overthink much tends to have "natural" progression and will align easily, with not to much thought. | |
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| How do you let a guy know you are interested?
Posted: 11/7/2009 8:37:13 PM | You could appeal to his gentleman side and tell him the next time you are with him “we have been seeing each other for some time now and I must admit that I like you and want to kiss you but, I don't want to rush you if you're not ready”.
Of course, you should be ready for him to want to kiss you as well!! | |
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| How do you let a guy know you are interested?
Posted: 11/7/2009 10:12:24 PM | | body language says a lot, a simple touch of a shoulder, sit a little closer.. flirt a little more and if that does not work.. nothing wrong with you going all out and making the first move its been a few dates .. so its clear you guys have connected.. | |
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| How do you let a guy know you are interested?
Posted: 11/7/2009 10:48:30 PM | What she said ^^^
Also look at him right in the eyes.
Or
"I'm thinking is about time for a nice kiss"
As soon as he gets over the shock ....... you'll be all set for a smooch. | |
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| How do you let a guy know you are interested?
Posted: 11/8/2009 12:34:39 AM | didn't get a kiss on the first date!? lol that's weird.
it's normal for me that i get or give kisses on the first date 
it's the best way to break the ice.
well since he's being a pussssy about it just grab him and kiss him already.
you won't scare him away. he's going to want some more after you kiss him.
i mean c'mon if he's still going out with you after 2-3 dates it's pretty obvious that he is still interested. duh!  | |
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| How do you let a guy know you are interested?
Posted: 11/8/2009 3:24:43 AM | Next date, when he brings you home, invite him in for coffee and make sure the house is comfy and have some candles near by and those killer brownies.
Offer to whip up something at his house and rent a movie.
Most men have grills and like to show they can use them. You make the salad.
You won't make a fool of yourself.Go for it!!
If he has gone out with you 3x showing a little affection shouldn't scare him if it does do you really want to go there. I mean to me it seems kind of pointless since this would show me some great imcompatibilities.
That is right. | |
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| How do you let a guy know you are interested?
Posted: 11/8/2009 4:51:40 AM |
body language says a lot, a simple touch of a shoulder, sit a little closer.. flirt a little more and if that does not work.. nothing wrong with you going all out and making the first move its been a few dates .. so its clear you guys have connected
you got me on sholder and coming closer | |
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| How do you let a guy know you are interested?
Posted: 11/8/2009 5:47:07 AM | By the mere fact that you continue to go out on dates with him, you are telling him that you are interested.
If you've been on two or three dates and he hasn't tried to kissed you yet I'd advise you to drop him for a man who isn't afraid to kiss you. | |
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