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 e47
Joined: 7/27/2006
Msg: 1
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I am very attracted to this girl,I have known for 3 yrs..Last weekend we hooked up and did the naughty.....I always said I would never do this...... because it was my friends wife.....We have both been attracted to each other for yrs and the L word was definatly mentioned....Do I break up the marriage, or let it be?....(they both hate each other)
 colt8301
Joined: 10/25/2006
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told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:39:34 PM
I am very attracted to this girl,I have known for 3 yrs..Last weekend we hooked up and did the naughty.....I always said I would never do this...... because it was my friends wife.....We have both been attracted to each other for yrs and the L word was definatly mentioned....Do I break up the marriage, or let it be?....(they both hate each other)


I just find it funny that you are actually justifying, why you slept with your boys wife, this is why I keep my women estranged from friends period.
 Snotsure
Joined: 9/14/2009
Msg: 3
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:41:17 PM
Oh christ... I better get a raincoat before the shitstorm happens...

Me thinks this could be a bumpy ride.

OT

You're a tool.
 Chee Chee Rod
Joined: 10/6/2009
Msg: 4
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:44:26 PM
Hmmmm, I detect a troll....or maybe just a true example of a dumb azz.
 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 5
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told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:46:05 PM
You don't break up the marriage, you are just a player in the process. They break it up. You are just the dishonorable, once-and-actually-never friend of the guy who's been wronged.
Next time, write your promise to yourself on a metal plaque, and have it hot riveted across your genitalia, since that's apparently the only way to make you obey yourself. Just my humble, and extremely anti-accepting excuses from cheaters view on it all.
 e47
Joined: 7/27/2006
Msg: 6
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:49:37 PM
Did I mention SHE instagated it??
 carolann0308
Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 7
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told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:49:51 PM
Do you really want a woman that would cheat on her husband and father of her children? Do you really want a woman that would rather f*ck you than file for divorce if she is really so miserable? Do you really consider her husband your Friend?
 yew4ic
Joined: 6/22/2009
Msg: 8
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:50:21 PM
colt [[[[I just find it funny that you are actually justifying, why you slept with your boys wife, this is why I keep my women estranged from friends period.]]]]

WHOA...this response caught my attention, more than what the OP said. Do you keep her locked in the closet?
 **~renegadeoutlaw~**
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 9
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:51:41 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Whoa!!!! Amen to that Igorfrankenstein! (see message 5)

Good God, OP. You are not in highschool anymore......what kind of "friend" are you anyway???? Never, ever bed a friends spouse or significant other. - not a good deal.

In some ways you remind me of my ex.......he SAID she was a FRIEND! He slept with her anyway......they got into a relationship.......very very long story short.........they darkened the doorstep of Divorce Court! - so what makes you think if you got together with her......after her marriage broke up that she would stay with you..........highly unlikely.

Once a cheater always a cheater.
 SassySky
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 10
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:51:56 PM
Wow you are a friend I would hate to see what you would do someone that you consider an enemy...

I think you both are way low.. Her for sleeping with her husbands so called friend, mentioning the L word without it being her husband..
You for being sleeping with your friends wife..

You really think you are in love.. Yeah right.
Remember pal if she will do it with you she will do it with a nother

Oh yeah you are just as guilty so maybe you deserve each other..IMO..

edit

Did I mention SHE instagated it??

who really cares talk about a cop out...
 Perigee123
Joined: 7/14/2009
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told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:52:58 PM
..And NOW, the Really great thing:

The very next time they get in a drag-out fight, she's gonna say, "Oh, and I farked your friend Wally!"

I hope you haven't made any solid Superbowl plans with him yet...
 Shamefullpride
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 12
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:54:30 PM
Hmmmm, I detect a troll....or maybe just a true example of a dumb azz.


I love you, will you marry me?

I so want to have your babies right now.


(BTW , how did her husband taste ?)

My man!
 **~renegadeoutlaw~**
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 13
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 1:56:32 PM

Did I mention SHE instagated it??



Oh.....pulleeezzzzzzz!!!!!!! You think that just makes it okay???????

so if she instigated it, you went for it......you didn't say no or try to stop her.......well........you are still just as bad as her.......remember.........it takes 2 to tango and do the horizontal mambo!

So if you think you are off the hook............NOT!!!!!
 Gone To The Beach 09
Joined: 4/5/2008
Msg: 14
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:02:17 PM
[ Did I mention SHE instagated it?? ]

So let me be clear about this.. she didn't RAPE you ?

Reminds me of a Ricky Lake Show, where a couple who were in their 20's were discussing that the had sex with each other. The man said he didn't know how that happened.

I learned that day that SOME men in relationships, just happen to FALL IN. Ye, that's how it mush have happened!

And your stale pretzel logic, and silly justifications of pass the buck, holds about as much uranium as Casper the Ghost became Mary Poppins, and the next occupant of the White House.
 swmiller58
Joined: 11/16/2009
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told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:04:38 PM
That is low!!

You are not a friend to her husband and she is not a wife! You are both *&%^$#. Actually you two deserve each other because you would probably marry and then cheat against the other!

I can't even express what I am thinking about you and her.
 Shamefullpride
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 16
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:06:24 PM

Reminds me of a Ricky Lake Show, where a couple who were in their 20's were discussing that the had sex with each other. The man said he didn't know how that happened.




























You watch the Ricky Lake show.....
 e47
Joined: 7/27/2006
Msg: 17
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:07:07 PM
Thanks for the beating everyone..I cant undo what has happened(wish I could)...Be assured it will never happen again
 Gina-Gina74
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 18
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:08:00 PM
Aside from everything else here, lets just say this, if she cheated on her husband, she will cheat on you.
 hereshecomesagain
Joined: 11/13/2009
Msg: 19
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:08:40 PM
when we say we will never do something, it's because we are *this* close to doing it.

You need to separate yourself from the situation, the marriage will end, but it needs to end without your involvement.
 ~vhdc~
Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 20
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told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:11:41 PM
Let me channel my kinder self...YUCK. Really? You were the best she could come up with?
 newberrys
Joined: 9/4/2007
Msg: 21
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told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:16:24 PM
what was the question again? oh ya "do i break up the marriage?" get over yourself fast buuud. you arn't breaking up anything, the so called marriage is gone. you said they hate each other. she's f'in you ONLY to screw her hubby's mind ,when you tell him.... one big , sick game....
 **~renegadeoutlaw~**
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 22
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:16:56 PM

Thanks for the beating everyone..I cant undo what has happened(wish I could)...Be assured it will never happen again


OP, you are probably a "newbie" here on the forums as I don't see any other postings from you. I will be the first to tell you that candy, hearts, and flowers don't fly here on the forums.

You banged your friends wife........didn't sound to me like you felt too bad about it in your first posts. You should have known that putting yourself out here like that you would receive some adverse responses. I hate to say this, but you are getting what you deserve.

Hopefully any woman on here will sit up and take note of what type of man you are and run like hell.

Leave your friend and his wife alone.......if their marriage breaks up, it's due to them....they don't need any further help from you in that department......although yes, you certainly did your part.



 ZenBeth
Joined: 2/23/2009
Msg: 23
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:19:16 PM
Friend? You dont know the meaning of the word.

She instigated it? You are NO friend much less a REAL man, since a friend and a real man would have chewed her out and reminded HER she is married!!!

Good god I hope any woman who would be interested in you would have someone tell her what you are REALLY like.

Ever think that you might not be the first slime ball she has cheated with?

Dare you to tell her husband what his friend did to his wife.

~Beth~
 unique1011
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 24
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:20:27 PM
You are forgiven cause you guys have been attracted to each other and more importanly "L" words were definately mentioned LOL what a joke!!!
 Shamefullpride
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 25
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 2:21:32 PM

Thanks for the beating everyone..


Wow, if your going to whine about a few honest replies calling them a beating, your going to scream like a little girl when your"friend" aka her husband gives you one!
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