| | What is the magic of cumming inside?Page 1 of 10 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10) | I looked through a lot of old posts and found one on this but is was geared more toward ladies only. I am looking for both feedback.
So what is so awesome about coming inside a woman?
I seriously do not get it?
I personally, do not like to deal with the aftermath and mess it leaves as well as the smell. I like to smell like me and me only. I have not let a guy go off inside me since my first boyfriend. Wish I had known better and told him to stuff it back then. I was on BC at the time but was still a dumb 19-21 age range.
I obviously let them go off since a condom is involved. But you get the complaint(which I say is BS) that it can't really be felt.
I have a had a couple guys just beg me to let them do it. Well then we're looking at a huge turn off there(begging) so it was for sure not going to happen.
Unless I am looking to actually have a baby, then I want no part of it. But I would just like a better understanding of it.
Ladies: If you like it, why? What does it do for you?
Men: Again, if you like it, what is the big attraction? What does it do for you?
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| What is the magic of cumming inside?
Posted: 11/28/2009 5:24:50 PM | I'm going to assume this is some of your self-proclaimed warped humor.
Here's an answer that may or may not be warped:
Try women. You can count on them smelling at least somewhat like you. Though if you do it right, there might still be a mess. And whenever sex is involved, there's always an aftermath. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 5:36:48 PM | D:
I'm afraid to release inside a woman...I feel like I have super swimmers that will destroy any form of BC pill. Plus, I'd rather use a condom...at least until I'm settled down/decide to have kids. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 5:40:09 PM | Obviously I'm not a guy so it's just my guess, but without a condom they can feel the wetness and heat from your vagina on their penis skin, and I think the texture of the vagina rubs on them too but the condom makes it feel too smooth instead of the way it really feels inside. Guys, help me out. Am I close?
I like to feel the warm cum squirting out and spreading warmth inside. 
But yeah when the fluids mix together it does smell worse and drips down your legs, but it's ok to me. I guess being in my 50's I'm just used to it since I never used condoms until not that long ago. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 5:59:16 PM |
So what is so awesome about coming inside a woman?
Good luck competing with a few billion years of evolution telling us "this = awesome". | |
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| What is the magic of cumming inside?
Posted: 11/28/2009 6:03:52 PM | I can't tell you why it so good, but it just is. It just all around FEELS better. Although, I agree the mess isn't cool. But, it is a price I'm willing to pay.  | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 6:33:23 PM | the mess is the best
when fully loaded
firing away
like machine guns do
inside outside i dont care
i like it best when it gets in your hair
i lke it too when its on your chest
i like it best when it runs down your legs
what ever i do i just love to goo
all over you!!!
but unloading inside
is a wonderful surprise
locked in two
just me and you
together we climax
together we relax
then you clean up..lol
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Posted: 11/28/2009 6:39:18 PM | OP -- First off...anyone that thinks sex should be "clean" is only fooling themselves, and CLEARLY doing it wrong.
Sex is messy. The end.
Now as for cumming inside someone...there's no magic answer to the magic question. Some just enjoy the feeling. I've been bareback for the last 10+ years and there's no comparison to sensation. Orgasm is NOT always orgasm. It feels different cumming in a rubber than it does cumming inside sans sheath.
The Grade 5 answer is - it feels better.
I tend not to overthink ridiculous things that serve no point. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 6:53:41 PM | [/Men: Again, if you like it, what is the big attraction? What does it do for you?]
It would not make any difference to me. I do it because she told me sex is not complete without feeling your warm juice. She also said it gives her great sensation. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 7:04:42 PM |
Ladies: If you like it, why? What does it do for you?
It is a warm pulsating feeling that just feels like the icing on the cake to make me cum again. It gives me the feeling of completion.
I personally, do not like to deal with the aftermath and mess it leaves as well as the smell
As others have said, how are you having sex without an aftermath. Both men and women produce juices. Sex is just plain messy.
How are you gonna have neat sex? | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 7:51:10 PM | I don't know how to respond to this other then the fact that it's a turn on.
Some like doggie style
Some like roleplay
Some want chubby
Some like whips
etc etc
And some just want to blow their wad in you. It's something that gives them a good feeling.
It's like trying to explain why you like ice cream. Because it tastes good. Why does it taste good? Because it tastes good.
edit:
How are you gonna have neat sex?
Well both parties could just plain suck, and not in the "I'm going to use my tongue in that oh-so-pleasurable way" suck. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 7:59:38 PM | - so she can phone me later and tell me she can feel my seed inside her still while she is at work.
- she may not want me to ejaculate on her face. ( even though ide lick it off)
-as above only her breasts. Feet? inside her high heels? ;) that way she can feel my love when she walks.
-And because my experience is if you can have orgasm at the same time its very powerful when you cum inside her. Its what its all about people..... | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 8:03:28 PM | I agree. Men begging is definitely not an attractive thing most of the time. In certain situations it's totally delicious. Begging to cum inside isn't necessarily one of them.
As for what the attraction is... you either know it, or you don't. Nothing anyone says will convince you to like it or want it.
I have always enjoyed it, from the very beginning. How he feels inside me. The scent of us heavy on the air around us. The sensations of my body opening and drawing him deeper into me. What it feels like when he cums. The scent of his body on mine afterwards... a sweet reminder of what happened. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 8:06:27 PM |
I have always enjoyed it, from the very beginning. How he feels inside me. The scent of us heavy on the air around us. The sensations of my body opening and drawing him deeper into me. What it feels like when he cums. The scent of his body on mine afterwards... a sweet reminder of what happened.
Couldn't have said it any better myself.  | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 8:13:10 PM | Why does this bother you? You push the usage of condoms so this should not be an issue to you. Just scrub it and go.
Just saying | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 8:38:05 PM | everything No1baby said.....
and......sometimes.....if he's in the right position....when he ejaculates.....
it hits my Aspot just right......and sends me right over the edge again | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 8:41:27 PM |
I tend not to overthink ridiculous things that serve no point.
And yet you always have something to say and make sure to get your jab in there dontcha???
Anyway, yes I know sex is messy and I will let cum anywhere else. The aftermath I was talking and trying to be polite was the all the drippings and the day after grossness/smell. I prefer to stay fresh.
It was just honestly a curious question.
To the man who wrote or posted the poem...PERFECT. Very well put.
And I was curious because it something I would sway my mind on. Given I was in a LTR It's just been 3.5 yrs since that has happened and I really was not even dating up until this year. So the men I have encountered have all just been bananas about it. Had not experienced that before.
Yeah I know I said my first BF did all the time and I should have told him to shove it. That was more of just a bad experience of a relationship on my part. Sometimes selfish people will really get to a person. I ain't just talkin sex there. We were young blah blah.
My last BF never did this, even me being on Birth Control, and so I had just gotten used to it.
I am not going to bother to defend my sexual experiences. I know the truths. I don't need your judgments.
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Posted: 11/28/2009 8:56:25 PM | Warped - it's possible that your bad experiences with your first BF are coloring/clouding your judgement regarding this issue. There are things exes of mine have done that become *sensitive* spots in future relationships.
I don't like condoms because I find I tend to have that left-over rubber smell for days afterwards.
Taking a shower right after sex without a condom will help reduce the after-sex smell... at least that's what I find.
If you're used to doing things one way.. it's hard to change to something new. I was with my ex husband for 10 years. That's nearly 10 yrs of condom-free sex. When I became single I went out and bought condoms and used them. Makes me soooo glad that I'm in a relationship now where it's not necessary! | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 9:18:09 PM | Not a guy, but I've had it explained to me by a couple, at least their own thoughts on it. Basically it's a way to show acceptance of them, proof you want/desire them. Even if you are on BC, it's like a demonstration of your willingness to let them inside in that most intimate way, no barriers between, skin on skin. And even the slight risk of pregnancy can be a huge turn on for some people - perhaps more in a relationship rather than a casual encounter... lol.
And hell yes, feeling him cum buried inside is HOT. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 9:21:33 PM | no_1_bby
Good point. I am pretty damn open in the bedroom and sex has only gotten better and better with age.
I did have the most awesome anal experience and my body had never quivered quite like that before. Especially when his load was blown. So I guess I can see what's up with it. I just had not put that together before.
I never stopped to think that I was holding some issue on it.
I always say I never have any regrets the cards I was dealt in life as they have made me who I am today. In my adulthood anyway.
But I still let that buggar get to me. We did the whole friends thing and on Facebook. But I finally realized about a month ago, that even though it was not often, whenever he posted to my page it was always some BS disrespect and ultimately just to get some jabs in on me. I had friends making comments and torch mobs forming since they could see the posts.
I decided I had enough. He is/was never a friend and I decided why bother? He resents me for god only knows what and that is not my damage. I was not a perfect gf, and I was only 19-21 so it was all a part of growing. There is only one other man that was in my life to ever make me feel so worthless and useless as a person.
Yeah, I deleted him but it was still kind of fresh on my mind.
I have never freaked out on anyone who wanted to do this(in the vagina), just declined. So anyway, movin on and movin up. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2009 9:28:37 PM |
Warped - it's possible that your bad experiences with your first BF are coloring/clouding your judgement regarding this issue. There are things exes of mine have done that become *sensitive* spots in future relationships.
SORRY, thats a concept that can't be allowed...
Time after time, women have posted that "past lovers shouldn't matter" or variations on that theme...
Now you're posting that past lovers can apparently matter... Oh look, they can change how a woman feels about a particular sex act..... Gee, who would have thought.....
If you're used to doing things one way.. it's hard to change to something new.
Uh huh.... and those "things one way" they wouldn't be sex with a past partner would they? That shouldn't affect the present relationship....?
Afterall, "the only thing that matters is the person you're with now" right?????
Uh huh.... | |
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