| Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted: 7/14/2005 12:59:00 AM | I got an idea for a thread from another one that talked about breast size. I didn't see anyone mention this so I wanted to find out.
The thing I would like to know is do ladies mind if we as men look at your breasts when you wear clothing that exposes them moreso?
When we are across the room and don't have the opportunity to actually talk to you. Or even after we meet you when is it ok with you to actually look at them without incuring disapproval through facial gestures or similar?
Do you mind if we look at your breasts and appreciate them for their beauty or do you get self conscious and frown upon that entirely?
At what point can we safely look (not stare) at your breasts and have it be ok?
What puzzles me is when women wear tops that enhance their cleavage or expose them moreso then normal, you look at them because they are so darn obvious and you get the "how dare you, you heathen" look or attitude from the girl. This behavior is one of the most puzzling I have ever encountered. Its like the notice me, but then again dont!
If mens penis were 3 feet higher on their body and we wore shirts that exposed it the way some women wear their tops, you would be looking at that area too I would think! lol | |
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| Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted: 7/14/2005 1:03:53 AM | i love it when a man can't help but look at my breasts...as long as he makes an effort to look in my eyes as well. 
and yes, if a mans penis were slightly higher and exposed a little, i would be looking too! lol | |
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| Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted: 7/14/2005 2:44:02 AM | | You don't hear me complaining. I find it completely acceptible as long as you take turns looking at my face once in a blue moon. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2005 2:48:01 AM | Here I’ve been all this time trying not to look thinking women didn’t like it. Straining to get a glimpse as I was blinking or looking away…Dropping things just to get to look down. Geesh, now I am just going to have a good look, but will heed Tiffi’s advice and look her in the eyes too.
Off topic. IMHO Tiffi could definately be a Canadian. | |
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| Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted: 7/14/2005 3:32:16 AM | do ladies mind if we as men look at your breasts when you wear clothing that exposes them moreso?
If a woman is wearing clothing that is revealing I believe that the point is to be looked at.
When we are across the room and don't have the opportunity to actually talk to you. Or even after we meet you when is it ok with you to actually look at them without incuring disapproval through facial gestures or similar?
When speaking to a person, however, eye contact is important.
Do you mind if we look at your breasts and appreciate them for their beauty or do you get self conscious and frown upon that entirely?
Go ahead and look. Commenting on their beauty may not be a good idea unless you know the person though.
At what point can we safely look (not stare) at your breasts and have it be ok?
Look from a distance, or when you know the person well. It's not ok to focus on them during a conversation.
What puzzles me is when women wear tops that enhance their cleavage or expose them moreso then normal, you look at them because they are so darn obvious and you get the "how dare you, you heathen" look or attitude from the girl. This behavior is one of the most puzzling I have ever encountered. Its like the notice me, but then again dont!
Look ... don't stare.
If mens penis were 3 feet higher on their body and we wore shirts that exposed it the way some women wear their tops, you would be looking at that area too I would think! lol
Yeah, I'd look .... I wouldn't stare. | |
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| Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted: 7/14/2005 3:39:26 AM | | To be honest, I think it is very flattering when I catch a man looking at my chest (I speak as a woman who really doesn't have a huge chest LOL). | |
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Posted: 7/14/2005 4:11:36 AM | | Oh man, sorry gals but, I have a hadr time not looking at women who reveal a little bit more than normal. I love tits, althought I love the beauty in the eyes, I gotta say if there showin I'ma lookin. I try not to stare but sometimes I find it hard to keep eye contact. Hell I even catch myself and think whoa get them eyes back up there. | |
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| Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted: 7/14/2005 5:05:27 AM | I'm not a woman, but I'd have to guess that they appreciate this sort of attention when it is TASTEFUL, not gawking from a total stranger. I don't know many women, with an above average IQ at least, that want to be noticed for their breasts first or only. Sure we all want to be noticed and physically appreciated, but I think we'd all rather others see us as we see ourselves, not as a body part.
Just remember guys, a gentleman still 'looks', but has enough tact to be subtle about it  | |
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| Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted: 7/14/2005 5:08:59 AM | I will look at them and when I'm looking into thier eyes when talking I'll reach out and fondle them..
Sure I get slapped a lot but at least I'm showing them the respect of not looking at thier face | |
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| Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted: 7/14/2005 6:52:15 AM | | if you can find my breasts without a magnifying glass.you are more than welcome to look at them..........lol | |
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Posted: 7/14/2005 7:11:19 AM | | Its amazing how beautiful a womans breats can really be and so many many shapes.....Im hoplessly hypnotized....oh and your eyes are very pretty also..... god i love a cold room dont you ? | |
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Posted: 7/14/2005 7:25:56 AM | I think Jerry Seinfeld said it well...
"Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun. You don't stare at it. It's too risky. You get a sense of it and then you look away."
Then later on, you can bring up the image back up, in all of its glory. What is it about breasts that absolutely drive us men crazy? Things of beauty, they are. | |
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| Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted: 7/14/2005 7:48:35 AM | | yea, I don't like huge breasts...but ones that fit the body...i LOVE a nice butt tho...gotta be a fatty | |
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Posted: 7/14/2005 7:59:10 AM | I dont think breasts are overrated, they are a wonderful thing. And lovely big real ones are the best!!!
I do try to keep both eye contact and breast contact in equal measure, definitely dont want to be rude lol. Oh and if they turn round I might have a slight peek of their ass too  | |
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| Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted: 7/14/2005 8:06:22 AM |
If a woman is wearing clothing that is revealing I believe that the point is to be looked at.
I totally agree but it's not always the case. Some women do wear revealing clothing but really only want guys who they like to look at their breasts. If for example a man that is ugly by their standards look at their breasts, they get all flustered and will call the man a perv. But come along a hunk that just stares at their breasts for an hour, no problem at... Double standards should not apply in that case. You show them off, don't be pissed if people are staring | |
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| Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted: 7/14/2005 8:13:12 AM | | if im showing some clevage..then duh yea i want them looked at...but dont oogle over em...and told stare at em while telling me i have beautiful green eyes...they are blue ;)...yes look at them....but dont make it so obvious...and look at my eyes once in awhile too :) | |
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