| | Is she flirting?Page 1 of 2 (1, 2) | | There is this one girl in my class who did the weirdest thing imaginable. She sat down next to me, turned around to face, took off one boot and proceeded to use that foot to kick my chair, the edge of my seat, for 20 minutes until I told her to stop. Either she is terribly rude or that was the worst flirting I have ever encountered, or she is just rudest person alive. | |
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| Is she flirting?
Posted: 2/19/2010 3:47:10 AM | I'm so torn. I want to hope she's flirting because I'd like to think very few adults are that immature... But, I'd also like to hope she isn't flirting because that just makes the schoolyard hair pulling as real as adults as it was back then.
When she apologized (She did apologize when you told her to stop, right?) did she say it with sarcasm and give an excuse like, "I'm nervous/twitchy," or did did she smile?
If she apologized with a smile, she was flirting.
If she rolled her eyes or was rude in her apology she's just a very rude and annoying person! | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 3:57:17 AM | | She said sorry. Not in a rude way, just seemed surprised. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 4:03:03 AM | Surprised? That's just sad.
Then my guess is either flirting or she was a bored person and when she got bored she forgot how rude she was.
I'm leaning toward the bored/rude idea. She's rude no matter what, anyway, but it sounds like she was just oblivious, selfish and bored. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 4:14:58 AM | | Not surprised in the sense, oh I didn't know what I was doing. She seemed surprised that I asked her to stop, it was weird. She isn't a rude person normally, but she has been invading my comfort zone bit by bit. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 4:45:39 AM | Ok...here's what you do.
If you're attracted to her, ask her out.
She'll either accept...then you'll know if she's awkwardly flirting OR
She's shoot you down and most likely stop invading your space shortly thereafter. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 7:38:44 AM | OP- is she hot?
trust me- if a girl is not attracted to you...most will not want to draw your attention to her.
so why did you not ask this girl out? or for her number? | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 7:49:22 AM | | she did it to get your attention, ie. she's interested, not flirting, but showing interest. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 7:55:22 AM | Sounds like she's showing interest in a shy way.
Why don't you take a shoe off and play footsie next time? | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 7:59:00 AM | Perhaps instead of kicking your chair, she should have taken off her shoe and put her foot in your crotch.
Oh wait. Only I can pull that off, without getting threatened for sexual harrassment.
Plus, you were in a class. A no-no indeed.
I'm trying to get the girl in trouble. Shame on my way of thinking. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 8:48:51 AM | | Was she really kicking your chair or lightly tapping it or something in between? Was this non-stop for 20 minutes or was it on and off? | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 10:30:10 AM | It's too bad there aren't more woman answering this question with a bit of honesty, perhaps.
Men, for example, are known to do handstands, do back flips off the local diving board, and a lot of other odd things to get someone's attention. If they actually have someone in mind, they might stand two feet away from that woman and do a back flip. They have no clue what else to do.
A lot of women do NOT like the standard concepts of flirting from a feminine point of view. They even cop an attitude about it, such as, "well, I''ll be damned if I'm going to act all frail and fluttery and go 'oooh' and "ahhhh' whenever some cute guy bangs out a fart."
So, these woman don't know how to flirt with perfume and little fluttery flashes of skin and batting their delicate eyelids at you.
Long story short: Yes, this woman was flirting with you ... or maybe she was flirting with someone else across the room and using you for that ... but she was flirting one way or another. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 10:58:33 AM | You are the person who wrote a thread about having trouble connecting with people?!
Maybe she has figured this out (about you) from personal observation, and is trying to get your attention knowing you have trouble connecting??
Be brave and ask her out, remember to wear shin guards!!  | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 11:15:16 AM | Are you sure her foot wasn't alseep?maybe she was trying to wake it up? Maybe she was seizuring? I don't know if she was flirting, but if so can you imagine sex with her? Creepy, weird. Wow.LOL
I don't think thats's flirting. I think thats more like I need medication. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 11:35:31 AM | | Flirting? She was masturbating. You need to get out more. I bet she went out for a smoke when it was over. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 12:34:59 PM | If you ask her out, be prepared to be kicked under the table all night.
I have a friend who once was approached by a girl who kicked hm in the shin. He asked her why the hell she did it and she said it was because she liked him. They actually dated, but not surprisingly, it didn't last. Someone who doesn't have a basic understanding of apropriate communication isn't really a good choice for long term. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 1:00:08 PM | she is a weirdo
she has to learn flirt in a nice way | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 1:26:44 PM | | I dunno why this thread just instills some anger in me. I really think you have zero clue when it comes to women. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 2:01:47 PM | | You could always take your shoe off and hit her in the head with it. When she asks what you're doing you say "flirting, wanna go out?" | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 2:16:16 PM | | I don't think she's either flirting or being deliberately rude. I think she's high as a kite, probably on something hallucinogenic. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 4:37:41 PM | | she was more of a nudging the side of the sitting part of the chair, for a while. Not in a violent way, but enough to be mildly annoying. | |
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| Is she flirting?
Posted: 2/20/2010 11:26:08 PM | I have had the same type of experience before and its annoying.
I was lying face planted on my desk during a physics lecture. An acquaintance of the female persuasion then sat next to me fairly close to me and face planted herself on MY desk. Our desks were stuck together, i didn't understand why she planted herself on mine.
Then proceeded to stick her feet to mine. At first I simply thought she mistook the leg of the desk, and that she would promptly withdraw her feet after realizing her mistake. She did after a good 10 minutes... When you're lying face planted in a lecture with your arms wrapped around your head and you hear someone's else breathing and not your own and feel someone's else body heat. 10 minutes is ridiculously long. How could she not realize how close she was to me or that her feet was using my feet as a support, i dont know.
That semester as i first started to know her, she was awfully weird. Then she became alright when she found herself more steady friends.
During that semester though, she left me confused on the spot several times. Once, she stood outside the door of the lecture room window for half the class. I didnt understand the notion of skipping class if youre going to wait outside of the room half the time. I being the only she knew in the room. She would smile and bat one eye through the window. Then as the class mid break would kick in, id go out and have a chat with her. Id ask her why she skipped class and she would answer back that she was waiting for me so that she could ask if the teacher was giving the exam results back. Id answer, and then poof she was gone.
Another time, she said she had a hard time with a math assignment and she'd be at school on the weekend to work on it. I answered her id be at school anyways and if she was there, i would help. That weekend, she was a no-show. The following week, she says the same thing, and i answer her the same thing as before. I get in at school early during the weekend, then had something to do during the afternoon elsewhere. Came back at night at school, and met her on the way out. She looked uber pissed, and talked down to me. She became awfully cold to me afterwards.To me , it made no freaking sense.
In hindsight, i should have asked her motives instead of assuming them and not say anything. I still am not sure. The rest of those years were filled with interchanging signs of interest from her part and of total indifference. Because of it, i went weird on her trying to guess what she thought of me. For some absurd reason, i was trying to catch those moments back where she would smile and bat one eye. She was very pretty, so it was very endearing.
Now that im a bit wiser, i say just talk. Guessing makes thing needlessly complicated. | |
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Posted: 2/21/2010 12:42:01 AM | | Tread carefully in your perceptions of flirting. My ex's son was convinced that a check-out girl at the grocery store was flirting with him - something to do with what she did with her mouth. None of it was based in reality. About a year later he was diagnosed with bipolar manic/depression. What you have described is a woman basically acting insane. Sits next to you, faces you and kicks your chair with an unbooted foot for 20 minutes. Consider that things are appearing to you as they really are not happening. If you continue to have these weird experiences with other people, visit the school psychologist. | |
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Posted: 2/21/2010 1:50:08 PM | | so based on all the responses, she may or may not be flirting, or I may or may not be crazy. I am just going to talk to her. | |
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