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 Cicciolina
Joined: 7/4/2009
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I have been corresponding with this older man and he seems great in every way. I am 39 and he is 53.
I never dating anyone that age or had sex with someone older. Is it different.... Do older men have older looking penis's???
 Canadian Ink
Joined: 7/12/2009
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How is sex with an older man?
Posted: 3/9/2010 11:39:31 AM
You sure you're 39? Just asking because "do older men have older looking penises?" is a question I'd expect from someone MUCH younger. As well, all you've been doing so far is corresponding with a guy over e-mail. Why is sex the first thing on your mind already? Are you planning on meeting and doing the deed right off the bat? Meet the guy in person and see if you have a connection. Then decide how far you're willing to go.
 FinkyIsMyName
Joined: 3/5/2010
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Posted: 3/9/2010 11:48:46 AM
I have not had sex with every "older man" in the world, so I'm pretty sure you can't generally say "it's all good" or "it's all bad." Much depends on the individual.

If you're almost 40 and this man's 53, that's not really that much of "an older man" to you. Now, if you were, say, 25, that might be different.

As far as whether his man-bits look "older," what are you worried about, wrinkles? They ALL have wrinkles, in various degrees. (All the ones I've been privileged to see, anyway.)

The only way it MIGHT look different to you may be more grey in the pubes. Nothing to fear.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 3/9/2010 11:54:30 AM
I saw pictures yesterday of a 69 yo man... and if I hadn't checked the age I'd have sworn he was closer to 45 then 70!!!

Your question does smack of immaturity... honestly. Think about it. What do YOU think the answer to your question is? Think about in comparison to your own body. Do your breasts look like a 26 yo's??? I bet they don't. I bet your ass doesn't either.

All of us age. Everyone of us. Including all of our bits and bobs.
 Cape Sunshine
Joined: 8/11/2009
Msg: 5
How is sex with an older man?
Posted: 3/9/2010 12:00:22 PM

Do older men have older looking penis's???



I heard that they're very wrinkly... Lots of gray hair.. Kind of scary!!
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 6
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Posted: 3/9/2010 12:06:36 PM
Is not so much how a penis looks like, but how a penis is used. I believe that with each day I get wiser and better in understanding how to please my woman. So I would say that age is and advantage.
 Nina37
Joined: 3/5/2010
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Posted: 3/9/2010 12:13:06 PM
Older men are great lovers. They have the experience and the know how. I would much prefer and older man sexually as compared to a young buck who doesn't know what he's doing. I am too old to train someone.
 verityone
Joined: 10/23/2008
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Posted: 3/9/2010 12:17:15 PM

I never dating anyone that age or had sex with someone older. Is it different.... Do older men have older looking penis's???

It's probably commensurate to how a woman's muffin looks at that age.

Ask your mom how well her muffin is preserved, and you'll probably get a rough estimate as to what to expect.
Or maybe she'll just tell you what to expect about how a man's penis degrades in appearance...... and spare you the news about your muffin...

 maximusminimus
Joined: 2/27/2010
Msg: 9
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Posted: 3/9/2010 12:17:46 PM
Do you know about the internet? It's a big global network of computers you can use from home. You can use a web browser to look at internet sites. Some of those sites have pictures of naked men. I bet if you looked around you could find some pictures of 53-year-old men and see for yourself. While you're at it, you might want to look at some 39-year-old women, and see if you can find one who resembles yourself, so you know what he can expect.
 Cape Sunshine
Joined: 8/11/2009
Msg: 10
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Posted: 3/9/2010 12:20:31 PM

Do you know about the internet?


Ok, then you posters that are over 53 post the pics for us...


I am having fun with this...

I am waiting...
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 3/9/2010 12:21:46 PM
39 .......asking this kind of question.......and throwing gangsta signs in your profile pics....
He's not too old for you.........you're too young for him - mentally.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 12
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Posted: 3/9/2010 12:31:04 PM

Do older men have older looking penis's???



As far as looks go, I don't know how fifty years of being a penis measures up to 40 years of being a vagina; but I'd say distinguished might be a kinder term than old looking.
 Irish Eyez
Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 13
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Posted: 3/9/2010 12:40:33 PM
Jesus.... what a question.

And you're how old, OP?
 FriendlyFreeSpirit
Joined: 7/27/2009
Msg: 14
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Posted: 3/9/2010 12:46:10 PM
Well, their penises don't look all that different. But their cojones....
It really depends on how old you're talking, OP.
Maybe it's coz I'm 53, but 53 isn't coffin material, imo.
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 15
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Posted: 3/9/2010 12:52:57 PM
Naw, it doesn't look any different, when it gets hard it stretches all the wrinkles out, and most use hair coloring, at least those who don't shave. Now, when men get even older, some use an iron on it everyday to smooth out the wrinkles. Haven't you heard about the new make up kits for old ****?

Silly girl...
 Arpeggia
Joined: 1/15/2008
Msg: 16
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Posted: 3/9/2010 1:09:30 PM
The sex is usually pretty good until it (his penis) falls off and turns to dust... Just hate that...
 verityone
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Posted: 3/9/2010 1:10:55 PM

Do you know about the internet? It's a big global network of computers you can use from home. You can use a web browser to look at internet sites. Some of those sites have pictures of naked men. I bet if you looked around you could find some pictures of 53-year-old men and see for yourself. While you're at it, you might want to look at some 39-year-old women, and see if you can find one who resembles yourself, so you know what he can expect.



As far as looks go, I don't know how fifty years of being a penis measures up to 40 years of being a vagina; but I'd say distinguished might be a kinder term than old looking.


The two most prize winning posts on POF, today.

Everybody else can just observe. There's nothing that can top these...

At least I'm hoping not...
 TheToefactor
Joined: 2/11/2009
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How is sex with an older man?
Posted: 3/9/2010 1:15:53 PM

I have been corresponding with this older man and he seems great in every way. I am 39 and he is 53.
I never dating anyone that age or had sex with someone older. Is it different.... Do older men have older looking penis's???



I'm sure once you get past the used part you'll be fine.
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 3/9/2010 1:20:24 PM

... he is 53.

Ahhh ... dear OP, man in his 50-s is a man full of beans! (Nothing to do with wind but full of energy).
You would be in good steady hands.
 SingleGuy4912
Joined: 7/25/2006
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Posted: 3/9/2010 2:20:41 PM
Do older men have older looking penis's???

Why, yes they do. Older looking and with gray hair. Also shrunken and wrinkly. Like a raisin. Or a big prune. His balls are also probably down to his knees.


 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 21
How is sex with an older man?
Posted: 3/9/2010 2:36:32 PM
yes big changes! after 40 our penises start to grow bigger/harder and stay up for hours upon hours...

also our tongues get longer, softer and do this flicking thing caused by the extra muscles that grow inside them...

 migivadamsbusted
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 22
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Posted: 3/9/2010 2:42:06 PM
oh yes, older mens penis are all wrinkled up, pea size and work about 3% of the time, on their good days!
 Juste moi Danielle
Joined: 7/8/2009
Msg: 23
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Posted: 3/9/2010 2:42:13 PM
Depends now...can this old penis walk unassisted? Get up by itself or with a minimum of assistance? And can it find and use the ...um... little girl's room with a reasonable degree of completion and success?

You are joking right OP?

 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 3/9/2010 3:06:57 PM
I'm still trying to wrap my head around her being 40 and thinking 53 is old
At 53, I was a very "active" guy.
I can't imagine what's going on in her head that she suspects 53 might be bordering on decrepitude!
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
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Posted: 3/9/2010 3:15:48 PM
I'm sure it would be awesome.
LOL

OK, I'm abit biased.
(being slightly older.)

OK, the real answer would be depends on the guy and his health.
An older guy with good genes and health can be a stud till he drops dead at 100.
but with health issues a guy can be a dud at 30.

find out if he smokes, takes any meds, health history.
Worst case....
Cialis can overcome most ills of old age.
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