| | Am I wrong?Page 1 of 4 (1, 2, 3, 4) | Ok I know this is going to sound terrible but I can’t help it and I need some serious help on what to do… I met this great guy, we click and get along and everything the downfall is that his penis is the size of a bic lighter … and ya they say its not about the size but how they move the boat or some crap like that… but really the boat movements aren’t that great either. I am a very sexual person and enjoy sex A LOT! But if I stay with this guy I’ll only end up cheating on him due to my needs not being fulfilled and there is only so many toys a girl can buy before the real thing is needed… and Yes I know that sex isnt everything in a relatshionship but it is a huge part and I feel that you both should be enjoying it not just one....
I swear you men should wear a sign around your necks stating you pecker size..... | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 9:00:53 PM | | Give the guy a test drive. If you don't like the ride, try another model. You just might be surprised at the handling and suspension... never mind the head room. | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 9:04:21 PM | I did!!! a few times cus I thought Hell everyone has off days but nope... still the same as the first... but litterly that is the only thing this guys has wrong with him lol, he is great in every other way... So what do I say to end it? "Sorry sweetie your penis just aint cut out to whats it should be"? lol ahhh this sucks | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 9:19:36 PM | Men break off w/ women all the time for the "incompatibly"factor Just say that you aren't a match or something...I'm sure he knows he's Mr. Smalls already.Or you could say in a joking manner that your whoha is ginormus !
Yeah WTCM you're prolly get shredded in here for that sign remark/and or this will get deleted in 3....2....1... | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 9:21:00 PM | I would never tell someone that.... I can be mean sometimes but never like that..
And I agree some women are larger down there, but is that cus they Fuked themselves that large or did they pop out a few kids?
And btw it was your post on the other fourm that made me come up with this lol... | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 9:30:02 PM |
I met this great guy, we click and get along and everything the downfall is that his penis is the size of a bic lighter. But if I stay with this guy I’ll only end up cheating on him due to my needs not being fulfilled and there is only so many toys a girl can buy before the real thing is needed… but litterly that is the only thing this guys has wrong with him lol, he is great in every other way...
You mention several times how great a guy he is, but then in the same breath mention that you'd cheat on him? Jesus, cut the guy loose so that HE can find someone who deserves him and you can find a guy with the yule log you're looking for. | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 9:40:51 PM | | Ask him to take off his watch and his rings, lube his arm up to the elbow, and tell him you need help retrieving the 2 liter soda bottle that's up in there somewhere. Maybe he can help you feel jammed full without flicking his Bic. | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 9:43:59 PM | OP...you don't have to tell him he doesn't fit... Just tell him your "EX royal screwed you" and ruined you for further relationships. He will thank you for that and leave. | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 9:45:08 PM |
And I agree some women are larger down there, but is that cus they Fuked themselves that large or did they pop out a few kids?
You really aren't that clueless ........are you?
Cut the poor guy loose.....he deserves someone that can accept him for who he is. | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 9:58:43 PM | Am I wrong: Yes.
Ok I know this is going to sound terrible but I can’t help it Oh! here it comes...
I know that sex isnt everything in a relatshionship For you it is - obviously.
great guy, we click and get along and everything Let the man be, his kind is in great demand in the market.
I swear you men should wear a sign around your necks stating you pecker size... Pick one from a sex site, they wear the sign, and they are listed according to size.
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 10:00:08 PM | | Why don't you go F yourself? There's one that attaches to a boat motor, that should do the trick. You can slip some extenze in his wheaties each morning or get him a penis pump. I'm sure he would be thrilled if he read this post. | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 10:53:44 PM | You are not wrong. You need what you need. You like what you like. Now deal with it. But NO cruelty to another fellow human. Can you manage that? Treat him as you would hope to be treated if the sitch were reversed. You'll figure it out, I know you will.
Many threads of late have made it ABUNDANTLY clear that size does indeed matter. | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 10:56:14 PM | oh give me a break!!!
perhaps you should wear a sign around your neck saying you have a huge vagina!!! | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 11:03:47 PM | Op,DONT cheat on this guy...............too cruel.
Some men aren't hugely endowed but they make up for it in so many other ways...... *wink*....
On the other hand,if you cant get any sexual satisfaction from him,you'd be best to end the relationship,if this is such an issue for you.
Just be diplomatic and thoughtful.
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 11:21:57 PM | Tell him what you like, make him do what makes you feel good... Make him use his hands and mouth... Communication is the key...
If you want the Motion of the Ocean to be different, you gotta tell him what you want and how you want it... Don't just "Test Drive" him and hope he gets better... He isn't going to get better until you direct him in the direction he needs to go... | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 11:27:49 PM | I wont cheat! im not the type I dont like when it happens to me so why do on to others right?
But I know if I were to get attached to him there is that chance that it would happen...
I think it dose need to end before that even comes close to being an issue...
any ideas what i should say to him? | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 11:29:45 PM | I have tried, but I also have been trying not to get that attached to him and have been holding him at arms length in hopes that he dosent get that attached to me too...
I just dont see it working out | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 11:48:14 PM | honestly my dear, to begin id like to say if his junk cant fill your trunk.... maybe hes the type who is willing to use things on you... alot of guys are into that these days... also there are toys like the suction cup dildo (looks and feels real and it sticks to walls chairs you name it) that can easily satiate your urges.
i think for me ... i realized at an early age that, sex is great and all... but having an honest to goodness companion is far more important.
but if he just doesnt do it for you, try sudjestion using toys together... it sure rocked my world when my ex did it for me.... | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/10/2010 11:48:43 PM | and no i dont think your wrong... you have to do whats right for you in the end. | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/11/2010 1:30:40 AM | The best sex I ever had was with a guy that was/is on the small side. He was absolutely amazing. I still think about him sometimes. Technique makes ALL the difference.

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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/11/2010 2:21:51 AM |
And btw it was your post on the other forum that made me come up with this lol...
Sooo...is it a real case or did you just get the idea from another poster and decide to make something up?
If it's a real case, you probably don't have to say anything. If the sex isn't good for you, it's a fairly safe bet that it isn't good for him. He's probably off telling all his friends how loose you were and how the sex wasn't any good, so you can just sit tight and wait to be dumped! :)
I hope that helps you with your 'dilemma'. | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/11/2010 2:49:37 AM | You say that you enjoy sex a lot, but good sex is much more about what size his penis is. What about all the touching, kissing, licking and everything else that goes with it?!
Disgracefully shallow and he deserves better I'm afraid... | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/11/2010 2:58:11 AM | If you are sexually incompatible, then you are sexually incompatible.
Clearly you arent happy, so just move on with grace. | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/11/2010 2:58:22 AM | There are three things you need in a relationship: Intellectual, emotional and physical satisfaction. If one of those areas isn't fulfilled, the relationship collapses.
Clearly you aren't satisfied with the guy as-is. Tell him, break up and move on.
I mean, if you can tell perfect strangers about the guy's poor performance, you should be able to have the conversation with him! | |
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| Am I wrong? Posted: 3/11/2010 3:21:35 AM | lol... that was hilariously honest hehe... however i do not agree...
relationships only collaps if you let them
if you seek 5 qualities for example and get for outta five, then great. and honestly... even if a partner meets every quality you desire,.... reguardless the relationship will collaps if you only look at superficial things as well as the fact that reguardless how perfect or flawed a relationship is it takes hard work every day. Perfect example.... divorce. case and point.
but again.... whats important at any point in your life... is to do what feels right for you. just dont forget, whatever you choose will still take hard work, honesty, and sacrifice. | |
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