| | How many others here are trying to have a relationship with a dead body?Page 1 of 5 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5) | Just curious... I often see much turmoil happening with people's relationships. I wonder just how many of you experience the situation - you and your partner both agree to have sex - then suddenly, out of the blue, for "no apparent reason" your partner acts "like a dead body" - and you are left dumb founded? Is this common with others out there? What is your opinion and experiences? And by the way...lack of deodorant is not the issue here. | |
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| How many others here are trying to have a relationship with a dead body?
Posted: 3/12/2010 8:55:25 PM | OP..what are you going on about? why here?? anyone having sex with a dead body wont admit it because then they'd be admitting to something linking them to a crime!!..
seriously...what are you going on about...i bet you complained about stupid shit one too many times and it was her way of making herself unappealing..making it charity sex so she wouldnt have to deal with you again... | |
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mibra
| | Joined: 8/30/2008
Msg: 8 | |
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| How many others here are trying to have a relationship with a dead body?
Posted: 3/12/2010 9:08:02 PM | I was actually in a relationship with a guy that towards the end of it I really didn't want to have sex with him anymore. He would beg and say if I just stuck my ass in the air he would be satisfied, so I finally obliged!
I haven't ever had someone do that to me, though! | |
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| How many others here are trying to have a relationship with a dead body?
Posted: 3/12/2010 9:18:48 PM |
Well ...perhaps you have met the wrong men? My experiences have been that if both partners experience orgasms, they are both quite relaxed, even hungry for more I don't think it's that she's met the wrong men, as much as each person's experience is different. I'm almost never sleepy after the act.
As to your question about person becomes like a dead body, I would say, there is lack of desire on her part, and/or serious resentment, showing up as "you can take it, because I don't have the guts to deny you, but I'm hating every minute of it." I think you need to speak to your mate, in a relaxed atmosphere, away from the bed. Something she is feeling, she is not sharing with you thus far.
Good luck, M | |
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| How many others here are trying to have a relationship with a dead body?
Posted: 3/12/2010 9:31:07 PM | OP....I just read your profile and had to laugh!!! I now know why you've had that experience, of you partner acting "like a dead body", you state,
If you smoke, drink, eat, breath, drive, work, are active in something -
OR - don't smoke, don't drink, don't eat much, don't breath much, don't drive, don't work much, or are trying to find to be active in something - We do have something to talk about - Do you agree?
Emphasis on the "dont' breath much"..... "like a dead body" ...Maybe you should up your requirements! | |
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| How many others here are trying to have a relationship with a dead body?
Posted: 3/12/2010 9:51:26 PM | | After reading the OP and thinking about it for a bit, I would have to say I'd rather date someone who played dead once in a while instead of someone who insisted on humping like a porn star every damn time u get naked. Got to the point that I looked for a camera after a while :) Seriously, it gets annoying after a while. | |
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mibra
| | Joined: 8/30/2008
Msg: 20 | |
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| How many others here are trying to have a relationship with a dead body?
Posted: 3/13/2010 12:35:55 AM | Fortunately, I have never experienced any relationship in the last 14 years where either of us 'played dead' Sex after the divorce has been an adventure for me & something I sincerely enjoy !
I only played 'dead' when I was married.. and towards the end. I sincerely believe in the Marriage vows and waited until he had violated every single one of them before I walked out the door with my kid and a car to start a new life.
My reasons? Plural.......and justifiable.
He treated me less than a human being. His nick name for me was "The Mule"
I herniated a disk @ 25 yrs old and he left me on the floor - told me it was all my fault because I had gotten so fat. (I had just given birth to 10lbs 5 oz baby!) He refused to help me physically and refused to take care of our 10month old daughter. It took 2 years of daily rehab to recover and I received no empathy from him.
I could never do anything right to please him.
Example: He'd complain the house smelled like bleach because I had been cleaning again... I cooked a gourmet meal and he accused me of trying to kill him with Cholesterol! I did all of the yard work, housekeeping, worked FT and went to school at night. Took care of our daughter, laundry, you name it... I did it.
I was his target whenever something went wrong in his life. He punched me in the chest once while I had my daughter in my arms (she had thrown up & I woke him up to help me) I Slept on the couch for 3 days and asked him when he was going to apologize... NOPE wouldn't do it AND it was MY FAULT for waking him up and I DESERVED it.
He REFUSED to shower and had a body odor that smelled like motor oil even when he showered. I started getting 'girlie issues' after we had sex and I BEGGED him to shower.. NOPE he wouldn't do it. He'd leave his hairy grey/brown soapy washcloths in the bathroom for me to pick up after he did his 'sponge bath' ICK! He had halitosis so bad you could smell his breath 15 feet away. I'd ask him to use breath mints and brush... NOPE he wouldn't do it.
I refused to participate in any sexual relationship until he started treating me with respect, start taking regular showers, start helping around the house and treat me as a wife.....not a slave. Guess what? NOPE he wouldn't do it. His Therapist even told him: "You wonder why she doesn't want to have sex with you?" and when he no showed for the next appt. to get drunk and shoot guns with his buddy's she called me and literally "wished me luck".
No regrets on my part - I know I gave that man 200% effort and the final straw was when I busted him trying to hook up with other women on the internet. So it's a good thing I refrained for 3 years .... OMG and he was telling them he looked like Clint Eastwood ! He seriously looks like the cartoon buzzard from the Looney Toons in RL....
I even resorted to telling him to go F a tree with a knothole in it... cause that's what he'd be getting with me....
So if anyone is playing dead ...my opinion is that they have probably lost their emotional attachment and/or attraction to you. Their reason may be justifiable and one that can be fixed - you just have to talk to them about it listen intently and take their concerns seriously.
My situation was severe and I have vowed to never let another person degrade me, abuse me, use me and suck the life out of me. When I left him I felt like a caged bird set free! And I DID TELL people what was happening: General consensus was "at least he doesn't beat you" My church home teacher even came to my house and told me to take him back! REGARDLESS of what / how he was treating me & he had already found my 'replacement' wench.
There should be no doubt why I want to be treated like I'm a 'special' human being.
Note: I did try to 'rekindle' the flame by giving him a 'real bath' with candles, scented soap, bubble bath, a silky nightie.... when we moved to the bedroom for his 'massage' he accidentally pushed the bed pillows onto the candles on the nightstand and they caught on fire! Kind of killed the mood since I was the one to put out the flames and was covered in soot... I took it as an omen (lol) | |
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