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I'm interested in knowing what people think... | |
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Posted: 10/28/2004 5:23:22 PM | OMG, how many times am I going to see a topic like this one.
There is nothing wrong with it. CaseClosed. | |
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Posted: 10/28/2004 5:27:07 PM | I'm sorry...
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I'm fairly new to this place I guess...
I've never seen the topic discussed in a thread that didn't seem overtly racist....
That and, I just wanted to know what the group thought... | |
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Posted: 10/28/2004 5:29:06 PM | | I see nothing wrong with it at all. I think I did post that somewhere else. | |
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Posted: 10/28/2004 5:34:20 PM | | My ex-husband is bi-racial, and so my youngest daughter is also. I see nothing wrong with interracial dating....and dread the day someone has something derogatory to say about my little girl. To be honest, I didn't realize that he was bi-racial until we got married...he was just a person...I was actually darker than he was when I met him because I had been going to the tanning bed and he is really light skinned. I know some people say that his race is part of the reason our marriage didn't work...but the truth is an a#$ is an A@# no matter what the race. So, I would date interracially again.... | |
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Posted: 10/29/2004 12:18:07 AM | Echoing 'Checkmate's" call:
"There is nothing wrong with it. Case Closed!!!" | |
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Posted: 10/29/2004 1:14:12 AM | | checkmate, with all the due respect man, perpetual didn't deserve that first start from you, come on man, she was just asking!! | |
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Posted: 10/29/2004 1:20:28 AM | sunshine, that was quite broadminded and understanding, thanks.
To me, all that matters is are you in the package that i consider nice? that's it! doesn't matter if you are blue, pink, yellow, but that's just me | |
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Posted: 10/29/2004 1:57:05 AM | | I had some people responding to me when I first came into this scene, until I posted my family and friends piks....you can see drop offs, and it initially hurt. But actually, it just reinforces the values that I have for myself. To know someone is a mindset-past skin, and only time can evaluate the importance of every relationship.Every email I get now, with my broader definition of myself, is more relative to what I want, and need in my friendships. This is very mental, very intimate, and always colorless. Good luck to all of you here. Being extremely honest with yourself will guide your way. And it will be a positive influence on you, and those around you. Your profile is a learning experience, and as you get responses from other people, you will have the ability to filter what you do and don't want from others. This will in some aspects help you out in everyday life- what you will and won't desire out of another human being. Take care ~ Lisa | |
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Posted: 10/29/2004 1:59:43 AM | The topic is quite OK, Perpetual.
I'm simply agreeing with 'Checkmate's' opinion on the matter. | |
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Posted: 10/29/2004 2:07:13 AM | | as long as the couple is happy who gives a flying f*ck what others think:) | |
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Sundog
| | Joined: 8/23/2004
Msg: 13 | |
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Posted: 10/29/2004 2:19:14 AM | I limit my dating to people, if they fall into that catigory I'm game  | |
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Posted: 10/29/2004 2:25:35 AM | Welcome to the Forum, sundog.
Yup, you just can't go wrong that way... | |
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joe333
| | Joined: 9/21/2004
Msg: 15 | |
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Phil34
| | Joined: 10/28/2004
Msg: 17 | |
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Posted: 10/30/2004 5:03:54 PM | | I'm not saying it's wrong but God made different colors for a reason. | |
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Posted: 10/31/2004 5:14:43 AM | | phil34...yeah, he did. He made us different sexes also, different heights, different weights, different pretty much in every way. The inside is what makes the difference. And, the inside is what matters, not the external packaging. | |
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Roaul
| | Joined: 4/14/2004
Msg: 19 | |
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Posted: 10/31/2004 7:58:34 AM | | way to go sunshine we are all unique no matter what colour,sex weight,height,religion,beliefs. get to know the person rather than their external packaging | |
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Posted: 10/31/2004 9:57:07 AM | | I think interracial dating is really cool. You get to know, up close and personal, more things about someone else and their culture. Date the person, not the race. | |
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Posted: 10/31/2004 11:48:32 AM | There is beauty in all people, no matter the difference and the difference is so small by comparison.
I personally am open to any and all things.
What I am really looking for is someone who can stand my horrible sense of humor and avid love for anime teens.
I don't care what ethnicity she is, only that we can laugh with each other and make sweet angry love next to a McDonald’s dumpster. Kinky? Perhaps. Insane? Definitely.
"Want fries with that?" "Yeah, super size me." 
Random Movie Quote:
Ace: The urine stain on your pants signifies that you are a single-shake man, far too busy for the follow-up jiggle.
Ace Ventura: When Nature Calls | |
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Posted: 10/31/2004 12:18:55 PM | Iam "dating" a wonderful guy,,he is muzlim(sorry about the spelling),,anyway iam
white,,i have NO problem with his back ground,,but his mom does,,she doesnt want him dating anyone outside his race,,he has kept me a "secret"which bugs me,,he says he doesnt want his mom "nagging"at him about me being white..am i wasting my time? | |
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Posted: 10/31/2004 3:03:16 PM | well... i think this is a great topic! :) i've been there, done that, got the permanent t-shirt (my son) and as nice as all the replies are that you got... that's not reality. i'm obviously white and my son's father is black. the problems we've had to deal with and the adversity that we've had to overcome has been hurendous! i can't tell you how many times people asked me if i was babysitting, called my kid the "N" word, teased him because they couldn't tell what nationality he was, the list goes on my dear.
so for those of you who don't mind interacial dating, talk to me once you've had interacial children. my son is awesome and through all i've taught him he's become very culturally aware and sensitive. but... if i had it to do all over again, i wouldn't lay that burden on my child. it's easier, believe it or not, to stick with your own race when procreating because this society is still not as tolerant as you may con yourself into believing. it's sad but true. had i not been through what i've been through because of my choice to indulge in interacial dating i might feel different but that's not what happened with/to me so i'd have to warn against it for the long term. | |
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Posted: 10/31/2004 3:18:37 PM | | I believe that the impact on the children all depends on where you live. I have a two and a half year old bi-racial daughter. She is beautiful. And, she is my world. I have had no bad experiences so far, at least not that severely impacted me. Yeah, I might have the occasional person who says "Wow she is so Beautiful, I love her skin tone....is her daddy black?" Well, maybe it is me, but I don't take that as a bad comment. I know that all reality is that one day she will be questioned about it, and I will be holding a little girl who doesn't understand why she was called that word, but all I can do is be on my guard and attempt to educate the people she will come in contact with. No matter what her fathers race, he is a person, and I thank God that I was lucky enough to have this beautiful child in my life. People who call your son names and do the things that you have said would do the same to anyone a little different. It is their ignorance and one day they will have to answer for being cruel to a child. I am sorry that you and he went through that though. | |
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Posted: 10/31/2004 3:36:18 PM | | i think that if it works dont mess with it , i actualy every one ive dated has ben a interracial and i have enjoyed all thier company ,and love them all .and i think if its just not what you can handle (diffrent culture and family values and what all comes with it ) just dont do it and hurt others and yourself .keep the peace and just love | |
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