| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/15/2005 5:35:44 PM | | Does any one else agree with no sex before marriage or am I the only one who think that this is a good idea???????????????????????????? | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/15/2005 5:38:37 PM | | I'd want to wait until engaged... better to know before the vows in my opinion. I want to make sure that we are sexually compatible. | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/15/2005 5:40:56 PM | | Well I was raise to save it for marriage and I am dedicated to that. | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/15/2005 5:59:25 PM | | ok I have to say that when that little "rule" about sex before marriage was invented people got married as soon as they hit puberty. Nowadays when people are waiting until their mid 20's to get married it is stupid to think that the biological clock has shifted. Think about you body was made to have sex at 12-15 not to start at 28. A girlfriend of mine waited as did her husband until they were married at 28 and let me tell you I have never seen a woman so scared of sex. Nothing really good could come out of it except to know that your wedding night will be painful and not at all pleasurable | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/15/2005 6:10:04 PM | ^^^^ I have to disagree with you...I think that if someone has decided to make that commitment to their god, then that is their own choice. Even if this means waiting until they are 28 to have sex...I think that even though it may very well be painful and not pleasurable, just KNOWING that you have saved yourself for that one person holds its own level of pleasure and emotion.
I am not saying that this is right for everyone, I am just saying that if someone makes this choice, who am I to judge their decision just because I didn't make that same decision?
There were times that I wished that I had waited to lose my virginity till my night of marriage, but now I am sure glad that I didn't because my now exhusband did not deserve my virginity the way that my first boyfriend did.
 Jenn | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/15/2005 8:12:33 PM | jrj, I dont think anyone will notice if your "hymen" isn't intact... | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/15/2005 8:53:15 PM | jrj, noticed in your pic that you have the "just pumped the neighbor's cat" look on your face...Does that count as premarital?
just kidding dude...lol | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/15/2005 9:31:46 PM | | I think my dyslexia is acting up....that says no marrige before sex,right??? seriously only if both are still virgins...I once married a virgin, I loved her madly, but the differences in our sexual appetites,desires,ect. proved to be tedious at best. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2005 4:58:13 AM | | jrj.....In today's society, it's all about instant gratification .....the "I gotta have it now!" mentalality...If not having sex before you are married is something you firmly believe in, stand by your convictions and don't worry what other people think. | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/16/2005 5:41:14 AM | no sex before marriage!!!!
well since i blew that idea all to hell might as well just keep things the way they are. kudos to those who wait though..i think its ok to wait for the right person.but then again i am 37 and haven't found the "right" person. gawd.if i waited till i was married i might be tempted to check myself into a nice room at the asylum.. | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/16/2005 6:03:39 AM |
jrj.....In today's society, it's all about instant gratification .....the "I gotta have it now!" mentalality...If not having sex before you are married is something you firmly believe in, stand by your convictions and don't worry what other people think.
absolutely! If your religious principles are such that you are going to feel like a failure for having had premarital sex, then by all means stick to your own personal code of morality.
At the end of the day it's YOU who is your final moral judge. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2005 7:29:19 AM | Another reason why religion has failed me! If I allowed my faith to keep me from getting laid, and NOT to enjoy sex with multi partners before I pick "the one" then there is something wrong with "religion" in general.
Sorry, I didn't want to bring that up...but I think it's just silly NOT to explore your sexuality before you stay with one person.
-michael | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/16/2005 7:37:39 AM | i don't at all regret having some experiences before marriage...but i did often wish i had waited until i was older....when i was more comfortable with my body before sharing it with someone else.
but whether it's a religious issue....just a moral issue...a comfort issue....or you plan to get married at 14...do what makes you the most comfortable. but i would recommend some serious masturbation first....just so *you at least have a clue! | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/16/2005 7:40:19 AM | "....just so *you at least have a clue! "
<-----------------Still has NO fricking clue!
OT: to each their own | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/16/2005 7:41:56 AM | ------Still has NO fricking clue!
WTF, sweetie? get back up to that there vacation spot and GET one! | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/16/2005 7:49:53 AM |  on my way...except I think that I need to head NORTH....
OT: whatever floats ur boat (teehee ky, I said "ur"  ) | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/16/2005 7:54:32 AM | (teehee ky, I said "ur"
i caught that....and it isn't quite as annoying on you. but that's cause i already know you're brilliant!
OT: ummm....i had sex before marriage...which is a good thing...cause i'm sure as hell not getting any NOW. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2005 7:56:16 AM | | OK, no sex before marriage; if the nooky isn't up to par, BAM!! Annullment. Ladies, it's for your own good we want it in advance. If the wedding night doesn't ROCK, you've lost us.... | |
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| No sex before marriage
Posted: 7/16/2005 7:59:55 AM | Not on your life... you do not walk onto a car dealership and buy a car without taking it for a test drive... this is a much bigger investment, the car you can sell and buy another one... very hard to move from one marriage to another one...
Before you make a purchase, always check under teh hood to ensure that everything is working... make sure there is a good warranty and no rust... | |
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