| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 2:04:52 AM | | I Myself, Never Have And Never Will Cheat. (And, I CAN say never.) Why, because there is no need to put someone through that pain, and disrespect; when you can just respectfully break up with them. Am I alone here? I know lots of women will show, but come on men, show yourselves! I'm thinking we're rare as can be, show me I'm wrong. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 2:09:15 AM | | I have not cheated thus far and, hopefully, I never will. I have a big issue with hurting other people and breaking that boundary of trust I work so hard to get. Why would I want to damage that? | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 2:13:25 AM | I personally think you never can say never.
All can happen to you and you do not know never in which way you will react. Maybe they put you in a situation like. If you do not cheat your wife we will kill you. I was just putting a hypotetical situation, but for sure you will cheat then cos you will want to survive.
For me nothing is bad thing when people is honest, I mean if someone makes a mistake and explain to the partner on time it is ok. You had an one night stand with someone and then you regret and you explain to the partner and to try to keep the things good.
But in most of the cases people is affraid to tell the true, then sometimes you find the true thought someone else, cos the true is something that sooner or later always comes out. And then it is when I consider a betray.
Cos we all humans we all can make mistakes, I can understand that, but the thing that I do not understand it is when people lie to you in a persitant way. They maybe think I was born yesterday | |
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| bored and lonely like always
Posted: 7/17/2005 2:32:01 AM | | I beleive in being faithful because it show's recpect. I know alot of relationship's mostly end with someone cheating. It's an excuse because thier to chicken to tell you thier not happy. | |
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| bored and lonely like always
Posted: 7/17/2005 2:43:12 AM | Never have, never will.
I've had the opportunity, and turned it down so fast, she didn't even see me leave.
I don't have any respect for people who have cheated on others. It shows cowardice and lack of character. | |
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| bored and lonely like always
Posted: 7/17/2005 4:28:53 AM | Never have and I can say never will because because it's happened to me and the pain it causes is one I will never inflict on another.
Here's the way I look at it:
If you want to be with me....then be with me.
If you want someone else then leave.
I'll treat you with the same respect you treat me. | |
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| bored and lonely like always
Posted: 7/17/2005 4:35:54 AM | | It's a moot point when you can't get laid anyway. Lack of opportunity!!!!! I owe my virtue to my genes and choice of clothing. | |
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| bored and lonely like always
Posted: 7/17/2005 4:54:24 AM | | I've never cheated and never will. I can absolutely say never. I was dating a guy who cheated on me, and I only found out when he made a *stupid* mistake in sneeking around. Afterword he was very apologetic and wanted me to forgive him. Nuh-uh. No way. Never. If you cheat on me, you can rest assured that you will never see me again. | |
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| bored and lonely like always
Posted: 7/17/2005 5:13:06 AM | I'm never going to get into a situation where that could happen.
I'm so nutso about my man that I'm not interested in anyone else, BUT I know what a strong force the sex drive can be. It can shut down your thinking mind. So I'm not going to be alone with any other man. Therefore, it can't happen. | |
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| bored and lonely like always
Posted: 7/17/2005 5:33:25 AM | | Never cheated!!! Never once even THOUGHT about cheating! When I love, I love with my WHOLE heart! No way I could cheat even if I wanted to. | |
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| bored and lonely like always
Posted: 7/17/2005 5:41:54 AM | Damn ..I can say all I want but ..who is going to believe me...
my pals who do believe me ..thought I was either gay or impotent | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 6:11:06 AM |
I personally think you never can say never.
All can happen to you and you do not know never in which way you will react. Maybe they put you in a situation like. If you do not cheat your wife we will kill you. I was just putting a hypotetical situation, but for sure you will cheat then cos you will want to survive.
For me nothing is bad thing when people is honest, I mean if someone makes a mistake and explain to the partner on time it is ok. You had an one night stand with someone and then you regret and you explain to the partner and to try to keep the things good.
But in most of the cases people is affraid to tell the true, then sometimes you find the true thought someone else, cos the true is something that sooner or later always comes out. And then it is when I consider a betray.
Cos we all humans we all can make mistakes, I can understand that, but the thing that I do not understand it is when people lie to you in a persitant way. They maybe think I was born yesterday
Sorry but I have to disagree with you...I have never and will never cheat on my partner...
It is NOT ok to cheat...period...if I find out my partner has cheated on me then it is over...permanently, end of story....
It is a commitment that one makes to another, if that commitment is not honoured then why would I want to be with that person anymore...
And to suggest that someone would say "cheat on your wife or we kill you", come on, in what world is that going to happen...this sounds like a line from someone who is all to willing to cheat on a partner... | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 6:13:53 AM | | Asgood, I have never cheated, and never will. I joke some, but never cheat. I have constantly made that clear in here. I don't get e-mail except a few. I'm not liked all that much, but who cares? At least I don't hit on women seriously, and they know it. Mostly I avoid any real relationship with women, even as friends. Misunderstandings are rampant. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 6:35:03 AM | | I have never cheated on anyone and never will because of the reasons you said, plus I have too much self respect to act like that. Even if the person never knew, I would know and it woudl just make me feel nasty and dirty. I believe in one on one. Sex is great but I am not an animal and just can't be with more than one man at a time. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 6:54:26 AM | I have never cheated, never even considered cheating and can say that that is something I absolutely would never lower myself to do. My ex cheated and when I found out, was kicked out on our 10th anniversary. I was not only heartbroken, but I was terrified about how I would be able to do everything and raise 4 children on my own. As scared as I was, I was not going to stay with someone who obviously didn't want to be there.
It's a pain that I would never inflict on anyone...ever. | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 7:14:33 AM | | AsGoodAssItGets: you are not alone my friend.. I think like you, but I think that I do not cheat because of respect to myself. I would feel like I betray myself if I fell..Does that sound crazy? | |
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| Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 7/17/2005 7:20:19 AM | I have never cheated and I will never cheat. I can say I never will because I know the pain that cheating causes, and I will never inflict that kind of pain on someone else.
I would loose all self respect if I ever cheated.
No joaquin, thats not crazy. | |
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