| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 7/17/2005 4:24:37 PM | | 75% of the time i message a woman, they could be beautiful or not so beautiful, most of them dont reply, and its not like they havn't been on in a month either. I just dont understand, i want a chance with some women, im a very decent guy, i know how to treat a women, but they dont care, they always go for the better looking guys. I just dont understand, why do women do that? | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 7/19/2005 2:09:22 PM | Hehehehehehehehe. Well since i live in Plano too. I am going to reply to this thread. Ladies are so dam picky it’s unbelievable. If you have 100 women in front of you, you might choose 40 of them. If you put 100 men in front of them they may choose 10. But allot of the women on this I see that are not of quality people to meet. I have talked to many of them and, well, their head is out in the space. Its like they figured out men and they already now them so as soon as the mid of the conversation they close the im. Then come back later. But if we do its over. Like as if we disrespected them. The only thing I can truly say to you is. Be on this PF for amusement to see how they think and how they act, and when the right will come it wont be from a dating site. My friend got married from a dating site and now he is dieing to get a divorce. I 2 know how to treat a lady, open the door, go out, dancing, I am into salsa and meringue, and free stile, and also reggeton . I speak 4 languages and im in the reserve have a good job, my own money and car. Do what I want when I want. Weman want a dumb ass so they can tell them what to do. I am to strong and my personality is the senter of attention. Many cant handle it. Well hope you find somebody just not off of this. But I could be wrong one may pop up at me from here. Soooooooo have fun.   | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 7/22/2005 11:31:27 AM | | well from my experiance this would be because some of us are getting 20 or more messages in 5 min. or less and it's hard to reply to everyone or even 2 people per say, cuz we get caught up in one conversation. i guess u just need to be persistent and show a very high interest in order to seperate yourself fron the rest of the guys on here. the guys that do that are the ones i end up talking to. | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 7/24/2005 7:56:09 AM | Did u think sometimes woman are more looking at the men’s looks. Its summer, it’s the time to show off, and a woman needs a show boy. Anyways no were in the message does it say about IM because that what I am assuming you are talking about, Message in email form, so you have time to write back and so forth. Have you read some of the messages woman write.
Here are examples.
EX 1. About Me
ASK ME....
EX 2. About Me
What do you think its alot about the sex
EX 3. About Me
Tell u later
EX 4. About Me
I need to give this some thought...Will have it done soon....
What you expect with all of these people on here who are clueless.
What happened when it was ok to go together in the bus at the movie walk there spend time together. What happened to being together for each other and not for interests?
Why don’t they put who they are versus what people think of them or say what person they want.
Anyways its time for the dating web sites to change. Pictures need to be clearer, deleted account after 10 days of no use. Removed from web site if they ignore excessive amount of people. Stuff like that. Forcing people to really talk to them and tell them here is what’s wrong with u. I take structural criticism pretty good. If a girl tells me well I don’t like this because… and I see its not to bee of important to change I will, if it’s a personality issue then I will tell them back what I may think. Well gots to go byeeee
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 7/25/2005 1:41:27 PM | well i myself made a thread about the same thing and got deleted not realizing i could have just done a search on it lol and here there are so many haha well maybe its true that the women just do get flooded with messeges and by the time they see yours its like OMG i cant beleave all these messeges and get log out lol wish i had that problem myself but maybe its more the men out there messeging the women well ladies i hope u aint looking for mr universe cause usually they are the one that will play you big time! me personally havent played a girl ounce not sure i even know how to be honest with you im not putting myself on a pedistall beleave me im not us not so great looking guys wich maybe i aint so hot but i definetly know how to treat a women with respect! :)
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 7/29/2005 5:26:54 PM | Some women are a bit hypocritical.  Women express that they want a man who is serious about a relationship, can be truthful, want to be friends first, honest, etc... which if you talk to them you find out differently. I understand this is a mutual occurrence.
Women who do not respond to you (try two attempts) forget and move on. She has chosen someone's photo that has appealed to her more. Know this. You'll most likely have the last laugh. I have gone out with a number of women and at least 70% of them told me that they were shocked that I looked like my photo. Most men they finally meet do not look like their photos. Keep your photos real and current.
Well, I get emails from women I'm not interested in. But, I will reply back with a polite," I'm sorry I'm not interested". It's called, "TACT". True, I myself do not get dozens of emails at one time. But, I know you can cut n paste with a reply in under a minute. I try to put myself in the other person's shoes and think how would I feel. This one is called being "considerate".
Physical appearance for men and women plays a big role. People can deny this all day long and it's simply not true if they say it's not part of the deciding factor to contact a person. Next is the personality and things in common.
But, the BIG one is when you meet in person. CHEMISTRY.  That's the big one because it either endorses or rejects the whole package.
Creativity and Humor in your emails can get you in the door.
I completely sympathize with you. Good-Luck! 
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 8/25/2005 6:15:23 PM | | cant speak for everyone but maybe its the 69 in your name. Red flag city. I see 69 in a name and i think oh ok another jerk tryin to pick up chicks for a one nighter. then i read stuff like "i want a chance with some women" and "i know how to treat a women" which is what all pervs say when theyre too chicken to come out and be plain about what they really mean, and you have a chick saying ew im not gonna waste my time on him. Now granted it might not be what you really mean or intend, but you gotta compete with jerks on here and market yourself in a way where you set yourself apart from them, not blend in and become one of them accidentally. | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 8/26/2005 12:31:45 PM | Bigjosh - It's not the "69" that bothers me, you could've been born in 1969. When I went to pull your profile, its hidden. That right there is a big red flag, even a bull wouldn't miss that! I don't respond to men that don't have pictures - what are you hiding there? I know pics aren't a true reflection of a person, because I've been deceived that way too.
Now all of this belly aching on this thread, try living here in "The Price of Prosperity", ooops, I think they mean Plano. If you aren't a size 2; don't have blonde hair; don't have the big boobs (doesn't matter if they are real or fake); live in the right zip code; have the right net worth; right job, guys here won't give me the time of day! It's their loss and my gain. I wouldn't want hundreds of emails a day, but those that I do receive, I will reply back, if I feel there's no match, I'll say so.
While we're on the subject of looks and money, its all easy come and easy go. You've got believe you are worthy, love yourself, and be confident, otherwise, no one wants you. Now, chin up, if you want women to respond to you, sit your butt down, write a creative profile, none of this blah blah blah, stuff, and post a picture! | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 9/8/2005 3:28:38 PM | It's kinda rough generalizing about women and how they treat men, or vice versa. I've have a few (not here) guys who've contacted me and all they wanted was to play cybersex. So if someone would IM me (if ever) I would be very cautious talking with them to see how far it goes without getting weird.
Plus, the thing about no picture, I don't like the feeling of talking to someone for awhile, and you have them pictured in your head and when you see them it's usually not even close...and it's not a matter of whether they're good looking or not, it's just weird like it's a different person to get used to....just a weird feeling. I like seeing who I'm talking to.
And be honest the picture is the first thing that catches your eye and if it's someone who looks like an ogre (oger?) you generally don't read further. And there are some types some people are just not attracted to...some like dark haired guys, some like bald, some guys like skinny girls or heavy girls, etc. So just because you don't pick a person doesn't mean they're ugly, just not the type you like. And we all have our preferences as to what is appealing to us.  | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 9/11/2005 2:41:15 AM | I have no expectations about this site therefor Im never disapointed when one doesnt reply to my hello's.
I have met some extrodinary men off of this site and Im proud to say that I answer all my mail except for the ones who are married or is interested in only an intimate encounter.
Looks have never counted in my books but the charactor is everything. I love spending time with anyone who can make me laugh.
Im not going to apologize for the woman who are just looking for some hottie. Thats up to them but I will wish all of you luck in your area and hopefully you find what your looking for. Or a few responses at any rate.
You all have a fabulous day. | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 9/12/2005 2:11:34 PM | hei I truly agree with u...womens are really picky...and most of the times not even courteous at all to reply ur mail..a simple yes or no...doesnt cost u anything... | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 9/15/2005 8:09:36 AM | Dude... who cares why they don't reply? It's their choice, move on.
I don't mean to rail on ya, but adopt the attitude like that dude in Fasttimes.... Ya gotta act like you don't care if they come stay lay or pray.
Don't fret. | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 9/15/2005 9:29:59 AM | | If people don't reply they don't reply. It's no big deal. At least not to me. I think it's useless to get all worked up because some people don't reply. It's not like your best friend isn't talking to you. It's a profile...on a website...that may or may not be real. Take it for what it is move on and be happy for the responses you get. | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 9/15/2005 10:38:20 AM | Perhaps, you might mention something that shows you've taken the time to actually read her profile in the subject line? We (women) realize that some women simply do not respond, or do not have the capacity to respond to a high volume of messages (single men certainly seem to outnumber single women, on this website)... however, we appreciate your having taken the time to read our profiles, and address us as individuals rather than writing a generic message that we suspect you've already sent a thousand other women, or a hastily typed message that shows that you feel we are not worth your time (i.e; Your Subject Line Here... "How r u?").
Furthermore, if we do not respond, try again... what does it hurt?
Even average women, like myself, become overwhelmed, occasionally. | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 9/29/2005 4:43:36 AM | | Yeah well this can be construed as needy or desperate which I am not....I understand the whole "hang around until I get lucky" philosophy but I'm more of a practioner of the if she reads the profile / messages she might realize what a sweet awesome individual I am rather than choosing to interact with someone who for the 15th time today sends you an IM saying "Hey sugar whats sweet other than you".. | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 9/29/2005 4:47:11 AM | Err.....this statement is incorrect...... trust me on that one J.....(the part about you being average inside and out :)
And I promise to stop bombarding you with emails :) (Ok just kidding :) hehe...
Talk soon and have a wonderful thursday.
PS - And I dunno...but I couldn't write someone without reading a profile.. I mean what you talk about....how beautiful the picture is...hrm.....if a girl was impressed by me soley by how i buttered her picturecup then I would be very scared :)
Even average women, like myself, become overwhelmed, occasional | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 9/30/2005 8:20:10 AM | | But its not just women who don't reply. Why don't guys? Granted my profile's not the best and I'm clueless as to how to start off an e-mail on here. I understand that some guys do get tons of e-mails. But how hard is it to say "Hey thanx for the e-mail."?? | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 10/10/2005 7:16:30 PM | About the profile being hidden... maybe theres a reason. There is a reason i dont have my pic visible, but when i send an email, i always include my pic, and yes it is recent, like a month or 2.
I know i have sent out a few emails.... not wanting anything but just to chat... just like the girls profile asks for, but still no reply... oh well. | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 10/10/2005 7:25:00 PM | | I agree... why not just a "hey thanks for the email, but i am not interested" that would be at the least, polite. If i get an email from a girl who i dont find interested, I give the courtesy to say thanks, or even just e mail just to have a new friend... but i guess i am just weird like that | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 10/10/2005 7:48:06 PM | | Hey now its not just us. I've emailed a lot of guys from the DFW area who are saying they want friends, yet 95% of my emails have been read with no responses. But I try to respond to all my emails unless there's a good reason not to. | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 10/10/2005 8:03:09 PM | Well top reason, would be, because they didn't even take the time to change the title.
Next reason, just because my profile says i JUST want sex, and fun...doesn't mean i want you to treat me like a two bit tramp...
Respect my honestly, and give me credit for being brave enough to BE HONEST! but treat me like a woman or I delete it....like pretty much every woman would. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2006 12:52:44 PM | | well i am like you man wonder why i am an ex soldier and weman dont give me a try i write and write but i only get a few replies and then its usually a one time thing i have yet to meet anyone over the internet so i guess we just got to settle for the drunk ones i guess but weman say they want to meet a nice guy but i think that is bull they want someone with a fat wallet and thats gonna try to controll them and they will call that love but they wont call love someone who is gonna treat them like a queen and treat them with respect well that is thew feeling i get anyway cause you take a woman out and spend all your money on them they are happy but play broke even though you are not they leave ya | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 2/9/2006 5:08:37 PM | You haven't met many women then, or just the wrong ones. And it's not just women who don't reply. I'm no Barbie, but I've tried to start a conversation with a few people and never get a response, or a one or two word response. At least type a whole sentence. I'm not looking for a man's wallet....that's like women saying all the men are looking for is a piece of *ss. Pretty unfair to everyone isn't it?  | |
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| Why do most women not reply or give it a try?
Posted: 2/11/2006 9:03:46 PM | | I just found out a big reason people don't get replies. My pop up blocker was blocking the IM's. I found out accidentally. So check your pop ups that are blocked, might be someone trying to talk to you hahahah | |
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