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| so are girls into senstive guys or those naughty boys?
Posted: 7/17/2005 7:21:34 PM | Ooooh you should be glad you put in the wink. Some people'd pounce on you for that! ^_^ I like nice guys, but there's a difference between someone who will agree with you because they want you to like them and someone who's just kind and caring. BIG difference.
But if he gets sad when a kitten is hurt, I'm all for him! =^_^= | |
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| so are girls into senstive guys or those naughty boys?
Posted: 7/17/2005 9:51:24 PM | | Anything I've ever experienced says girls are into the bad-boy type. Whether they say so or not, the vast majority are. In fact, I'm sure you guys have noticed this classic scenario: "Gosh I sure wish I had a really nice guy for a boyfriend" meanwhile she's out trying to pick up bikers and wife-abusers. It isn't that girls don't know what they want, it's just that they don't know that they know what they want. Long story short, if you're sensitive, pretend you aren't. Even though a girl says she wants a nice guy, she would pass you up in a SECOND for a tough guy. | |
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| so are girls into senstive guys or those naughty boys?
Posted: 7/17/2005 9:55:32 PM | sensitive bad boys,
you are right i guess, most of those hollywood heros/playboys are bad sensitive boys,
mel gibson in "lethal weapon", cries after loosing his wife and is real toughy with bad guys.
patrick swayzie in "dirty dancing", dances, loves and kills and so on.
thats the cliche generations of girls have been brought up on. ;) | |
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| so are girls into senstive guys or those naughty boys?
Posted: 7/18/2005 4:59:58 AM | | I like a good mix. A man who is a man, and who will stand up for me and to me...and someone who is not afraid of his emotions - someone who will still discuss what he is thinking and feeling. | |
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| so are girls into senstive guys or those naughty boys?
Posted: 7/18/2005 12:17:22 PM | Call me crazy, but maybe... just maybe... girls like guys who aren't worrying about whether or not a girl will like them because they're too busy just being themselves.
Stop worrying, just kick back, relax, and focus on having a good time doing what you want to do and someone will come along. Women can smell insecurity like shit on a shoe. | |
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| so are girls into senstive guys or those naughty boys?
Posted: 7/18/2005 1:14:00 PM | | Women are not attracted to wimps, and women are not attracted to boring guys. Women (even "feminist" ones) like to feel protected by a man, and they also like to be stimulated (mentally, emotionally, physically). Nice guys, then, are fine so long as they are not giving off too many "I am a wimp", "I am boring", and (even worse) "I am needy" signals. Bad guys, then, are not appreciated because women like to be abused, but because they don't show wimpy behaviour. So, sure, be kind, thoughtful, and considerate, but also remember to be a man at the same time. | |
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| so are girls into senstive guys or those naughty boys?
Posted: 7/18/2005 3:09:05 PM | ^^Yup^^
It also helps to have the basics down.
Have a good job. Be somewhat reliable.
Be unpredictable. Learn to converse well.
Be funny and learn to play and joke around.
Have a life. Don't be one dimensional.
Be posistive. Respect earns respect.
Be sometimes disagreeable for just sport.
Don't give in or if so, not easily.
Later once you have attractions developed turn on the nice guy.
Remember both parties are "not-themselves" at the start and it is a game in the begining. | |
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| so are girls into senstive guys or those naughty boys?
Posted: 7/18/2005 9:27:14 PM | Call me crazy, but maybe... just maybe... girls like guys who aren't worrying about whether or not a girl will like them because they're too busy just being themselves.
THANK YOU. I agree completely. (Well, maybe not completely, it IS nice to know that they're interested in you "liking" them...  )
For me it's not about "sensitive," "naughty," etc., because it depends on the person. Generally, I really like a man who's just... himself, whoever that is. Upfront about what he's feeling (not that that's always easy) and comfortable with who he is. And, (very important,) "willing to risk looking like a fool for the adventure of being alive," as they say. Love it.
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ATPase
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| so are girls into senstive guys or those naughty boys?
Posted: 7/19/2005 7:07:37 AM | | What's the criteria for being a bad boy or sensitive man? A couple of scars or tattoos? Someone who plays a musical instrument and sings? A poet in a leather jacket and boots? A totally confident guy who DEALS WITH IT, regardless of what IT is? Hmmm... I know a guy JUST LIKE THAT..... | |
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